im a guy (16 years old), better than average looking. I am having desires of getting a girlfriend and now they are at their maximum. I'm a high school senior btw, in an all boys school. And being brown i just find white girls more attractive (dunno why). Any suggestions of where i might have a chance of getting a gf?
2007-09-14 09:30:39 · 23 answers · asked by mephisto 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Suggestions of where you might have a chance of getting a gf? I don't think there is a "place" where everyone finds someone they love, and everything is just peachy. It is called life....and you take the cards you are delt with...sometimes you play them right and sometimes you don't...it's called experience and you learn from your experiences making you to person you are today. The people you meet along the way..whether they stick by you or not...perhaps that is the "starting place" of where to find your gf? Best of Luck and when you are looking for a gf...you won't find her...just let life run its course.
2007-09-14 13:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by the devil wore prada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just looking at appearance? Because I believe that personality is much more important... The way you are talking about girls ('now they are at their maximum') seems to me that you are way too immature to be looking for a girlfriend.
You know, if you want to get a girl, you must make her feel special. make her believe that she is the only girl in the world that has concord your heart.
The fact is, girls notice when you are just making it up... you have to mean t, feel it and experience it.
Places to find girls depend on the type of girl you want to get.
You probably know the most obvious places: pubs, bars, disco's ... good for the short-term things... not very likely to find a girl who is in for a long term relationship.
So try to go on a sport ... a sport which both girls and boys like... (if you like it, go dancing).
Or help with a charity project... you will probably attract more serious girls ... and I'm guessing you are not really the serious type :p
2007-09-14 16:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is an all girls school nearby, you might wanna hang around there a bit, other than that, find all the hot social scenes, like the mall, community center, wherever it is in your area, and hang out there a lot.
If you are even a little bit outgoing, you shouldn't have a problem meeting girls and getting to know them. Just talk to as many people as you can, make more friends and meet more people, and eventually you'll find one you want to go with, that wants to go with you.
2007-09-14 16:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Katie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's your problem. You only like white girls. I'm 16 turning 17, a senior in high school, and brown and very beautiful too. I like white guys but i like other guys too. You have to be open minded. I never had a boyfriend, but I'm going to wait for the right one to come along. Maybe you should to that too.
2007-09-14 16:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Chance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you give up and stop trying, love will find you and it will be better then anything planned or searched for. Just wiat and things will be better with time. Why waste something great now when it could be better in the future. If you knock up some chick you could ruin the chance with your dream girl.
2007-09-14 16:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere! Go to the mall.Its all about confidence.Women CAN"T resist a confident guy.Important tip: don't be lame.Don't make stupid jokes.Being funny is great,as long as you actually are being funny.Don't act over interested,a little mystery is great.Work on an approach line to make the girls comfortable,don't act goofy.Be calm and confident,i promise it works!
2007-09-14 16:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Angela T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you read over your question before you posted it? I'm really not trying to be mean, but your question makes you sound creepy and desperate. I recommend not telling this story when meeting girls. Other than that, I'd try the mall, youth groups or your place of worship (if you have one). Good luck.
P.S.- You don't "need" a girlfriend.
2007-09-14 16:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can find a girlfriend anywhere, a family cookout, a mall, a store, you even find a girl a McDonald! Its just that you will have to been patience. See for me, i want a boyfriend, but i want a long term relationship so ain't going to be no games between me and him. I willing to be Patience because i know my Patience is going to pay off.
2007-09-14 16:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Finally Got It 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm go hang out at the mall or a park and meet some girls ! none of your guy friends at school have sisters lol ?
2007-09-14 16:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, no not really. i guess start hanging out at malls or something, or when you go out just flirt with girls that you see walking by. not like slapping thair butt, but if you are walking past a girl and you say "youre pretty" shell look aroung. dont say hot or sexy cuz that means u wanna, well u know, and girls dont respond to that too great.
2007-09-14 16:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Magala Moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋