Hello everyone, i'm going threw a real tuff time, iwas married for seven years to my first husband which he still is. But we have been seperated almost 4 years. I moved on after our seperation and had another relationship that did not work out. I had twins out of this recent relationship. Now we both are alone but he is scared. I do still love him and i know he does too. but he confuses me one day he wants to be with me and another he doesnt... I dont know if i should just let him go and move on..Please help.
2007-09-14 19:18:08 · 6 answers · asked by bunnygirls3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on...you were separated for a reason and if he is not sure about being together ...he may never be...
You have children to think about and they should be your main concern now...not the guy you got rid of previously...
Enjoy your life and your children...they are great blessings...
I have 2 of my own.:-)
Oh, and, make the separation permanent get a divorce and start your new life!
2007-09-14 19:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by angelcraw4d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry u were no clear in ur writing.. about who was who.. ??
but i think ur saying that ur husband wants u back after u had a relationship w/ another man and had twins?
If u and ur hubby broke up in the past.. then u broke up for a reason...
if it didn't work then,, chances of it working now.. is not likely..
are u just looking for a daddy? I would give this some more thought..
I wish u luck in whatever u decide..
2007-09-14 20:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only separated from you LAWFUL husband but you decided to phuck around, cheat on your marriage and have twins with another man and now you're whining for help? A separation is NOT a disillusionment of marriage, NOT a divorce. You are STILL married to your first husband whether you live with him or not. So basically what you have done is made your children bastards because they are children born out of an adulterous relationship.
2007-09-14 19:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop wasting your life. Make yourself happy and then you will be more open to finding the love you deserve.
2007-09-14 22:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry to hear that but what i think you should just let him go if he dosent love you on some days maybe he just dosent love you at all
2007-09-14 19:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by happy bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really give us enough details on what kind of guy he is and is he willing to raise someone else's kids....
2007-09-14 19:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋