would you think it was weird if your man wanted you to have sex with him and another guy?? He's got no interest in the other guy or anything, for some reason he like two guys on girl. I could see it being a fantasy I guess, but he seems absolutely serious. What do you think? Is it weird or just normal guy **** that they fantasize about? Either way, I'm not doing it!
2007-09-14 15:53:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's def not gay, trust me...disrespectful, probably.
2007-09-14 16:20:23 · update #1
oh yeah, I'm only 25 too, so I can't see our marraige needed too much spicing up yet.??
2007-09-14 16:22:43 · update #2
Guys don't fantasize about a girl and another guy. No way. Men hate competition, get jealous and play alpha dog games. I'd wonder at the intentions of that other man with MY body!
Men like the idea of two girls.
Don't do it.
2007-09-14 16:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
That should only be a fantasy Not reality!! Most wouldn't really act it out !! I would think that most men would be jealious of their wife and not want another man to touch her ! Some may think or like the thought of another man wanting her but wouldn't do anything . I would think it to be crazy if mine wanted that !! He would never do that ! I wouldn't like it if he ask me to do that either!! I'd get mad myself! cause i would think how can you love me if you want another man to have me? but thats just how i feel about it! some are weird like that!
2007-09-15 01:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lisa, go on for it, the threesome! MFM then try FMF then. Tell your husband you are ready for it and you want it too.
Wow, really you'll never have been experienced all the thills and excitements when a two guys, your husband and a other guy, simultaneously making love to you. It will be the best sex experience you'l will have in your life.
2007-09-15 02:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something is 100% wrong with him.Never can be a normal or standard men's thinking.A real man want, and desire satisfy his wife himself.A normal man does not need helpers in the bed.Say no.After there are 3 or more in the bed,the marriage never can be called marriage again.He need as soon as possible counselling help.Good question,and good luck.
2007-09-15 00:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have to be really honest with you, it is not a guy thing. Women might fantasize about having two guys, but not men. Men fantasize about two girls. Are you sure he has no interest in the other guy? So to me it is really weird.
2007-09-14 23:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Evidentally he has no respect for you as a woman or his wife. It makes me really wonder why people like this even want to get married. He is sick, and not worthy of your love. If he wanted this fantasy to come true then he never should have married you. Its one thing if you are not married but, you are. You are his wife and not a ho. How can you be sure that he won't try to fulfill his fantasy behind your back & bring home a disease to you? No man who truly loves his wife shares them with anyone sexually.
2007-09-15 00:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by jack_black_91 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have had the same situation. My husband has been asking me to do that for 9 years. I never would, until I sat down and asked him why he really wanted to do this crazy fantasy. He said that he liked the thought of watching me in action and seeing me get pleasure. He is not gay at all either. I was actually relieved that he wasn't asking for another woman.... I do not share his same opinion on wanting to watch (in truth I would be very jealous). I did end up doing it and it was not as bad as I thought. I actually enjoyed it. Now that he has had his fantasy fullfilled he really hasn't made it an issue. Do it if your comfortable. Other wise just tell him exactly the way you feel and to leave it alone. I did not want my husband to fullfill it with another woman.
2007-09-14 23:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by gone 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My ex always wanted me to do things like that and it cause alot of problems in our marriage...i was young and wanted to experience things with him so i did alot of what he asked (not everything) he really lost respect for me because I did some of them...I refused to do what you are being asked to do, but it still caused problems for us. I would say don't do them...marriage is about being faithful to one person. Bringing others into the relationship complicates things. sometimes fantasies need to keep being fantasies, he might say it will bring you two closer but it may cause him not to trust you after seeing you be pleasured by another man. if he loves you he'll accept your refusal and drop it, if that is what you choose. good luck
2007-09-14 23:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Big Red 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would not go as far as to say that this is common behavior, but there are those guys that like to watch other men have they're way with the wives. Personally I would think it a very sick idea and shows a lack of respect to you. Don't do it, as it is bound to lead to more problems for you if you do.
2007-09-14 23:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's probably just a fantasy that could ruin your marriage; so good that you don't want to participate. Ask him to rent some videos on the subject that you 2 can watch together and hopefully that will curb this fantasy of his. I couldn't and wouldn't do that either.
2007-09-14 23:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by gma 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋