She asks where I've been like it's some sort of her business.
I'm just having a good time, why does she have to ruin my buzz?
2007-09-14 13:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here's an idea: Invite her to go with you at night to get a "buzz."
If you can't handle your SPOUSE thinking what any normal partnership would require i.e. being home at night... then why be married?
Sounds like you have something to hide when you act so defensive.
2007-09-14 13:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, could it be that she is your wife and is worried about weather or not you are safe?
Or, if you are lying at the side of the road dead or injured somewhere?
Or, it could be...that she is unhappy with being stuck at home with the kids while you are out having a good time and then you come in the door at 3:30 in the morning...
After she has had a crappy night...taking care of your kids and the house and making your dinner and YOU give her this
S H I T about letting you live and have fun...and do your own thing...
So, how was your day again?
Ask her, I am sure whe would LOVE to have a night out and away from everything too!
2007-09-14 21:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you are married, it IS her business. It understandable that you have want to have a life outside of the home, but coming home at three in the morning and expecting your wife not to care is a little much. If you want to party all night, why did you even get married
2007-09-14 20:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by civic9497 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you should be at home. You sound like a very selfish person who only cares about himself.
If I stayed out till 3:30 in the morning, and my wife was waiting for me when I walked in the door, I would expect her to be a bit pissed too. It's called being respectful.
2007-09-14 21:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gee, shes got a hide....fancy wanting to know where your husband was for hours on end......lol. Maybe after numerous phone calls to the hospital and the police to see if any accidents have been reported, she may just be a little worried?, but hey, as long as you are having a good time thats all that counts, right?
2007-09-14 21:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why. Always? At some point I'd spend the time you were gone having the locks changed so I didn't have to confront you.
2007-09-14 21:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky she doesn't hit you over the head with a cast iron frying pan when you walk in the door to knock some sense into you. You need to get your priorities in order....
2007-09-14 21:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you stumbled in, next time try walking
straight in and hold your head up high as you know
good and well you did wrong.
2007-09-14 22:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your wife, she has every right to know where you've been, especially if you've been out that late without calling home. She was probably worried.
2007-09-15 14:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Booster Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just jealous and wish it was her. Let her go some time. Maybe you'll be lucky and she'll never return...Spoiling your buzz like that...how dare she..lol.
2007-09-15 09:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋