Ok there is this boy i go out with and i don't really like him anymore but everyday he says he loves me but that makes it even harder for me to break up with him what should i do?
2007-09-14 18:49:37 · 9 answers · asked by l_towns_finest1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be honest with him. I've had this happen a number of times. It's hard, but you can't stay with someone just because they want to be with you. It's not fair to either of you. He needs to be able to find someone who will love him back, and you need to find someone you love. Be firm when speaking to him, as he will probably beg and cry. You don't need to be insensitive, but be clear & firm in your decision.
Good Luck!!
2007-09-20 02:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer, break up with him. You don't want him but he wants you. If you don't like him and have no feelings for him then you're only making it more painful for him when you finally, and you will, break up with him. If you don't then one day your heart will give itself away and you'll find yourself with 2 boys and one will be very, very hurt. Plus getting caught at that makes you look bad. Just end it clean and soon so you can find somebody to love and not ruin your reputation.
2007-09-20 03:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by lazyslacker013 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you cut the ties of the romantic relationship the better for both of you. You are being totally unfair to him. And if he realizes or thinks you are losing interest, his telling you he loves you could be a form of guilt that you cannot let control the relationship.
Break up and let the man move on to someone who wants what he is looking for!
2007-09-22 12:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to go easy on him, slowly start to distance yourself. Little by little he will start to accept it in his mind. Love should be mutual, and if you're not feeling the same way, it is best to be honest and part ways before he gets too attached to the point where he could become obsessive. Thats when things get dangerous.
2007-09-23 00:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says that he loves you for one or two reasons;first of all because he really does,and/OR no.2,he knows that's what you expect him to say in order to strengthen his designs on you which will result in further manipulation and control of your life.Let him down as easily as you can,but with class.There is a book entitled,"How to break your addiction to a person".
2007-09-22 22:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with the guy he might be a bit hurt but he'll appreciate it in the end! Don't string him along any more you wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot.
2007-09-22 20:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by xx_lovelylou_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should break up anyway because if ur actin different around him he probably already knws and he thinks if he says he loves u it'll help so just end it!
2007-09-22 15:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by modelpotential_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll...the longer u wait the longer it'll take to break up...get the nerve up to be cruel and a b itch..for that specific moment...put ur wall up....so when u do break up...it wont hurt u to hurt him..but do it soon......no offence intended..but it works for me....i am too nice sometimes...lol
2007-09-15 02:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Doris G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him to him to hit the brix
2007-09-22 18:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by msmikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋