Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

What do you do when its the point that you want to do something stupid? My parents are real bad. I'm 15 turning 16. And im still not allowed to go out w/ friends by myself. Date, go to games, be with my friends or sometimes cousins. I mostly spend my time at home since thats the only place. I can never do anything that i ever want to do. It's so hard for me to get my way. Sometimes i even stay home alone while they go out. I try talking to them but it never works. I really need someones help. If someone has it worse out there, sorry. =(

2007-09-14 14:03:09 · 7 answers · asked by bANAnaboooty 1 in Family

He is on Social Security and doesn't get much each month and the house he wanted was only $40,000 so I gave him the money for the down payment and he said he can handle the rest. Now I am being dogged out for doing it. My question is this...if you had the money would've you done it.?

He has three kids and his wife works for a dry cleaner. Sometimes we have to do what is right in life to help so why am I being persecuted for giving money away?

2007-09-14 14:01:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, if you had to choose between your husband going to a strip club, where he would be around strippers, and giving them money, or you doing a strip tease for him, pretending to be a stripper, and him giving you the money, what would you choose?

2007-09-14 14:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

So a married guy friend "dumped" me because I told him, "No, you can not call me from creepy ever changing untracable pre paid cell phone numbers".
He said, essentially, "Well, then no more friendship." (and no, nothing had ever happened between us).
So now I feel insulted, his intentions were foul, who does he think I am, who does he think he is? Have you ever heard anything like this before? Feel creeped out, confused and angry.

2007-09-14 13:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by emilsignia 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The lights are out, did you here that !?????

2007-09-14 13:57:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is serious.

2007-09-14 13:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by hello darlings 1 in Family

My boyfriend of a year is controlling. We live together and have a two month old son. Of course he is nice most times and I love him to death, but I think he might be controlling and verbally abusive. When he gets mad at something I said wrong on the phone, he hangs up. If he doesnt like something he leaves the house and turns off his phone and doesn't come back till hours later. when he does come back he yells at me. He pushes me against a wall if I try to walk away from him he gets in my face and yells at me calling me stupid and I'm a ****** idiot. He says shut the **** up to me, he grabs me by the arms, he says that I'm nothing and that I disgust him. He tells me I'm crazy and I need mental health. My family isn't allowed to visit me and neither are any of my friends, if I want to visit them I have to let him know where I'm going and when I'll be back. He doesn't want my family to see my baby and if I take the baby to see them, he gives me a hard time. this is a few things. help

2007-09-14 13:54:41 · 17 answers · asked by itfeelsgood2gocrazy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate it!! i cant go out to the football game today and i have to babysit because my mom wants to go out. thats soo not fair shes too old to go out. and i cant stay home everybody drives me crazy! =/

2007-09-14 13:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by awesome_ohh 1 in Family

He's been caught on surveillance tape this time! Trying to steal his stuff back that was slated to be legally auctioned. And do you see how it fits a well-publicised cowardly pattern from his dark past, where he gathers his henchmen around to assist in doing the dirty deed?

2007-09-14 13:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Kentucky Dave 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for almost four years now and have two small children together. We have a good relationship, most of the time, guess it could be labeled that. Lately, I'm kind of insecure and very creative as to why he acts the way he does when we fight. Most of the time I think, great,.. he's going to replace me and so I start planning how I'm going to survive without him. Weird because I really love him, guess I'm just hurt from the past, typical downward spiral, now I think abuse and cheating will one day destroy this relationship like all the rest. I have to get over myself and find peace before I drive it to really happen. Please help!~

2007-09-14 13:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by reincarnated/beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm living in California with my boyfriend and his family. We have a 9 month old son. The conditions here are pretty bad. His nephew lives here and destroys all of my stuff. For example, he ****** up my cords to my DVD player doing a wrestling move. His dog shits all over the living room, so I can't let the baby play out there. Our room is extremely small, so the baby doesn't have much room in there. I don't have a babysitter, so I can't work. If I move to Oregon with my parents, I can get on section 8 and have my family babysit while I'm at work. I could go back to school, too. The only problem is that my boyfriend, the baby's father refuses to move there. He also says that if I go, and I'm there too long that he will lose interest. I’ve explained to him that Oregon isn't where I want to live forever, and that I only want to go there for two or three years to get on my feet, and then we can move back to Cali. I don't care about staying with him, but I don't want my son to grow up without a dad. He has assured me that will happen if I leave.

2007-09-14 13:49:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my best friend is talking to a man we work with and they text all day and night but only see each other a couple times he claims he is seperated but stays with her for the children what are signs of a married man besides the above

2007-09-14 13:49:39 · 27 answers · asked by momo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She asks where I've been like it's some sort of her business.

I'm just having a good time, why does she have to ruin my buzz?

2007-09-14 13:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was just wondering to see if there is a normal ammount!

2007-09-14 13:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Maddy 2 in Singles & Dating

If Sex was forbidden for 15 months while you were overseas would you bend or break the rules? Why or Why Not

Temptation is On the Raise!!

Honest Answers PLEASE

2007-09-14 13:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i will not say my name for safety purposes, but i am 15 years old my brother is 20 , evey day when ever i see him i get scared becouse he often beats me up for no reason. everyday i see him i remember the words he tolled me when i was about 5 they hurt so much i stilll remember them like today "why where u ever born i hate u". i cant go to my mom becouse since my father died my mom works the whole day i dont want to put more stress on her, shes gonna lose her eyesight soon if she has alot of stress.. i dont know what to do , i dont want to do somehting bad beoucse imm a good person and i dont want to hurt my brother "even tho i probobaly couldnt since hes all buff and stuff" plz help me.

2007-09-14 13:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by mtaisback 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend suffers from depression and he's a recovering drug addict. He has a poor job history where he 2/3 of the time he quits and just gets sick of it. And once he got fired because he got sick on the job and he was temp. Anyways, he helps out with our son in the morning a little (he feeds him and lets me sleep for an extra hour), but then the rest of the day I am taking care of our son by myself. He doesn't help clean the room unless I nag on him. mostly it's me. i take out the garbage, do the laundry, and I do the cleaning on top of taking care of our son. Anyways, I'm sick of doing everything by myself whle he complains tha he needs to fix the comp. or w/e. Which him fixing the comp. is basically a bunch of downloading and things you do with the internet. Not really technical stuff. Well, I want him to work, but I don't know how to get him motivated. I'd go work instead, but then he'll complain cuz he has to take care of our son all day and he says he can make more money.....

2007-09-14 13:39:47 · 14 answers · asked by Jenel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

but i'm afriad he'll be a maniac and will harrass, but any guy can do that. He said he loves me and he seems really nice. Should I meet him??

2007-09-14 13:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by softball26 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 13:36:26 · 27 answers · asked by whodeene 1 in Singles & Dating

I know he doesn't like me and no one told him to do it. He even got in trouble for me today. We both are in 7th grade and the consequences are very harsh at our school. Why would he do something like that? Does he like me? And yes, we do talk a lot and play around after school.

2007-09-14 13:34:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend that is a guy is obsessed with HSM2 (high school musical 2). he likes sings to all of the songs every day. is that normal? he is 14 y/o.

2007-09-14 13:30:29 · 3 answers · asked by ....... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

k so im sneaking out to a guys friends house tonight what are some tips so i dont get caught

2007-09-14 13:29:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alrighty, here's the story.
I met this guy named joshua. He's so sweet and really cute. Im so shy and don't really know how to start up a conversation. Today he asked me if me and my friend to sit with him at lunch, because we both know him. I can't tell if he likes me or my friend. my friend is more experienced with guys but insists she can tell he likes me not her, but i think otherwise because i personally don't think im that pretty even though they always tell me i am. a guy called me ugly a few months ago. i mean i never really thought i was that pretty, and other guys have called me ugly before and it really hurts my self esteem. ( i have medium blonde hair and bluish eyes, freckles. ) He is also a bit shy i think, but it also seems he approaches me more when my friend is around, but he talks to me more than he talks to her. Help anyone? im confused.
( PS ) I really want to him to ask me to homecoming but he's shy and my self esteem is still low, and im afraid he won't ask

2007-09-14 13:26:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and when you have a look to see who starred your questions? :)

Thank you!! :)

Have a wonderful weekend! :)

2007-09-14 13:24:24 · 35 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

We have suspected a long term affair and we are all really afraid spouses will go postal on us all. Out boss will do nothing saying we have to have physical evidence of the affiair to fire them. This is creating terrible morale problems not to mention no one likes to be in the building with them it is so nervewracking. How do we get "physical evidence".?

2007-09-14 13:23:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And I'm feeling angry, betrayed and ashamed. Not because I felt like I was cheated on, but I was made the "other girl" without my f***ing KNOWLEDGE. I'd gladly beat the crap out of this guy if I could find him at the moment.

I don't think his girlfriend knows right now. Should I explain to her myself of what's been going on, or should I let her find out on her own- which I DON'T want to do? I also want to know how to save face during this VERY embarassing and trying time of my life, since I might be villified even though I didn't know anything until it was too late.

2007-09-14 13:17:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He own a house before we got married then we sold it after one year. We moved to Sioux Lookout Ontario because he opened a small charter airlines and bought a new house. We had a problem and it didn't work out so we got divorced. I left and went back to Toronto and didn't ask anything from him. We didn't have any kid.

2007-09-14 13:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by llana s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is through his stomach? LOL

I know that sounds corny, but does it hold any water? If I made my crush something yummy, would he appreciate it or just think I'm weird?

2007-09-14 13:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live on a farm and my husband had our neighbors escaped livestock in our barn, I called our neighbor to tell him he could come and get them. About 3 minutes after this his wife called back and grilled me on who I was. I was pissed! We were nice enough to care for their escaped animals and she calls me like I am screwing her husband. I told my hubby "that ***** needs to stay on her farm and out of my face, and that he needs to deal with the neighbor from now on."
Was I right to be mad and should I tell the neighbor to keep his wife on her side of the fence?

2007-09-14 13:13:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I filed for divorce, but we are still living together. We have talked reconsiliation and he told me that he loves and was "in love" with me... obviously to get me in the sack. It worked. I have decided to go through with the divorce because of his abusive (emotionally) and deceptive behavior (heavy drinker!)... and his carrying on "flirtations" (he said) with other women. I know that he spent the night with another woman this past weekend. He suspects I know and now says that we are "legally separated" as of the day I filed my paperwork. He was not served until a month later and was not aware that I had filed paperwork at the time he kissed and tried to hook up with a different girl. What is the definition of estranged and how does his cheating apply now?! We were in the same bedroom until I found out about the second to last girl. Drama.

2007-09-14 13:12:05 · 17 answers · asked by bamagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce