talking about some stuff?

Question

ok theres this dude he chats a lot with me on ms but i notice he chats with othe girls too

im starting to like him but idk if he likes me or he just likes to hang out with girls i like him but idk what the hell to do im just friggen bord and nead help

Answer 1

Well learn to entertain yourself, because truth be told, only boring people get bored, atleast in my experience. That aside if you want help read some books, watch tv, make friends (not lovers unless you want heartache), and try and figure this world out. Like that above situation, its pointless, what do you expect to gain, a lover? From him? He talks to you "alot" yet no phone conversation? no date? no inquires about your single/tooken status? Plus muliple other girls he is talking to? Can you say insecurity! I know I was their when AOL was the internet, and ever 14-16 year old was on her trying to get laid, I know that technique I used it..... Well let me put it this way, unless you can answer your own question your not ready for ANY "intmate" (that doesn't just mean sex, that means HONESTY OF EMOTION)relationship, I know thats not going to stop you, but lets put it this way.

Advice:
If you can't tell someone how you honestly feel, espacially with your heart, your not ready for a relaitonship. Because a "Relate"ionship requires you to "relate" which means talking honestly about your emotions, hence the 75% divorce rate (most people don't know how to use common sense, go figure)

So unless you can talk honestly with this guy in the beganing about feeling for him, your not ready, simple as that. I know thats not going to stop you, so don't blame old brutal for the heartache, relationships are much more complicated then we want to believe.....