Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

"WHAT IF YOUR BEST FRIEND FORGOT ABOUT A TERM PAPER DUE THE NEXT DAY AND ASKED YOU IF HE COULD COPY AND HAND IN A PAPER YOU WROTE FOR ANOTHER INSTRUCTOR LAST SEMESTER, WHAT ARE YOUR ALTERNATIVES and WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF EACH ONE?

2007-09-14 17:03:52 · 12 answers · asked by anne 1 in Friends

Am I weird because, Im 19 and I have friends but most of the time I just want to stay home,I go out every once and a while ..but all my friends love to go out every night and party..Im just not into that scene...I dream of meeting a mature guy and getting married and having a home life...you know doing the laundry ,cooking,cleaning,grocery shopping going out to eat with my husband etc...just having a quiet married life and all my friends and family think im weird because of this...Do You..????

2007-09-14 17:03:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine is working as a nurse and getting hire education, what do you think it's my priority?

2007-09-14 17:02:43 · 17 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He has already cheated on me. We are trying to work things out, but they keep chating with each other. I tried to explain to him that talking to her could lead to other things since they use to date.

2007-09-14 17:00:10 · 9 answers · asked by mary B 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP! SHES SO HOT

2007-09-14 16:59:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had been dating for almost 4 years now, in the beginning he cheated on me really badly with a slut in china. this slut basically sleeps with anybody available to her in clubs and pubs regardless of their skin color. anyways, the whole situation drags along back and forth for almost 2 years. My bf finally get rid of her because that slut cheated on him and has been dating a Mexican for 4 months but lied that she has been going out and traveling with her "cousin".

after so many hazels, i found out that he had been checking other girls out on friendster by bookmarking a whole bunches of them and he added a few more each time he log into it.

further more, he won't talk to me in front of his family even it was just on the phone. he can't even call my name and it makes me feel like he is so ashamed to let others to know that he is with me. He told me that he is on my side and will be with me even though his family hated me so much. His sister even sent emails to threaten me!!!

2007-09-14 16:59:10 · 12 answers · asked by Shandi 1 in Singles & Dating

I KNOW THERE ARE A LOT OF WORDS, BUT PLEASE READ EVERYTHING BEFORE REPLYING.
Thank you.

We're both seniors in high school. I met him last year, when we had English together. He tends to rub a lot of people the wrong way (one of my friends has gone so far to say she hates him) but he recognized my intellect (his words, paraphrased) and has always respected me for it. We don't have any classes together this year, but on MSN he extended me an invitation to sit with his group at lunch, which I promptly accepted. I'm also involved in his anime club, which he invited me to late last year. As well, he offered to drive me to an art class we were both going to take… though the class was cancelled, I found his offer incredibly… well, nice. Apparently, he’s trying to be nicer this year, heh.

2007-09-14 16:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by Aurora Storm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

would it bother u?would u be quicker to cheat?would u break up with her because of her past?

2007-09-14 16:47:09 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have a rehearsal dinner. My parents are paying for the wedding (I am a SAHM so money is tight and they offered). They have been gracious and wonderful. My Mother informed me yesterday that they can't pay for the rehearsal dinner because there is just too much to pay for and they can't afford it-which is fine with me. They have done so much for us that it is her decision and I am 100% on board with what she decides. She wants to take us, my brothers, and my grandmother to dinner but not the bridal party/soon to be monster in laws. My in-laws refuse to pay for anything-fine. Here's the dilemma: Because our wedding party is doing so much and spending so much, I want to pay for their dinners . However I hate my in-laws and refuse to pay for them. Do I HAVE to invite them? Or tell them they are welcome to come but they have to pay for their own meal? I'm at the point where I don't even want them at the rehearsal. My fiancee doesn't seem to care either way.

2007-09-14 16:46:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How old would someone have to be to be classified as ugly if they didn't get asked out by that time.

2007-09-14 16:34:59 · 34 answers · asked by i_like_dinosaurs 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i like and he said he liked no one.
so what do i do to get him to go out with me!!
HHHHeellppp!!

2007-09-14 16:14:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have the rough spots in your marriage made it stronger despite how rough it got or because of how rough it got. I feel the worst ends up being the best. My wife and I went through some of the worst stuff a married couple can deal with and as a result, I think we're better off for it.

What are your experiences in this regard?

2007-09-14 16:12:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My little brother, age 3, left his grandfather's house on Martha's Vineyard, crossed a busy street, and walked about .5 miles down the sidewalk until stopped by somebody who called the police. Is this normal for a child? He is adopted from Guatemala, but that was when he was a tiny baby. We live in Vermont. We found him after searching the entire house, yard, neighbors yard, asked the neighbors, checked our beach, went down the driveway, saw the PD and went to find him talking to a cop.

2007-09-14 16:00:58 · 12 answers · asked by imavter 2 in Family

My father is a military man and he's a bit overprotective. I cannot seem to enjoy my single life. I know he's just trying to protect me but I'm too old for that. To be honest, I've never been into a bar or partying with my friends at night. He's strict when it comes to time. I love my father so much but I'm afraid to tell him that I have my own life.

2007-09-14 15:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by psyche leah 2 in Family

would you think it was weird if your man wanted you to have sex with him and another guy?? He's got no interest in the other guy or anything, for some reason he like two guys on girl. I could see it being a fantasy I guess, but he seems absolutely serious. What do you think? Is it weird or just normal guy **** that they fantasize about? Either way, I'm not doing it!

2007-09-14 15:53:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the other day i was at my momals house my cousin Dustin AND my cousin's brother Junior both when they eat the smack their mouth it's like a pig a eating, he drinks his water like a cat or a dog, he eats his lolly pops like a horse eating corn on a cob, i mean he wont shut his mouth and eat he spins gravels on our new 2004 ford mustang red, that we just bought he spins the gravels on our mustang with his 1998 honda 4-Wheeler but go to this web site to see the car we just bought it new 9/10/07 now it has a big dent on one side of the car it looks awful. I smacked my cousin twice in i guess in a couple hours please view the picture of the mustang

I'll apreeciate it. -> http://www.sspmustang.org/images/Silver_Springs_FL_2004_12.JPG

2007-09-14 15:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How would you comfort him, and what would you say to him?

2007-09-14 15:51:29 · 28 answers · asked by Elle . 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes usually really nice but today he was psycho, like I've seen him mad before but he has never called me names or hit me, and today he beat the hell out of me and called me fag and gay so much. He said he had neough of my sh*t and it was time to die. I barely escaped. anyways what is the best way to fight him out?

2007-09-14 15:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My semi-significant other's sister is getting married in a few weeks, his invitation was addressed to him '& Guest' however he had decided not to invite me but rather go alone because I am pregnant (I will be 5 months along at the time of the wedding) & he does not want to deal with the extended family's questions about my pregnancy. He also says he doesn't want to bring me because he will most likely be drinking & doesn't want to have to worry about me. His immediate family has met me & knows of the pregnancy (including the sister who is getting married). We do not live together but plan in the very near future to buy a house & raise the baby together. I'm quite upset/angry over this & have thoroughly expressed my feelings to no avail. Am I correct in feeling this way?

2007-09-14 15:42:02 · 27 answers · asked by sj 2 in Weddings

can someone out there give me some pointers on to how to work the system.
I am a disabled American, currently living in south east Asia, have a wife and two minor children, every time I approach soc sec to get benefits for my children and survivor benefits for my wife, I am being told, I need to bring my family to america first.
so I am bringing my family to america, problem is my soc sec income is only $1300 per month, and I need to apply for public assistance right away, can anyone give me some pointers as to what to expect, what my rights are, I am relocating to Stockton Cal.

2007-09-14 15:40:31 · 2 answers · asked by nebula 6 in Family

i got my first part time job ever and i like this guy...he was being really nice to me at first cuz i was new..now i think its more than that..everytime i pass by he tickles or pokes me and he always asks me for hugs when he leaves and we talk a lot and he always smiles at me..does he like me? oooh ye we are both 17

2007-09-14 15:39:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have ocd and it is more mentally than physically and i cant control it. i have this problem where i cant let things go and the smallest things bother me so i told my family and they say oh you dont have it even though i have the physical signs too so today my sister was sitting on the table and she gave me this rude comment and i told her that you know that bothers me can you stop and she just kept arguing and arguing and my mom and dad started yelling at me and they dont even acknoledge why

2007-09-14 15:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by go_pali 2 in Family

I love my husband very much but the only thing is, he hardly ever remarks on my appearance. If I ask him, he only gives a one word answer. I'm interested in another man's view on this matter but I don't want my husband's friend to think I'm coming on to him-because I'm not. I like him just as a friend and ONLY that, and he know's how I feel. Should I ask him when my husband's in the room? My husband's friend is not married but is dating a girl that I think is a great person.

2007-09-14 15:28:52 · 23 answers · asked by Shortie Cake 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna know what the best way to flirt with guys (in junior high)? i haven't had a bf that really counts for anything, so that's why i'm sort of clueless. i'm a shy person so don't say go up and hug him or anything random and weird like that. and before u say focus on school or something, i just want to say that i am a straight a student. plz help!

2007-09-14 15:25:27 · 5 answers · asked by puffinsbeak 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a new boy in my class that i think is hot. I want to ask him out, but I'm not sure if he is gay or bi. What should I do.
btw neither me or him act like a stereotype girly gay guy.

Help. and answer me please!

2007-09-14 15:25:22 · 1 answers · asked by Geeky Lizzard King Fish 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother constantly worries and gets sad that her 4 children do not get married (we are in our beginning 40s.) All of her friends' children have gotten married or divorced and she feels sad when she goes to weddings or will NOT hear of weddings or talk of engagements unless it's her own. Do all mothers worry like this?

2007-09-14 15:22:51 · 3 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family

Wow...you sound quite busy, eh? I enjoyed your letter and love to share my time with you even though I am crazy busy with some homework everyday if I am available. It is interesting to find out you're a sort of writer. I like writing while I do not have skills of writing a novel, haha... I have a friend of mine, who is from French and she is my best friend here. I am not a huge pal for chocolate, but love to taste chocolate croissants that I have never tasted if you take me to the place you like. Who knows if I will be addicted to it. I can appreciate cappuccino there if I don't like your favourite chocolates/chocolate. Plus, we can pretend to look like French couple kissing the chocolates, lol...

The job you are doing now sounds very interesting to me, I think, as I have never done those things in my life. I look forward to seeing you and some pictures of your work. Take it easy imagining of kissing me when you are free

2007-09-14 15:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont want my cousins and aunt to move in because we would have to get rid of my cats? i feel awful not wanting them to live with me, but i cant imagine not having my cats. but they wouldnt move in until next summer, so i have time with my cats if they do.

2007-09-14 15:12:03 · 15 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family

Am I the only one in the world who is grossed out when a girl lets her bush grow like a jungle? I know i dont shave my balls but souldnt women keep it to at least a triangle?

2007-09-14 15:10:42 · 19 answers · asked by lionssb42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Cuz damn I'm allways thinking about it (horny 14 year old), but I'm worried that I'm gonna be spending all my time looking forward to it but then when it actually happens I'll be dissapointed.. Is it better than masterbation or what? I know it's a bad question but who else am I gonna ask.

2007-09-14 15:07:27 · 28 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Singles & Dating