Hes usually really nice but today he was psycho, like I've seen him mad before but he has never called me names or hit me, and today he beat the hell out of me and called me fag and gay so much. He said he had neough of my sh*t and it was time to die. I barely escaped. anyways what is the best way to fight him out?
2007-09-14 15:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is no best way to fight him out because 'fighting him out' is not the answer. He lost it, pure and simple. I think it's very telling that your question does not describe the events or climate preceding his outburst. Whatever happened, he has reached his limit and he's not controlling his emotions. Maybe he has been controlling them all along and something pushed him over the limit.
You don't mention if you are gay or not. Having a gay kid is one of the toughest things a parent has to handle. Perhaps you let your guard down and acted very very effeminate without even thinking about it.
He may have been trying to control his thoughts about an effeminate son and your casual display just hit him where it hurts. So he hit you where it hurts. He probably doesn't feel good about having done that. He probably doesn't feel good about much these days if these issues are right in front of him.
If you are not gay, then something is going on between you two that still has reached the same intense level - maybe you are a stoner or a slacker or you are at a point in your life where you still are rude to adults. You don't give any information so who can tell?
The only thing you can do is ask another person to witness you and your father together, talking. Then try to find out what it is that you did or what it is that happened to him to make him lose control like that. Apologize yourself and give him a chance to apologize back.
2007-09-14 16:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it just a one time thing and you doubt he will do it again, it depends on how young you are and how violent he is. If you are old enough its time to move out. If you are not you must get others involved. Does you mother know, is she afraid of him. Assault is not a right a father has. You can go to a teacher, counselor or to the police. Fighting him even if you could win is always the wrong way.
2007-09-14 23:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by paul 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk To A Teacher,ect. And Ask Them For Advice.
2007-09-14 23:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats abuse, call 696 kids immediatly.
2007-09-15 00:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want him not to call u gay... try dating chicks
2007-09-15 03:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jesse N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋