Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

Ok so don't judge me here, if thats what your here to do then GET THE HELL OUT NOW! Ok now that thats over with i need some help. I'm 15 in my sophomore year of high school and theres a guy in my class thats amazing. But hes very touchy, i mean like he always has to be touching me, in one of the two classes i have with him its only like sitting next to me and harmless stuff like that but in the other class its like grabbing my *** kind of stuff. I mean it doesn't bug me terribly because hes always messing around with me, and he doesn't go farther then that, but Ive had a few ppl tell me that it makes me look like a , does it? And how do i get him to stop if it does?

2007-09-14 13:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There this guy I really like he has a girlfriend but he always looks at me. He is mean when it comes to sports and mean when I say something to him. But the first day of school he was just plain staring. I really really like him it might even be love he is just so hot!!!! He lives 3 doors down. He is a goofy guy. Smart. Has sorta longish hair. Short but that's okay. THe bad thing is is that he is popular and I'm not. SO I"m just curios do u ppl think that he lives me or not please help me I have been strugling with this for 2 years know. Thanks and please if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all.

2007-09-14 13:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by sweetsweetsweetie 2 in Singles & Dating

When you start to date a girl do you feel like talking to her like....24/7 or do ya just like to say hi every once in a while?I've been dating this guy for 2 days and I'm trying not to be to clingy.

2007-09-14 13:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that he might have been seeing someone while
they were engaged, because he sent a text message the night before the wedding and I found
it last week (3 weeks after wedding). I told her and
he made up a stupid excuse, and told me to butt
out and let them be married. They just moved
13 hours from us, and I have no control what he does in this new city. I am so scared for her. She
loves him, and won't ask him any questions. I called the girl, and she admitted to seeing him, but
nothing happened because she has a boyfriend so
she told me. What can I do. At times, throughout
there 6 year relationship, I felt it's another Scott
Peterson case. I am a christian person, and want
to think the best of him, but I'm so scared he won't change. We are the only family he has, because
he doesn't not talk to mother, etc. I think he loves
our daughter the only way he knows how, but can't
be faithful. Is there any counseling in the Southern
part of N. Carolina that we could find?

2007-09-14 13:02:19 · 20 answers · asked by Very worried about d & new husb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Normally he's "outgoing" or can talk to people...not too "out there" but is cool and gets along with everyone...but when it comes to a certain girl...special girl..

-he gets MORE quiet and awkward than usual...
- we haven't seen each other in months and he just seems more shy
- when i first met him he was so quiet but through the years he opened up eventually...he also started with the text and then moved up to calling me
- now since it's been a while since we seen or talk, he won't call...but if I call and make a first move, he'll "respond" somehow and text back...

what do you think?

2007-09-14 13:01:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex who i havent seen in 4 yrs has literally asked me to have sex with him. He's married and ive been with someone for more than 7 yrs. Need less to say my man hates him. My ex is married and i feel bad for his wife, who just had his first baby by the way. I dont know if i should tell his wife somehow but i dont want to lose his friendship. what should i do.

2007-09-14 13:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by mariah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Andy is super super nice. I know him from church, and I hang out with him at church softball practices. I see him at school every day, and whenever I see him he waves at me or gives me a hug. Usually I see him in the choir room and he gives me a big hug. Today, I gave him a side hug, and he moved me and put his hands on my shoulders and said, "No way, I want a big front hug!" And he gave me a HUGEEE hug.

I really really like him, but I always see him with some other chicks and friends. I've known him for about 2 years and his brother [who doesn't remember me >:|] for around 8. He usually tries to randomly start a conversation, and twice he's jacked my fone [once he gave me his number :)]. He's always touching me or playing with my hair. Do you think he likes me?

2007-09-14 12:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for three years, living on our own for two. We have a 9 month old daughter together, And a really in love, but all we keep hearing is ohh when are you guys going to make it official. At this point in our lives we dont find it necessary to get married. We are both going to school (it would affect our financial aid if we maried). We both have debt. We want to save for a house and other things. It makes sense to me but how do i explain it to other people. Thanks in advance for your help :)

2007-09-14 12:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by heather b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy who I love very much and he asked me to be his gf just last Friday and three days later he broke it off with me. We were getting pretty serious and both very much into each other. I am crushed and don't understand why this is happening. He said it is nothing I did he just wants to re-think things....so sad

2007-09-14 12:46:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is stressed out and it's partially my fault. Im always arguing with my brother. Im not anymore but I was. my little brother gives my mom an attitude almost every day and my dad is REALLY stressing my mom out. Please help me. I don't want my family to split up. I want them to stay together. I am only 15 how can i help

2007-09-14 12:45:34 · 34 answers · asked by candyheart_4_ever 2 in Family

and i feel that shes tryin 2 break us up by tell him that she saw me all over this boy which is such a lie!! he said hes not trippin over it but i can c that hes upset about it i dnt knw wat 2 say 2 my boyfriend 4 him 2 believe me help! plz!

2007-09-14 12:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by jody r 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy camr in to my store and bought a phone. he was very nice but i didnt find him a attractive. he would call my store once a week and we would talk he asked me out on a date for tonight. the only thing is i feel like im doing something wrong by getting his hopes up. what do you think? how would you feel if you where told after a date i just want to be friends?

2007-09-14 12:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by esther h 2 in Singles & Dating

We are married 2 years; second marriage for us both, both previous marriages were over 20 years long. We are struggling financially, both have health problems, I am on anti-depressants, he is depressed, not on meds. 99% of the time we are very close, inseperable, with each other 24/7 and like it that way.

Now ... I woke up sick and irritatible, he got more irritable, two minor tiffs escalated, I went quiet to keep from saying things I would regret later, after a half hour, he says, well, I guess you want me to leave, so I will pack up and do so as soon as I figure out where to go. I said, if that is what you want, but I dont want you to. He then blew up and accused me of things I havent done or said, took a nap, got up and left to do laundry, saying not to worry he'd be gone soon.

I don't get it. This is out of the blue. Any advice would be appreciated ... I cant stop crying and anytime I say anything, he twists it then tells me I am "doing this to him". Help!

2007-09-14 12:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by bobo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a question once in this Yahoo Q and A about a year ago.

Perhaps due to the invaluable advice given by the Yahoo community and perhaps because of some things I had observed subsequently, I decided to slow down our relationship. This is to say, she is still my girl friend, but not as close.

I had subsequently found out she was actually quite casual and wild. She had told me she used to go clubbing with her girl friends, but she just drinks there. Subsequently, her friends said she was the wild one and would drink the night away. And the MEN that would come and surround her! Yet, in spite of this, she continued to date me, never mentioning what she had done. She still seemed sincere and benign as before.

However, I did not reveal what I found out and I just kept on with our relationship. She also didn't know what I knew.

About a year ago, I was sent to another city to work. Before I went, she had promised to wait. Over the months, we kept in contact over the phone. She still seemed sincere and benign, never telling me her habits that I already knew.

About a month ago, I came back from the other city. I didn't tell her I came. When I enquired about her, I learnt she had given birth to a child a few months back and she is now a single parent. Her lover had dumped her.

My question is this. What do you think I should do? Should I now go after her? Please don't tell me if I love her, I should still go after her. I really feel it is very different this time. Anyway, she had not been honest. She didn't wait for me.

Did I do the right thing being cautious earlier?

She was not sexually abused. She had a relationship after I left.

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2007-09-14 12:41:12 · 12 answers · asked by Street Smart 4 in Friends

im in high school an i been a freshman for about 3 weeks but what is homecomin [i heard its a dance an a football game] but wut is it tho......
like whats the point of it or wut cuz i dont know

2007-09-14 12:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little dog I found in a ditch 6 months ago has been bitten by a snake and they are fixing to pu her to sleep She was my first dog and I am 40 I love her so much and I am crying so hard please help to know how to handle this

2007-09-14 12:39:46 · 9 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Friends

mymoms being a ***** and wont let me do anything

2007-09-14 12:36:27 · 35 answers · asked by Lover Girl 1 in Family

Are guys attracted to all women with big breasts- even if they are ugly? (I mean- if the girl has an ugly or plain face but has DD cup breasts- will the guy be attracted to her?) Or what if the girl has a waist that is not much smaller than her hips and boobs- will the guy still be attracted to her if she has big breasts?

2007-09-14 12:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i feel like im in such a hard place right now. idk if im even dating this guys but anyways....he treats me like im his personal assitant...like, calling me and asking me to look up a # or something ridiculous like that. i like him and all and in school we're definite really good friends and him and i have no problem talking. now im going to sound like idc about what i just said and say that i want to date him, but idk how especially since idk if he feels the same way!!! please help me!!! :)

2007-09-14 12:34:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your 6 mth pregnant and engaged and live apart. You only see him 2-3 nights/mornings a week cause he works as a care worker with night schedules and since Fri morn you saw him Tuesday 9pm till 1pm following day then not at all (he doesn't text or phone as he says he's skint so you have to) then next time he's free is Thursday but he goes to mates cos he says no money for petrol for you. Then next free nigt is Saturday and Fri night can't even tell you if he's free. He says has to go see his cousin then maybe after I can travel and stay at his. He then says we can def see each other Sun...he can come about 4 straight after work if I cook sunday dinner as he's got three offers, sunday dinner at work, siunday dinner at pub or mine...how would you feel?

2007-09-14 12:33:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom caught my boyfriend and I having sex. I'm not allowed to see him and neither is he. I love him and I'm not sure what to do. Help! I don't want this to be the end....

2007-09-14 12:32:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 years is losing interest in me. What do that mean he found somebody else? Someone please get back at me or email.

2007-09-14 12:29:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when u started wanting some sex i mean really i dont care what you say even if its 6th grade rEAlly or even yonger dont matter

2007-09-14 12:21:04 · 25 answers · asked by $$$ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this dude he chats a lot with me on ms but i notice he chats with othe girls too

im starting to like him but idk if he likes me or he just likes to hang out with girls i like him but idk what the hell to do im just friggen bord and nead help

2007-09-14 12:19:08 · 1 answers · asked by $$$ 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like a man who's about 15 years older than I am. (I'm in my mid-30s.) I'm afraid that flirting techniques that were successful with men around my age won't fly with this guy. He's highly successful and very smart (very nice too), but we're in a rather awkward work situation, and I don't think he'll make the first move. I'd like to let him know it's OK to make a move, but I don't want him to feel uncomfortable. I'm really at a loss as to how to go about this. :) Any tips? What should I do???

2007-09-14 12:19:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can you tell if a guy like you for you or for your puzzy help me out ..... i like this guy alot i live in tacoma,wa he in houston ,tx do you think he messin with my mind...

2007-09-14 12:18:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

everytime me and my bf go to have sex,,,, it KILLS and hes not really even in me.... is there any way to losen up or prepare to make it less painful??

we've tried like 3 times... we havent gone thru with it yet...

2007-09-14 12:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by Mia S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 14..my mom and i have just moved........we moved to be with my dad and the rest of our family..me and her are still not living with my dad.but we will in the next month or so? But the only way for my mom to cope is with alcohol...and its horrible...she drinks a whole bottle of vodka everyday.....(i know this because i know where she hides it and I look) apparently she stays in bad all day....when i get home from school thats where she is....about 30 minutes ago I went and told her about how i know...and she just went crazy..she gave me the phone told me to call my dad..that she does not want me anymore...what do i do???

2007-09-14 12:14:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I separated back in January of this year. I met someone and we had the best relationship. He treated me extremely well, something that my husband never did. We laughed a lot, we had a lot in common, and I couldn't wait to see him. My b-friend never lied to me. It was great. Well, my husband moved back to my area and my mom started giving me all kinds of hell because she was adamant that I had to get back with my husband for the twins we have together. After a couple months, I finally did it. My twins and I live with my mother and she was going to kick us out with nothing. I ended up ditching the boyfriend and I was dealing with the break up and trying to work on my marriage. Well last night, my husband and I were at the store and guess who I ran into....my ex boyfriend. I thought I was over him, but immediately I lost my breath, my face turned white, and I started having butterflies in my stomach that are just now going away almost 24 hours later.

2007-09-14 12:13:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mestiza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 12:12:34 · 7 answers · asked by just bees and things and flowers 2 in Singles & Dating