How would you know? You can't believe everything you hear.
2007-09-14 16:51:47
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answer #1
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answered by wifeymommy 4
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The only thing that would matter to me is if she is d/d free. Everyone love sex. Would you break up a relationship just because she had sex with her bf's at the time? Just because she had sex with a lot of guys doesn't mean you should cheat on her. Just by asking that question shows that cheating IS an option in a relationship for you. If and when you find out a girl is cheating, dump her right there. Plain and simple. One more thing, if she had a lot of sex, then she should know what she is doing. Enjoy it and wear protection. You don't want to be stuck with her if you find out she is really a *****. Use protection.
2007-09-14 17:02:21
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answered by sukebe 2
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I know you ask the guys but women have an opinion on this too! So, I think it shouldn't matter who or how many Before you got with her , It only matters who or what she does while with you !! The past is just that, the past!! She should of never told you anyway, cause before she met you what she done was her bussiness and has nothing to do with you and her! And as far as using protection you should do that anyway, not just because you think this person has had a lot of partners cause not All Girls will tell you the truth ! So thats why you should know to use protection anyway, not just because of her !!!! Why would it give any guy a reason to cheat? If she hasn't cheated on you! If you cheat its because you want to and no one's fault but your own!! And why would you break up over someones past? That doesn't make sense, what about your past? How many have you been with? Should she break up with you over your past? Hope she's using protection cause if you've only been with just two, thats all it takes to get a S.T.D. !!! Not because you had more partners, it only takes One wrong One to get HIV!!!
2007-09-14 17:02:35
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answer #3
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answered by monkeymomma46 5
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in terms of health, you know the answer: more previous partners=higher risk STDs.
but, relationship-wise, you gotta remember that the past experiences of this girl--good and bad--have "molded" her into the person you love today.
without all this previous experience, she simply wouldn't be the same person. maybe some of the dudes she was with made her smarter (a better girlfriend for you), perhaps some made her a little psycho (sucky broad to be with), but the cumulation of all those previous relationships made her who she is today, and if you love who she is, but still can't be empathetic to the experiences that got her to be that way, sorry, but it isn't likely that things will work out...you might feel its OK for you to cheat cuz she's had so many other partners, or you may feel jealous/inadequate=STATIC!
i'm not a guy, but my man is older and more experienced than i, and, it's just something you have to come to terms with if you feel that person is worth your emotional stress.
2007-09-14 17:02:42
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answered by jacqueline r 1
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I think you should both be tested for HIV, first of all. Then, after everything checks out OK, what is the big stupid deal how many partners she has had? Gosh. Get over yourself already.
BTW, I think it is telling how you said "would u be quicker to cheat?". Quicker? does that imply sooner than later. As if it would happen regardless?
I am a female GUY. thanks for your question.
2007-09-14 16:59:50
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answered by kj 3
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Quicker to cheat? What's wrong with you? Don't hold something against somebody that happened way before they met you.
Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Of course, I would've known before getting together....but, that's just me.
2007-09-14 17:03:22
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answer #6
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answered by imrt70 6
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Guys who think sex is something disgusting, sinful or wrong might feel that if a woman had a lot of experiences in the past that make her less worthy.
That's 100% macho, sexist and it's unfair for women. Women AND men should be free to explore sexuality and not be IRS'ed by their sentimental partners.
If the girl slept with a lot of guys and now want you to be the next one and she treats you good and she's sincere and kind and nice, well, that who she is, a nice, loving girl who wants to love you, not a dirty woman for you to hate for having had a normal sex life.
2007-09-14 16:55:21
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answered by Carlos Mal 5
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Well...how many is alot? 10 or 50? I would definately have her get an Std/Hiv test just to make sure that everything was ok. And use a condom. I wouldnt break up with her though. At least she was honest to tell you about her past. Maybe she has changed since then.
2007-09-14 16:51:32
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answered by Anonymous
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it all depends, did you have alot of sex before her too?
sounds like you can't forgive her past, notice I said forgive, not forget.
Everyone deserves a second chance. Its human nature to make mistakes.
If your having thoughts of breaking up, cheating, and insecurities and you know in your heart, the thought of her past will bug you then you should leave. get out of the relationship ASAP.
But if you have strong feelings for her and you come to terms that YOU can't change your past, let alone hers, let the past stay in the past, and start over with a clean slate.
At the same time make sure you get checked by a doctor and use alot of proppylapteeks! LMAO
good luck!
=oP
2007-09-14 16:57:02
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answered by Lilkryptonite 4
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The past is past, let it stay there.
Were you a virgin when you started your relationship?
Would it be right for HER to hold your previous sexual escapades against you?
Unless she brought along some sexually transmitted diseases to share with you don't consider her past. All that matters is the present and the future.
But to answer your questions:
No, it would not bother me.
No, if it is a committed relationship, I don't cheat.
No, I would not break up with her because of her past.
Doc
2007-09-14 16:55:59
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answered by Doc Hudson 7
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1. Uhhh get over it. That means she will know how to do it right.
2.Why The Hell would that make you cheat ...quicker...Are all of your freaking relationships going to end in that ?
3.Yea break up with someone you are suppose to love because of something they can't change.
2007-09-14 16:54:10
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answer #11
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answered by sunburstpixie 4
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