Wouldn't more sex prevent cheating?

Question

A man can only have so much sex per day, so a quickie in the morning and some more at night every day would just make him to tired to cheat. Shouldn't that stop men from cheating?

WOW!!!
Lots of bitter people.
Not even willing to give it a shot.
You all probably think sex can only happen in a bed too.

5 way to keep a man from straying article
http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/61750/5-ways-to-keep-your-man-from-straying

If sex and money are the top two things couples fight about, what's wrong with increasing the qty of sex to reduce the fights?

Answer 1

Not necessarily, because it's not always about whether they are getting what they need or not. Sometimes it's just about something looking better. Maybe it's the wrapper. Maybe it's the fact that they can fire someone else up better than their spouses. Sometimes it's about the trip they get from the power it makes them feel they have, to be able to get someone's attention. Sometimes it's because someone else makes them feel what their spouse doesn't. Not all men (or women) that cheat, cheat because they don't get enough sex at home. Sometimes it's just because they can. It could also be that someone came around talking a nice talk right when they were having problems with the spouse, and the temptation was just too much. I bet if people were honest, 9 out of 10 would say they were still having sex with their partners when they cheated.

Answer 2

Sure, some guys cheat because, well, maybe the sexual frequency has slowed a bit but the truth is that plenty of men who are having regular sex with their partner are also having sex with someone else. Why? Because cheating isn't just about the sex. Just as a woman who cheats may be seeking more affection than what she's getting at home, a man often cheats because he's seeking the attention that he no longer gets at home. Part of the allure of the mysterious woman isn't just to find out what she looks like naked; it's that the woman showers the man with flirtations, with seduction, with advances that make him feel like he's worthy of more.

Answer 3

No. Cheating is not because of sex.

Cheating is about the relationship.

IE: A guy is married.. his wife gets really fat.. he's no longer attracted to her, but is afraid to hurt her by communicating this.. so he goes out and cheats to satsify his need to have sex with someone he's attracted too..

But the cheating is not because of sex.. it's because he's not attracted to her anymore.

IE: She has a faithful husband, but who doesn't always open up to her. She goes to work and a man she works with tells her everything that happens in his day and how he feels about things.. etc.. before you know it, she's closer to him.. and they're cheating.

She didn't cheat for sex.. she cheated for the intmacy of communication.

Another example..

A guys wife.. she badgers, she nags.. she's hot, but she's not a good person. He stays with her out stability and because she's hot.. but then one day by chance meets a pretty waitress who is sweet and nice.. and everything his wife isn't. He cheats..

why does he do it.. because his wife isn't a nice person.


Point is.. people cheat, not for more sex.. the reality is .. even a couple where one isn't fully sexually satisfied they'll make up that difference with masterbation..they don't have deal with someone else.. they know what they like.. etc..

But for someone to cheat.. it's not about sex. It's because they're not attracted to their partner anymore.. due to physical appearance, or lack of communication, or lack of common interest, or just meaness..

People cheat for deeper reasons.. problem is, now days, .. people are terrible at communicating to each other, and when they do, they get so offended if it's negative.

So people close up.. and they never say, you're really mean, you really let yourself go.. and they have their needs met else where..,

basically cheating is a sign of a deeper issue.. usually a sensative one.

If your being cheated on.. it's probably something you would rather no hear..

If your cheating.. it's because your not brave enough to tell.

Bottom line.. good communication, where a person can share their thoughts and feelings (even negative ones) in a respectful way.. then usually that helps.

But cheating is definately the sign of a bigger issue... not sex.

Answer 4

I don't think people "get" what you're saying, and it's too bad, because you have an interesting point. What you're saying is that the *reasons* for cheating don't really matter as long as a willing sex partner makes it physically difficult for her partner to cheat just from the shear fact that the male sex organs need time between orgasms to replenish. Quite frankly, while I doubt that your method would be 100% effective, I do think it would cut down cheating significantly.

Answer 5

No, a lot of times cheating has nothing to do with sex, not a bad idea though but good luck keeping that going for very long :)

Answer 6

Well, a whole lot of the same thing and someone can get bored. I think some guys cheat and will probably cheat all their life. I guess it’s the thrill, newness or the risk that is attractive.

Answer 7

No. Some men don't cheat for just the sex. They need to prove to themselves that they still "got it" by going after other women.

Then there are some men who are sex addicts as well. Two-a-days wouldn't be enough for them.

Answer 8

No, it wouldn't stop a man from cheating. It wouldn't stop a woman from cheating. Cheating, believe it or not, has little to do with sex.

Answer 9

If that would be the case, then why would a man still cheat on his mistress by going back to his wife?

Answer 10

Cheating rarely about the lack of sex. Its a selfish act!