i will not say my name for safety purposes, but i am 15 years old my brother is 20 , evey day when ever i see him i get scared becouse he often beats me up for no reason. everyday i see him i remember the words he tolled me when i was about 5 they hurt so much i stilll remember them like today "why where u ever born i hate u". i cant go to my mom becouse since my father died my mom works the whole day i dont want to put more stress on her, shes gonna lose her eyesight soon if she has alot of stress.. i dont know what to do , i dont want to do somehting bad beoucse imm a good person and i dont want to hurt my brother "even tho i probobaly couldnt since hes all buff and stuff" plz help me.
2007-09-14 13:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by mtaisback 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You won't like this, but while I understand how you don't want to put stress upon your mum, you simply must tell her. Why would it make her lose her eyesight?
You don't need to do anything bad, because I'm sure you are a good person, but this cannot continue. Is there a teacher at school you could speak to, or a school counsellor? Do you have a friend you could talk to? Here in England, there is an organisation called "Childline". I'm sure you have something similar in America. Perhaps you could go on the Internet and find out how you could contact Childline? Just because you don't live in England, it doesn't mean you can't speak to someone there. It's confidential, and a lot of youngsters have been helped by it.
You don't say whether you have a good relationship with your mum, but you are not helping either yourself or her if you don't tell her, because eventually she will somehow find out, and be upset because you kept it from her. That will be far worse.
I don't know what "buff and stuff" means, but please promise me that you will take the action I have suggested. I feel so sorry for you, and I hope this gets sorted out soon. You deserve to have a good life, and you're only l5. Meanwhile, stay away from your brother for your own protection. He needs a psychiatrist, and you need a counsellor. THIS MUST NOT CONTINUE.
2007-09-14 13:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by interesting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff like this happens. It's life, just not life right now. Pay attention to the good things now. Cross that bridge when you get there. Try calming yourself down by rubbing under your collarbone with 2 fingers. Hope this helped! :D
2016-05-19 22:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you couldnt find an appropriate time to talk to your mom about it, talk to your teacher about it. they are probably better persons to tell you what you could do.
do not feel bad because your brother doesnt like you, thats probably only because he is afraid you get all the attention from your mom. also before you get some serious help, i do think its better off you avoid your brother so he doesnt beat you up again. its so wrong for him to do that. you are supposed to protect your little brother/sister from outside danger. i do feel for you but since this is an ongoing thing and you have lost the power to fight against it alone, seek your teacher's help. get do it ASAP.
2007-09-14 13:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your dad died and I feel sorry for you and your mom. I hope things start looking up for the two of you. Maybe instead of talking to your mom, you could talk to a teacher and they could give you some advice to keep you safe from your brother. I hope this helps and I hope things get better for you soon.
2007-09-14 13:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by ballerina856 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl go to your teacher at school your aunt your minister you do not keep that as a secret. Your brother sound like he is big and you will not be able to fight him. You tell someone about your brother before he hurts you!!! NOW TELL SOMEONE!!!! ONE other thing your brother is a coward and tell him i said so!!
2007-09-14 14:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by applehctud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey I'm so sorry that u have to go through this abuse. and yes it is abuse. if i were you i would report him to your child protective agency. they have to keep it confidential that U reported him and have them investigate your report. stay away from him and try not to let him hurt u. i know u may feel like that is impossible when he is a lot bigger than u. please do not do anything drastic to your brother because you will hate yourself in the long run. PLEASE notify someone who u can trust i will be praying for u.
2007-09-14 13:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell your mom. she needs to know what's going on. it's kind of you not to want to stress her out but, this is what parents ar for. i think she'd be more stressed if your bro did any real damage to you. tell her tonite. your bro has some issues and he needs help. take care
2007-09-14 13:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please drop to your knees and start to pray,ask Jesus to help you deal with this. Do your mother know what's going on,if not please tell her to make him stop.If that doesn't work tell your mother if she can't make him stop you'll go to the police station and have him arrested.If your brother gets arrested this could help him deal with his anger towards you.MAY GOD BLESS YOU!
2007-09-14 14:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by sharon j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would request a lock for my room and stay in there all day.
2007-09-14 13:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by saloon girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋