now is that bad or is it just me..cause to me it seems like we do it a little bit more than we should..and he talks about how he wants us to be together forever. But it doesn't seem like we have as much fun anymore we do the same thing over and over again. WHAT DO I DO???
2007-09-14 01:28:44 · 12 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
enjoy the sex
2007-09-14 01:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's high time for both of you to do some reflection on your relationship. Was "Lust" the main or ONLY factor that brought you two together? If the answer is positive then I guess it's only better to put the idea of "together forever" on hold.
A high level of commitment definitely requires more than just loads of wonderful sex. Instead of waiting for him to plan fun yet non-sexual activities, why don't you do the planning instead? If he is game enough then it shows how sincere he is in getting to know you better in "other departments". You too will learn a thing or two more about him. Hopefully he will be able to see that there are other avenues for both of you to spend quality time together other than sex.
If he is not responding well to your efforts...then gal...it's time for you to re-think about what you want out of this relationship. Take action quick before you end up getting "burnt".
All the best ;)
2007-09-22 03:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by ~RiMaS~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that the relationship is beginning to burn out.. Try to find some different things to revive your relationship. Have you ever tried going camping together . Take along some bikes go for a long ride. Lay off the sex for awhile see if it will renew itself. If things don't start to improve mabey you should move on .
2007-09-21 19:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by franfifi@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt last 3 weeks with me! Lose the bum and find someone that treats you well and WANTS to show you off. This is a great start to low self esteem.
2007-09-22 07:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to go out - i went through the same thing with my boyfriend - we never really went out at first we just kind of hung out and stuff and of course we had sex - now we dont go out a whole bunch but we do on occasion - i myself dont want to go out a whole bunch - id rather have a blockbuster moment at home and then make one - but just be straight up with him with out sounding all needy - or blowing things our of proportion -
say honey ( what ever you call him ) lets go bowling this weekend we dont have to stay long just a game or two to get out of the House - ( dont go to the movies because you two may end up just playing with each other and thats what your trying to avoid )
if he doesnt want to do anything - then you may need to get to steppin and go out with your girlfriends - if he still doesnt get the clue- drop him like a bad habit -
2007-09-14 08:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by imissmahboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to him that you to do something different this time. something that doesn't involve sex. go out to the movies or whatever you want to do. if he has a problem then he probably isn't right for you.
2007-09-14 08:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you spice things up a little. Try new positions. Different orifices, Can you put your legs behind your head. My GF use to take it in the eye bc she knew it excited me
2007-09-21 22:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you need more than wham-bam thank you ma'am or a new boyfriend.
There's more to life than just sex.
2007-09-22 01:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, try to open up this thing to him. Tell him how you feel about your routine.. Good luck
2007-09-21 23:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Leah E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put all your eggs in the same basket ( French proverb).
2007-09-14 08:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Murphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time yall go back to his house start flirting with him or doing sumthin else to avoid sex. and if he forces u. tell him u dont want to. and if hes still consistent. Let me know then i'll tell u wat to do.
2007-09-14 08:35:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋