Im afraid coz soon im going to get marry, but have no experience of having sex....is there anything through which i can give more pleasure to girl\wife.....
2007-09-14 08:16:16 · 27 answers · asked by ally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go slowly and let it be all about her. It will just come naturally, dont worry about it.
good luck
2007-09-14 08:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say that your one heck of a gal to wait until marriage. I know I didn't wait. But anyway.... Relax. I would just say take it one step at a time. Don't force anything, and just let nature take it's own course. Intimacy with your spouse is an incredible thing, but like all things in a marriage there must be work involved. So that both partners are happy and satisfied with the results. Take your time, explore, and see what the both of you like and don't like. Believe me it's definitely worth it in the end. Congrats on your upcoming nuptials.
2016-05-19 05:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would this be her first too? If so, take it very slow. Kissing and carressing each other for a long time. It will come naturally, but just remember...to take everything very slow.
Try to learn more about oral. This should help enhance the experience for both of you.
Congrats.
2007-09-14 08:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by VHE123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focusing more on her needs than your own is a HUGE plus. If it is her first time, too, she will most likely be just as nervous as you are, and maybe downright scared. Go slow and be gentle with her. There will be ample opportunity for rougher things, later on. :)
Take your time to explore each others' bodies. It's the only way you're going to find out what gets her really aroused.
Kudos to you for wanting to please your future wife so much, and congrats on getting married!
2007-09-14 08:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by autumnstarsong 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "The Act of Marriage"
It gives lots of info on how to treat a woman during love making. I think it's great that you're waiting until your married to have sex. That's what my husband and I did...and we read that book too...it gave us lots of good info!
Congrats on getting married!
2007-09-14 08:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sunset42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill and let nature take it's course
don't start worrying yourself about technique
That comes with experience and experimentation
Just enjoy the sharing experience
2007-09-14 08:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure there are candles, and rose petals are always nice. Start with simple foreplay(kissing, touching, etc). Then you can go into oral if you 2 prefer doing that or right into the sexual act...lol Romance her, let her know that you appreciate her and I guarantee you will be treated in the same manner :-)
Good luck, and congrats!
2007-09-14 08:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Trina 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
talk about it with eachother. chances are she is just as nervous as you are. the first time that you have sex with someone is always clumsy, it takes time and respect to learn what your partner likes and also what you like. just go slowly and make sure that it is a positive experience for both of you. lots of kissing and touching are important, and that will make you both relax.
2007-09-14 08:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by I need a time out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. just make her comfortable, things like that happen naturally. kissing leads 2 clothes coming off and then having sex!!! so it'll come naturally...and guys always noe how 2 have sex. just becuz yu have no experience doesn't mean yu dn't noe how 2 satisfy a girl!!!
any guy that has ever had sex thinks they never noe how 2 do it...but in the end they satisfy the girl completely!!! lol =D
2007-09-14 08:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by baby15julie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
massage and touch are a nice way to start the mood. The rest you can figure out on your own. your married to her by then so you are comfortable enough with her to show yourself. and trust me, you'll know when the time is right. Realize this might be hard to grasp now(no pun intended) but you'll get it.
2007-09-14 08:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay, foreplay foreplay! Lots of kissing and touching. Pay attention to what she likes (like when she moans if you touch her a certain place, or breathes heavier when you kiss her) Take your time, and enjoy the foreplay. With your dynomite attitude, you`re going to be just fine. Nothing to be afraid of, just listen and learn.
2007-09-14 08:22:28 · answer #11 · answered by always b natural 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋