Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

2007-09-14 19:56:06 · 10 answers · asked by cheeck 1 in Singles & Dating

i started college and my parents are paying for tuition and my new car. i dont know how to cook. I do help around the house. I do like to keep outdated things (clothes, stuff) I never throw them away. I work twice a week to pay for my books, gasoline, parking permit, and more and some pocket money. im mature and I study a lot on my own. my parents buy me any book that I ask for. I never ask to buy anything else such as music, clothes, jewlery or whatever just books. I appreciate their hard work and I try to work hard also. we are however somewhat of an upper middle class family?
So am I spoiled?

2007-09-14 19:51:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We're friends in school for like a year or more. We spent time together engaging in stuff that we're both interested in. He sometimes came to talk to me, but most of the time, i did the asking out. He's a nice friend. He's never been attached, and he admitted he liked a lot of people before, but they never progress because he wasn't ready to commit. He is quiet most of the time, and i never heard from him that he had someone on his mind. He said he haven't think about the issue of love. What's wrong.. He's in his early twenties.

2007-09-14 19:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by ellarino 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so at my school, there is a small 9th grade class mainly for people who couldn't get into a good highschool. Because of this, the 9th grade class also interacts with 6th, 7th, and 8th graders.

I think I kinda like one of the 6th grade girls and I know that's a little strange. Not in a perverted or sexual way, I just think she's really cute and I know shes mature for her age. Does that make me weird for it? I've been stressing over it for a while and trying to stop, but I still just kinda like her. I know a few of my 9th grade friends like 7th grade girls that appear to be younger than the one I kinda like.

2007-09-14 19:35:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband had ocd ,he got rehab,dicharged and now shows signs of bipolar.i have suffered for 15 yers and have 2 children. he does not work sleeps the whole day and talks of doing big one day,but does not lift a finger .i am unemployed too and from a poor family.my parents have passed away and my brothers dont want my burden.can i leave my childre with my in laws who are rich and go back to my country.I will request my in laws to raise my kids who have 3 more yrs of schooling ,am i doing right.if i stay with hubby whom i love but he does not reciprocate i will go mad and we all go hungry.i dont have very cordial relatons with in laws due to my husbands bad habits. i am thinking of suicide i am so stressed.i have no relatives no friends please can someone help me .

2007-09-14 19:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by niki s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your boyfriend or girlfriend wanted to wear your perfume or cologne on a daily basis because it reminded them of you or just because they liked the smell, would you continue dating them? So your boyfriend wearing you pretty flowery fragerance. Or your girlfriend wearing your axe. Imagine that your boyfriend or girlfriend were great otherwise, but, they had this weird trait. What would you do?

2007-09-14 19:33:46 · 11 answers · asked by drnotwhoyouthinkiam 2 in Singles & Dating

"All wives leave their husbands - they just don't take their bodies with them".

2007-09-14 19:32:15 · 10 answers · asked by SafetyDancer 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 19:31:33 · 5 answers · asked by MBA-MsBadAss 3 in Singles & Dating

i want her to have fun and i love her to death. but she is drinking and she is only 16. its starting to become a regular thing for her and i really wanna tell her that i dont like it but i dont wanna do anything that will make her feel like i am tryin to hold her back

i am wrong or what
i need some help

2007-09-14 19:30:35 · 36 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Singles & Dating

this month will be 3 years since we have met and been together and 6 months since we have got marrried i dont know what to do i mean i love him with all my heart but i am not the best at experiencing my emotions and he is i want to do something just as special for him this time as he does for me. What could i do for him.

2007-09-14 19:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by BWife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 19:21:44 · 12 answers · asked by lebeza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my wife for over 3 years and the first one was great. Now it seems that I am seeing her true colors and I’m in the middle of a bad situation. She is a great housewife cause she was brought up to be very clean and organized.. She is very hyper and has a good intention to help out. However whenever she gets angry or want something she acts crazy, looses control and start to say things and destroying everything I have like: GPS of my car, my cell phone, my laptop and many times she punches me and gets crazy … she makes a scene in front of my friends or even public places hitting me in the face or even spitting me when I tried to control her. I am starting to hate her and as many times I tried to resolve this she just don’t make changes or seek help for us. Now I asked her to leave for a while but is getting impossible at this stage since she doesn’t want to work or be outside the house … I’m a man so its difficult to have people to understand ...

2007-09-14 19:18:42 · 21 answers · asked by Bono 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone, i'm going threw a real tuff time, iwas married for seven years to my first husband which he still is. But we have been seperated almost 4 years. I moved on after our seperation and had another relationship that did not work out. I had twins out of this recent relationship. Now we both are alone but he is scared. I do still love him and i know he does too. but he confuses me one day he wants to be with me and another he doesnt... I dont know if i should just let him go and move on..Please help.

2007-09-14 19:18:08 · 6 answers · asked by bunnygirls3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 19:16:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 19:15:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I "went out" with this caucasion guy in seventh grade but we were on and off for like a year and then we broke up at the end of seventh grade. We never talked in 8th grade and we ignored each other completely. Now we're in 9th grade and I always see him hanging out with this vietnamese girl ( i'm viet too). Everytime I see him with another girl I get really mad, I feel like no one else should be with him. I don't think I like him still because he's perverted and all he thinks about is making out and we didn't have much in common. I think we only like each other because of our looks. That's why I broke up with him.


How can I end my "jealousy"?????

2007-09-14 19:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Banana Fish 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 19:08:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone please tell me ...Who is entitled to a deceased person's ss benefits??? Specifically...WHICH WIFE????? I say the first if she hasn't remarried. He says there is no way a first wife is getting S**T!!! Even if I'm kinda right...that'll work for me.(as you should be able to tell...I'm super pissed, with his attitude about this)

2007-09-14 19:05:21 · 6 answers · asked by louloutee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 19:04:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my best friend since 1st grade's girlfriend and I are very attracted to each other and have started talking about it. We text and call each other constantly!! Her messages/conversations are always leading me on and she really does not like her boyfriend anymore. What should I do! I like her!!!!

2007-09-14 19:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by Brent K 2 in Singles & Dating

[overall speaking] why though??
what do they do exactly to achieve it? do they get on others nerves or not?

2007-09-14 18:58:27 · 1 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're having some issues with communication to say the least. He's a great man, and amazing father for our 1yr old daughter... but we dont have anything going on in the intimate communication dept. Things just seem like I get what's left after he works, does stuff outside in the yard & garage and if the pager doesnt go off (he's a firefighter/paramedic) ...I really feel alone alot. He's told me that he know's I wouldnt do anything outside our marriage on purpose, but he also knows he leaves me alone alot...I have been getting messages from an "old friend" and the feeling of being wanted is something that I miss, I told my husband about this, and he says "I do want you, I'm just tired all the time." I even told him of me running into the old friend and him hugging me (notta biggie) but kissing on me too, hubby didnt seem to mind. I'm hurt, and I feel like crap! My husband is the one I want, the ONLY one I want! I just dont feel he wants me-unless it's convienant for him...any advice?

2007-09-14 18:57:29 · 17 answers · asked by marcie1997 3 in Marriage & Divorce

funeral. As far as me "letting go" I was doing a pretty good job of it until I ran into him face to face at the funeral. You must understand, I was reeling from the shock of my sister's senseless murder, then I see this man that had molested me for 4 years as a child! I was suddenly reduced that 4 year old child hiding under the bed! I could not confront him. At that time Family and children services did not go after things like that the way they do now and I had never heard of them anyway,and my mother did not believe me. Thid msn now has served a a county commissioner in his county, I was sickened when I heard that.Again, thank you very much for your kind suggestions and obvious concern and love. I will get counseling and consider writing him a letter.

2007-09-14 18:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It all started in 4th grade, Debbie and I had been bff since 1st grade, then in 4th grade we befriended another person. Then in 6th grade i told them that i cant hang out with them anymore . when they dont spend time to be with me, then one got really mad then said I HATE YOU! even if it isnt my fault... Help!!!

2007-09-14 18:52:58 · 22 answers · asked by Shokoi 2 in Friends

I trust her and everything but its not like I like it that she does. I don't feel its fair that I am extending her the courtesy and she fails to return it. What should I do?

2007-09-14 18:52:09 · 6 answers · asked by Huckleberry 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this boy i go out with and i don't really like him anymore but everyday he says he loves me but that makes it even harder for me to break up with him what should i do?

2007-09-14 18:49:37 · 9 answers · asked by l_towns_finest1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-14 18:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Often times I will find myself talking to myself about things out loud. Most of the time it's problems I have to deal with that day. This has been increasing more and more as the months have gone on for the past year. I live alone, but am out socially every night. Should I be worried? What could this mean?

2007-09-14 18:48:29 · 21 answers · asked by Brent K 2 in Singles & Dating

( oh and you can not say kill someone)

2007-09-14 18:46:05 · 26 answers · asked by vault 5 in Family

I know the picture is small sorry? Do you know my families last name. Also can you name us all?

2007-09-14 18:44:38 · 21 answers · asked by vault 5 in Family