2007-09-14 01:42:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't know what to do? Is that why she's divorcing you?
2007-09-14 01:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you have fallen in love with your sister in law or do you just think you are because your wife is divorcing you?
I don't know you but maybe you are hoping to get with her so you won't be on your own?
I would give it a while and wait and see if your sister in law shows you any sign that she likes you to. Is she single??
2007-09-14 01:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by theo's mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a road that you should NOT go down. If you and your wife are divorcing and you and her sis hook up....not good! That will make for very awkward family situations and if there are kids involved....that's even worse! Take some time to straighten out your life and eventually I hope that you meet someone else, that's not an in-law, to spend the rest of your life with. Good luck!
2007-09-14 01:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look don't try to make fool yourself because if you will ask yourself then you will get answer that no one can take place of your wife so just think that what is this love or just affection towards your sister in law. Your sister in law must think that you are married and if she is doing this, she is just ruining her and your life. So just try to console your wife and say her that you will do everything right as early as possible.
2007-09-14 01:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back, relax and clean up your life first before getting involved with anyone else. Your life is going to be complicated for a while and if the divorce is messy then your sister-in-law is probably going to side with her sister so just don't get into something until you have your life straight.
2007-09-14 01:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Wizard Of OS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same thing happen with me i left my ex and while we were seperated but still in the same home my brother passed away...my ex 2 weeks later started dating my sister inlaw..it has been a hugh mess ever since ..becasue of this there was never a chance for him and i to figure things out now we are good frineds and my sister in law hates it...dont go there if u have kids too it just messes with family dynamics its not a good place to be don't go to her out of comfort which is probally what it is more so than being in love ..it's someone who wants u but give urself time to heal give urself a good 6 months to a year and then if the 2 of u hit it off it still screws with the family its not nice on special occasions its very awkward for us all dont do it to many women in the world to go for a family member
2007-09-14 02:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack your bags take long service leave from work and take a holiday to work through your pain over your wife that way you wont remove your feelings from 1 sister to the other and cause a whole lot of pain , you just dont stay in the family when divorce comes up it causes to much pain honestly dont put her sister in the middle of this and cause a huge rift out of something your only rebounding onto.Its not worth it.
2007-09-14 01:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that would desire to truly suck. What a love challenge. i'm particular you be responsive to the version between love and lust so I won't even bypass there. even although you're prepared to in basic terms run away and not care approximately all human beings in touch thoughts, does no longer recommend she might do at as properly. i do no longer wanna %. pictures, yet do no longer you think of you're in basic terms thinking approximately your self? for my area, that's something you will desire to merely no longer tell your spouse( leaving you to be alongside with your sister) at the beginning, announce on your spouse the actuality which you no longer choose for to be along with her. Wait like some months to a twelve months for the wound to heal. Then, if the sensation is impartial between you and her sister, make the circulate. heavily, be certain you're no longer nevertheless in love alongside with your spouse. it would reason the two events quite some soreness. i think undesirable to your spouse. Please do no longer do it on the vacations wait till after
2017-01-02 04:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are in love with your sister in law and not on the rebound? Stay away from the sister in law, she will not date you and would only see you as a nuisance.
2007-09-14 01:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really in love with her or are you in lust with her?
Your statement is to breif to be able to really know what is going on. I think the best advise is to stay out of any opposite gender or sexual relationship until you have had time to mend yourself. Think about it, do you want to go from one sister to another? Think of the problems this will cause, Do you want to have to deal with all of that? And for what? Probably just some short lived sex thrill. Don't do it. Try to keep your marriage alive and well.
2007-09-14 01:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by mrmustang72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit your wife down and calmly tell her you have fallen in love with her sister. You will save a bundle on lawyers when she kills you instead of divorcing you.
And do note that in a divorce, inlaws become outlaws.
2007-09-14 01:56:23 · answer #11 · answered by jcsuperstar714 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋