Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

we have two children who will graduate from high school next june. What should I do? We are still living together but we are not having any sex. She says Iam to clingy. I grow up in a home where there was always screaming and hollering and I have done that in this marriage. Both of us have been marrried once before

2007-09-14 15:03:53 · 24 answers · asked by DaddyO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 15:03:52 · 20 answers · asked by Lazarus 1 in Singles & Dating

I sent an email with pictures and info to an agency I researched in a nearby city (I live in Wisconsin). They told me to call and they would give me an appointment. I told my mom about it and at first she sounded excited but then all of a sudden she said it was a 'waste of time' and that unless 'I'm america's next top model its useless, and if you are, you should try out for that!" She started rambling about applying to Elite in NY (I have no experience or even a portfolio and she expects me to go from that to some supermodel in NY???). I don't understand! She'd rather have me been in Robert Powers Modeling School spending thousands of dollars for uselessness. I really want to go see this agency but no way can I do it without her support.

2007-09-14 15:00:18 · 2 answers · asked by SweetNsour 1 in Family

My cusins are twin girls a year older then me soon to be 15. They are a little deffrent so they don't acrt like most teenagers, They had some hard homelifes somtimes. They are in modling classes wich I think is cool but I'm not jelous but I don't like how they brag to me about it. They said somone told them they are going to be famous famous modles one day. And Tomorrow they are going 3 hours away from here becuase the siad they are getting a job interveiw thing to be in targert, fred myer, magizines for halloween and Chirstmas. They said that she liked our pictures, and I think we will get the job, Then one said I can't wait tell we are world wide. This makes me feel like I'm nothing abd It kind of herts my feelings some times. But are all twins cut out for hollywood to be like te olsens, Dylan and Cole sprose, and Tia and Tamara Mallorey (sp?) Is it really that easy to be come a child famous model just like that? I think they do it on pourpse you can tell my the way they say it.

2007-09-14 14:58:50 · 1 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

My brother plays Conquer, Maplestory, and Dragonfable. When we've asked him to get off, we've had to yell at him to get off. When he finally got off, he literally cried with tears streaming down his face because he couldn't finish a quest. We did not hit him. He slams the door and acts all sulky and sometimes he locks himself up in his room. As soon as he gets up in the morning, he goes on the computer. As soon as he gets back from school, its back on the computer. I don't get much time, and he spends about 5 hours everyday. When it's just me, and Itell him to get off, he screams and hits me. And somehow he has more strength than I do. When he eats his snack, he eats it while playing. I've given up on fighting with him, but I don't just want to let this go on. He's spoiled, and he whines a lot, whines way too much, and complains about just about anything I'm wondering if this is normal for a 12 year old boy?
Mind you, we still do love each other.
Sorry for the long question, folks

2007-09-14 14:56:23 · 4 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

i was thinking if i did build a bear and put a special message in it b/c i like my best guy friend and his friends say he likes me. would that be too unmanly? (i would drop it off at his house so none of his friends would know) or would you rather something else???

2007-09-14 14:55:06 · 1 answers · asked by rave_runner 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf was rediculously accused of child abuse back in April. He was accused of child abuse and arrested, now he is facing court trial. The kids, he can only see under professional supervision. I know that all this is a bad, traumatic thing. But since then, he has lost his job and just sits around feeling sorry for himself. It effects our relationship as he never wants to go anywhere, or even be with me because he is too depressed. He won't even go to church with me. I know I should be supportive and I have been, but it's been 5 months! I just feel so lost and hurt because I take it personal that he won't spend time with me, or as much time as I want to spend with him. I don't know how to help him, and have pretty much decided that I can't continue like this as I have needs and desires and they have been on hold this whole time. Is this wrong of me? I love him and we planned on getting married some day. What should I do. He knows how I feel, but he says, if I can't deal, then oh wel

2007-09-14 14:54:47 · 17 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to do something really nice for her when she gets back home, just to show her she was missed by all of us. I was thinking of a get away but she would probably like to be in her own home. Any ideas?

2007-09-14 14:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by 400lbtwins 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married w/ two children. I work, clean house. make appt. go shopping for groceries. and when were sick we still have to take care of everything. And when men are sick there the biggest baby's

2007-09-14 14:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 14:53:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, I met this guy & we have a blast together, only he won't commit to a serious relationship, even tho neither of us have dated anyone else in the past 4 yrs. His cop out is that he tried involving someone else in his life (twice) & he doesn't feel it is fair to try again. I know, he is afraid of commintment, how do I break threw this barrior? I don't want to live alone forever, but I don't want to give him up either. I have never felt free enough to totally be myself with any other person before.

2007-09-14 14:49:28 · 7 answers · asked by pony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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She's not a best friend, but we see each other often and I've been invited to hang out with her a couple times. I've had a crush on this guy for a while, but for various reasons, I haven't totally acted on it besides talking to him when I see him. A few weeks ago, I got a hunch they like each other, but a few days ago, it was pretty clear to me that she likes him. I was told that they had been out two times. At parties and activities that we as a group of friends do, I noticed that the sit by each other and talk to each other a lot. I don't know the extent of the relationship, cause I didn't want to ask yet. I thought it would be a little weird to go straight to one of them and ask just in case one of them kinda has figured out that I like him. Is it all right to straight up and ask one of t

2007-09-14 14:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by gem2477 3 in Singles & Dating

It is true that someone wrote something like that, or at least it got translated like that in some editions of the Bible, but how does "having dominion" give one the right to abuse animals? That interpretation makes about as much sense as the interpretation that the Constitution means individuals have a right to own and kill each other with guns.

For anyone who seriously wants to know more about how we torture animals before we eat them, click on the following link:
http://factoryfarming.org/

2007-09-14 14:48:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've tried talking to my boyfriend and I get no where. I asked him if it's me and he says no. We dont have sex that often but it's not that i wount put out i guess we just dont have sex. Maybe once or twice a week. I have been catching him looking at porn on the internet and dvd's. I dont mind if he masturbates. I just dont like that he does it to porn. I tried the password thing on my computer, but he gets threw that. And taken his porn away is like hell it's self. I just want him to quit masturbating to porn. It makes me feel like I'm not what he wants nor likes. He says that isn't ture, but for some reason I feel like there is still something he doesn't like about me. We use to have sex everyday and that slowly died which i exspected, but now we rarely have it and he's always masterbating. Even on the days we have sex, and I know he goes when we have sex. So how do I get him to stop? He knows how I feel about it. And it's anal porn, we use to do that but it hurts.

2007-09-14 14:47:35 · 20 answers · asked by kayla e 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 14:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And I told her I'd rather make some tea, so I tea bagged her and then she tossed the salad

2007-09-14 14:40:44 · 21 answers · asked by lionssb42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you going to hyphen your name when you get married?
Why or why not?

2007-09-14 14:29:52 · 31 answers · asked by georgia_peach 6 in Weddings

I am trying to make a seating arrangement for my wedding reception. We decided to have a head table with our bridal party. That alone is ten people. I was planning on having all my girls on my side and all the men on my hubby's side. Four of the people in our bridal party are bringing dates. We hardly know these people. I put them all at a table together with a couple singles, but then someone told me i need to seat these dates at the head table too. Is that right? If I can seat them elsewhere do i need to sit their table right next to the head table or can they be further away. I was trying to keep our family closest and like i said we hardly know these dates of our wedding party. Ahhhh! Help! What do I do?

2007-09-14 14:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by Katie O 2 in Weddings

What Im gone tell her?

2007-09-14 14:23:00 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my girl cheated on me 3 months back, and i forgave but didnt forget. now i know she has made great strides in trying her best, but i just dont feel it for her anymore. she is the love of my life, but i also shouldnt have to be looking over my shoulder at what she is doing.

from a woman's point of view, what do you think she is dealing with right now? when i told her what i wanted to do, we talked about it, and she was biting her nails a lot and in the end couldnt even look at me b/c of the tears that was ready to flow. i know i have a spot that she could probably touch and go back to normal....but this has to be the changing point to where i get put first, and not everyone else along with the fact that she might cheat again. if i dont feel anything after this break does that make me a jerk? i need help here! i love her, but at what heartache to me?

2007-09-14 14:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by notcatchable 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My confidence back? I have my days where i think i look good, but most the time i feel ugly. How do i not think like that anymore? Pllllleeeaaassssse help.
Thanx!

2007-09-14 14:22:09 · 11 answers · asked by Notiq 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 14:21:30 · 7 answers · asked by LOOBYLOO 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was the other woman in an affair that last 1 1/2 years. His wife found out about the affair and as of yesterday he told me he didn't want to go to counseling with his wife and was going to talk to her today. He says he loves me but doesn't want to leave because of his kids. I have tried to end this 3 times in the last 3 weeks but he keeps confiding in me and talking to me every chance he gets. I got very angry and just told him to figure things out for himself I need to get on with my life. I asked him why can't he just say goodbye to me and go on with his life. He told me just to have some patience because he can't bring himself to say goodbye yet. I need some closure to get on with my life. Needless to say I am in counseling weekly and trying to better myself. Why do you think he won't say goodbye?


please no bashing me because i am the other woman..i know i was wrong and trying to move forward and be a good person.

2007-09-14 14:16:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a woman said to you she was going to leave her husband for you, what would you think? If you liked her, and if you didn't like her?
Not Love.

2007-09-14 14:14:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks to every body who has been answering. Some more info. NO, I NEVER FAILED FOR GREEN CARD. DIDN'T EVEN HAD TIME IN 2 MONTHS. YES. AFTER DRUGS, ALL KIND OF ABUSE, BET ME, STOLE FROM ME, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSE. I WILL TRY SOME OF THE OPTIONS YOU MENTIONED. TO CHAPUCINO.WHO GIVED ME SO MUCH INFO. THANKS.

2007-09-14 14:10:32 · 1 answers · asked by elizaabigail 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15. I was in a play lasted about 4.5 months I made a close friend at the play She is 33 She invited me to go on a week-long trip with her back to her hometown which is 340 miles away because for her bday she got tickets to see a big musical there We were also going to go to theme parks, etc and were going to stay at her parent's house She said my parents could talk to her or her parents as much as they'd need to, they could have as much information as they needed I asked my parents, telling them all this About 3 days they told me no but their reason was that they wouldn't be being responsible parents if something happened to me and that they didn't know her well enough but she said she'd do whatever they needed her to do to get to know her and I told them that. I have good judgment, I'm a smart kid, shouldn't that count for anything? Was I totally out-of-line asking? Is there any way I could get them to change their minds? They are so convinced something is going to happen to me.

2007-09-14 14:10:30 · 3 answers · asked by person 1 in Family

After my ex and I had our son a year ago, then we split. It was a nasty breakup for us both. my question is understanding were my ex is coming from. we both happily and willingly agreed to have our son (in fact he insisted that we go thru with it) and now that we slipt my ex doesn' t want to have much to do with our baby. He says it he loves us both and claims he cares for our kid but I don't see it much. could he really be that bitter? we were together for 6 yrs before the baby, I just can't see my self that angry about the situation. I've had a lot of emotions but is that normal please give advice on how to deal with him and his anger.

2007-09-14 14:08:12 · 8 answers · asked by ginarose 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we dont talk to much no sex life and he is very smart talking to me and he is so much older we have been married for 10 yrs. and we have businesses together and I want out with out loseing nothing . we dont do any thing together I mean nothing you name it Imean nothing no touch no talk nothing what do i do.

2007-09-14 14:07:55 · 10 answers · asked by sexxy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant help it. I even have the evil intention to try and win them over sometimes but I force myself to back off.

2007-09-14 14:06:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 14:05:58 · 24 answers · asked by SkUnDy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships