Okay, so I "went out" with this caucasion guy in seventh grade but we were on and off for like a year and then we broke up at the end of seventh grade. We never talked in 8th grade and we ignored each other completely. Now we're in 9th grade and I always see him hanging out with this vietnamese girl ( i'm viet too). Everytime I see him with another girl I get really mad, I feel like no one else should be with him. I don't think I like him still because he's perverted and all he thinks about is making out and we didn't have much in common. I think we only like each other because of our looks. That's why I broke up with him.
How can I end my "jealousy"?????
2007-09-14 19:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Banana Fish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont think you can end your jealousy until you find a new crush. like when me and my bf broke up i was jealous but then i started liking this guy and i dont get jealous anymore. you should think about the not so good things about the relationship and remind yourself that he doenst deserve you
2007-09-14 19:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by wildtiger614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, maybe I am way too old to be answering this but some things never change from one generation to another! You had feelings for him and you STILL do or you would not feel jealousy when you see him w/ another girl. It is that simple so don't try to over analyze it. Do whatever kids your age do to casually get together and see if you do have feelings for him. He may have grown up some and not be so sex obsessed by now. ;)
2007-09-14 19:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by 8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I got married, unfortunately my husband's ex girlfriend had become so jealous of me. My husband is caucasian, and his ex gf and I are both asian from the same country. And guess what, his ex does odd things to us, like sending me their old photos - to make me jealous. And before we even get married, she told me lies about him so I will stop marrying this guy, and also, she'd say odd things about me to my husband now, just so he would not marry me. Three years after we got married, and her jealousy still disturbs me. Perhaps jealousy is such a disease. It is Ugly.
The best thing for you to do is to move on. Find someone better than him. Someone that you truly Love. Don't do what my husband's ex gf did to us/me. It will become a sin that would badly stain your soul. Your ex bf is not the only guy left in the world. There are those who can become crazy of you. Send your life to that direction, think of your beautiful future. Good luck.
2007-09-14 19:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by LJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you answered your very question with your next to last sentence; the relationship was superficial and hollow.
You're likely also feeling angry at YOURSELF, because he's getting it on hot w/ other girls.....and you stood by principles and avoided sex play w/ him. In other words: He's getting it and you're not......that can consume your thoughts if you let it.
You DO possess the power to refuse to let this eat at your heart and mind. Stick w/ your principles and command your heart and mind to be free of angry feelings towards him (after all--HE lost out; not YOU).
Girls have sweet honey. Honey attracts bees. Bad bees taste the honey, sting and buzz away; Good bees know the lines not to cross; they know to wait.....and birds have not a dam thing to do with it!!
2007-09-14 19:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I have the same problem! i don't think I like him but I get so mad when I see him even sitting beside another girl! I think it might be becauseI'm single & i think he should be too! I'm not really sure.
Good Luck!
2007-09-14 19:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by 123456788999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is funny it happens sometimes...this shows u still got some feelings for him u know... just move on and think how good u are and too bad he cant have u to make out with him.... find someone else.... and dont even think about him
2007-09-14 19:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by .·.¹³ LaSh3s¹³.·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didnt love im u just lusted .get a bf of ure own to get out dis love/lust on. im in 9th grade 2
2007-09-14 19:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by noob hustler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you liked him for more than his face! maye u r still jealous because u still like he also is probably trying to c ur reaction so u should just b nice to hima nd say hi and c wat happens next. let things fall into place on their own.
2007-09-14 19:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by ur♥cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋