So my best friend since 1st grade's girlfriend and I are very attracted to each other and have started talking about it. We text and call each other constantly!! Her messages/conversations are always leading me on and she really does not like her boyfriend anymore. What should I do! I like her!!!!
2007-09-14 19:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by Brent K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah, the predicament is that she is my BEST FRIEND'S girlfriend. This could pose serious ramification for us, but I would really like to get with her.
2007-09-14 19:06:21 · update #1
Your behavior is SHADY!
Tell this girl that you can't betray your friend this way, regardless of how you feel about her. Let her know that if they should eventually break up, you can LATER talk about starting something up. DO NOT be the reason for their breakup. If you are, you'll lose a great friend forever. This girl is only temporary, believe me.
2007-09-14 19:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by 1M9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she didn't like him she would have broken up with him already. If she does decide to break up with him have her do it gently so he doesn't feel embarrassed or hurt his pride. Then wait a while (a few months depending on how serious he was about her) and have a serious conversation with him and tell him about your feelings for her and tell him that they are genuine feelings not just that you think she's hot and she thinks your hot (if that's the case then it's just not worth it, only do this if you feel that this could develop into a serious relationship because friends are more important). Tell him that you wanted to talk to him about it first and if he is uncomfortable with the idea then you will not pursue anything because, ultimately, his friendship is more important than any girl.
2007-09-14 19:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Janette 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A friendship will last longer than the girl....don't forget that! Your obligation is to him, just like you would want in return. Sometimes, you have to throw things out the back door, all it will do is ruin your friendship and I'm sure you don't want that. Stop all the communication with her, all your doing is putting more fire into the flame! If they break up, and years down the road, you two meet again, then you will know its destiny......until then... LEAVE YOUR FRIENDS GIRL ALONE!
2007-09-14 19:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all she needs to break up with her boyfriend. It will make it worse if you start something behind his back. If you want to handle it like adults she needs to break up with him then both of you sit down with him and discuss the situation. Going behind a best friends back is never worth it and you always get caught.
2007-09-14 19:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approaching your friends girlfriend while they are still dating would be a bad idea. Ask her if she does not like her boyfriend, why is she still dating him. If she truely didn't want to be with him she would have broken up with him by now. If she DOES break up with him, talk with your friend before you start anything up with her.
2007-09-14 19:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much does your best friend like her? You don't wanna hurt your best friend over a girl he really likes but if he doesn't care about her as much then yeah approach her
2007-09-14 19:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Gisell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather have a best friend for life, or a girlfriend for a few months?
2007-09-14 19:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by sarah v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach the girl!
2007-09-14 19:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is doing it to her bf, she may just do it to you later on. why risk losing a best mate for someone like her?
2007-09-14 19:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bros before hoes
2007-09-14 19:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋