what should I do with my insecurities?

Answer 1

trade them on the insecurities exchanges

buy high, sell low

Answer 2

Take two pieces of paper. On one, write your insecurities. For each insecurity, think of a phrase that describes something you or others like about yourself. Try to think of compliments you've got, people who love you, etc. Rip up/burn/destroy in some physical way the insecurity list, and post the second one somewhere where you'll see it every day. I used to have a list under my mirror that had a lot of sentences beginning "I am..." with my positive qualities on it.

Answer 3

Try focusing on the good things you do each day, you can start doing this by writing down what you did each day before you go to sleep, and through this you will realize your own power which will in turn give you self value and the insecurities will start to fade as it's all a state of mind.

Answer 4

as Tyra Banks campaign says, "so what". i think that some people are so focussed on being perfect that they are not readily able to except what they are is good enough.

let go of that i got to be perfect mentality. i have to say that there is not a one person on the face of this earth comming remotely close to being perfect. we all have aspect's of our selves that are not going to please some. those same aspects of out selves that displease other's, other's will find attractive.

you cant please every one there's no possible way.

you can only be the best you that you can be. even if you have aspects of your self that dont please you. then take comfort in knowing that ok i have a goal. this is what i want to improve on my self. if it cant be improved then let the other good qualities of your self shine brighter then the fault's, covering up what's lacking.

so for now work on forming your mind to think that perfect is impossible. and who i am is exceptable. if i my self want to improve on some aspect of me then great but, as for other's not liking me because of one aspect of me then they arent really worth knowing anyway. that you would rather have those in your life who have depth past the interest of wehther a person eye's are too close together or what ever it is that your concerend about.

life is way too short to worry about the small thing's. life is too short to focus on what other's think of you. because the truth is while your busing your self with worrying. you could have strengthed your other attributes. it doesnt even have to be all about what you look like or the lack of accomplishment's you have. try to just have fun. go out and do something fun. something that will make you happy. do something that you can be proud of. like say helping out at your local shelter if not that something that you can say wow i did it. i think that keeping your self busy you wont have much time or room to think oh my arm's are too flabby, or again what ever it is you feel insecure about.

remember this, "negative begett's negative". which mean's if you want to think negative all the time then that's what you'll be negative. instead of a contributer to a healthier happier you.

hope this was helpful.

Answer 5

Put them in a box, tie them with a pretty bow, and stick them in the back of your closet! They will only hinder your life and hold you back from trying to realize your dreams!

Answer 6

Put them in a bottle and send them to sea.

Answer 7

What anybody in your situation would do deal with them if you dont no one else will do it for you, you got to try to change.

Answer 8

you should high light them...guys like that kind of thing...like if you think your butt looks big in pants...as long as the butt looks good...it dont matter cause i am with you...i would be supportive...

Answer 9

it depends insecurities with wat .. ur self.. well if this is the case talk to urself and findout what u are good at and know what u are workin with

Answer 10

therapist