Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

So I was at a resturant and these siblings were just joking around and they seem too close. Too happy and snuggly. To me i find it disgusting.

this was a brother and sister they are in their teens.

2007-09-14 18:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1 in Family

I have been through some extremely tough things the past month ( some of you may have read what I wrote earlier ) and here I am talking with a fellow ( I thought was my friend ) and he is whinning to me about the fact that his woman caught him cheating with her step sister. When she confronted him right then & there he said it was all her fault because the " other " woman was staying with them. ( One sis helping out the other one ) which made it impossible for him NOT to climb into her bed on a daily basis ( she willing complied ) and he became so angry at being caught by his lady that he started beating her then & there. I was outraged when he told me of this, I spit in his face, turned and walked away.
He is now serving time in jail and rightfully so.
What else really made me sick, was the fact that the step-sister watched the entire thing and did nothing to stop it. Claiming that from that day forward he was her man.

Should they both rot in hell?

2007-09-14 18:43:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy is like always like not responsible, like i wait for like 4

hours for him and he pisses me off really, he did this last

weekend ,too and we chilled out at like 1:30 because of him

and this week , i started talking to him at 8:00pm and he tells

me that, call me in about halfen hour and i did that like milion

times and by time 10:30, he sais he will pick me up after he

goes to his friend's house, and then he just goes to a party,

and from like 12:00, he is like just being there and follin

around, he doesn’t even tell me the direction which party he

went and his friends is just pickin up the phone, he said he will

pick me up , but he didn’t, and last Friday or something, I

waited for like 4 hours,too

2007-09-14 18:42:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you like girls that wear a lot of makeup, or go for the more softer, natural look?

i have a lot of people tell me that i am one of the few people that can pull off dark eyeliner and not look harsh, but then most girls i know are always telling me to wear less, and a couple boys have told me that before.

but with the girls, i'm always paranoid they just want me to look bad or something lol. so what do you think? do you think a lot of makeup or natural is more attractive?

2007-09-14 18:42:11 · 20 answers · asked by cupcake 4 in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend on OKcupid.... we've dated for 6 months and its been sooooooooooo great! The thing is he has not taken his OK cupid PROFILE off line yet.... it still says single and he uploaded new photos... so I did the same thing. Now I went back and put in that I was with someone to be honest with everybody. But I wonder why he holds on to that site when he has me?
Has anyone had experience with this?

2007-09-14 18:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by Miz Phoenix 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you deal with someone close to u...really close...who keeps on saying he is unwell everytime u talk to him... I know someone really close, who is highly laid back, lazy at 25... and keeps on cribbing abt eeryone he knows right from teachers,friends, family... he thinks he is always correct and gets irritated with smallest of things.
I have tried doing things for him, like buying gifts once in a while, writing letters, almost everything.
I cant leave him nor stay with this trait of his, which seems to be an inseperable part of him since childhood.
And i m someone who is always smiling and energeti.
how do i deal with the situation, he seems lifeless with no zeal to live, Pls help

2007-09-14 18:33:27 · 4 answers · asked by niks 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate my family....all they do is talk about ppl behind their backs and i just think that they are negative people who are very judgemental! i was wondering when i have children should i let my family be a part of their lives? i have no brothers or sisters so im mainly talking about my mother and father. my mother is EXTREMELY emotionally abusive and my father just goes along with it. i'm concerned. i really want my future babies to have a positive life and i dont want them to be around my family. any advice?

2007-09-14 18:29:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont understand my wife, she wants to have sex on average about 3 times a week. And I only care to have it maybe once or twice a month. I work alot of overtime and I am very tired when I come home. She tells me all the time that she needs to feel loved. but she comes to me so much that this turns me off. She get angry and starts crying, says that I dont love her. I tell her that when I want this we will have sex. I just dont understand her and she is making thing worse with me. I am 45 and she is 40. I dont know what to do.

2007-09-14 18:28:59 · 33 answers · asked by joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sister was murdered and he showed up at the funeral, i was in total shock he had the insensitivity to do that, and he did it again at my brother's funeral. what can i do to make this snake understand , it is totally indecent for him to do this to me, am i wrong to feel this way after so many years. i called the rape crisis center and they told me "im stewing in it, and i need to let it go!" i swear, that was her exact words!

2007-09-14 18:26:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-14 18:25:08 · 18 answers · asked by jillybilly 5 in Singles & Dating

We share custody of our only child & it gets crazy hectic sometimes trying to commute back & forth. We are less than amicable but both of us have moved on with other spouses & now have other children as well. There is a great house right down the road from him that I am considering buying but I wonder if there's anyone who's done that who can give me some input? It's in a subdivision which means we might run into them at the pool or walking sometimes. I'm not a stalker. I don't want to try to befriend them or rekindle anything. I'm just trying to make things easier on all of us.

Your thoughts please....

2007-09-14 18:24:57 · 11 answers · asked by I Give Up 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do and how would you feel if the man you thought you married turned out to be someone totally different?
I just got married 3 months ago to a wonderful, caring, loving, religious, funny........well you get the idea.....man. The problem is that as it turns out he is really not all those things!!
Turns out he has been hiding a drinking problem from me, has run up hundreds of dollars in credit cards, has spent all our money, and has been lying to my face for at least 5 months that I know of! We have always been close I knew him for almost a year before we got engaged and was engaged to him for over a year. I just thought marriage was going to be pretty easy for us, because we had (I thought) always been honest with each other and just had one of those rare relationships you always hear about in fairy tales. I try to live as Christian as possible, so I don't believe in divorce, but I feel so betrayed and hurt. To make matters worse I know have to handle all our.....

2007-09-14 18:21:49 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs. CT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 18:20:49 · 8 answers · asked by stel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this question has been bugging me for some time now...
on two separate occasions when im hanging out with girls they end up saying "you would make a good boyfriend"
what does that mean?!
is that like another way of saying "but dont ask me out"?

im not shy and if i like a girl i ask her out and fail numerous times >.<

2007-09-14 18:19:25 · 13 answers · asked by amigon189 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do women flirt in certain ways, like maybe roll that ahss in front of a guy? My friend said this one girl does this because she wants "to get f***ed." Is that true. Or does she possibly want a boyfriend?

How do I know the difference?

What are the signs of wanting to get f***ed vs wanting a relationship, if any?

2007-09-14 18:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I first met my bf, he told me him & his wife were broken up. I found out 2 months later that wasn't true-still married (found out when she found out about me) but by then we were living together. We've been together a total of 10 months now and I'm pregnant (due December). I have just now found out he's been cheating on me with his wife since month 4 of our relationship. But I'm unemployed, without health insurance, don't have a good family support system to fall back on so I need him-money, apartment, etc. I did manage to get him pissed off at his wife so he hasn't seen her for the last month (or their 3 kids) so I think he's done cheating and picked me over her. But what do you think I should do? Yes-my life is a soap opera.

2007-09-14 18:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 18:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by MBA-MsBadAss 3 in Family

I'm not saying that I'm against kids out of marriage; however, do you think it's crazy that people have 2, 3 or even 4 kids and then decided to get married.

I know lots of young women that get pregnant by mistake. If they love the father of the child, they often end up getting married. But, usually after 1 child out of marriage they get the idea. They start using birth control or condoms. Then they get married before deciding to have more children.

But, I don't understand people who have 3 or 4 kids with someone over a 5-6 time period and then decide to get married.

I know to each is it's own. But, I think it's sort of doing things too backwards.

Like I said, it's understandable if you have one child and then get married b/c you want your boyfriend, you and your child to be an official family.

But, why do so many people pop out all these kids (consciously, the 1st time is a mistake. After that you should wake up and use protection.) and then have the wedding?

2007-09-14 18:14:18 · 10 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going through a really rough time since my husband abandoned me and my three children. I went to counseling and learned about my codependant behaviors and why I am still holding on. Anyone out there have any advice on this topic?

2007-09-14 18:08:31 · 7 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl that I work with. She flirted with me one day. She wears tight pants and I added her as a friend on facebook and she has pictures of her making out with some guy during a vacation. She has pictures of her wearing short skirts and shorts. She obviously went to a tanning booth for some of the clubs she was at.

Does this all add up to her being a s!ut (which was my inital thought when I saw her) or do you think appearences can be deceiving?

2007-09-14 18:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend I gave her a ride to a store. Me and Husband where with her. She starts looking at computer games and I show her a Window Xp Pro Computer Operating System and then she looks at the computer operating systems and opens the box and I just thought she was looking. She takes the Windows Xp Home Edition Operating System. She also took a pair of Haloween socks for her grandaughter. We went another store and she took some more things like makeup, and patterns for cloths. I was shocked about it what should I do. She want to go back get the Windows Xp Pro. Me and my husband said no cause we had a bad feeling about her getting caught. I do not like this at all what she did. I pay for stuff I want. I do not steal it.

2007-09-14 18:08:16 · 5 answers · asked by nikki_lav_2288 3 in Friends

ok so there is this guy i like. WE haven't really talked. I am afriad of talking to him. i don't know what to say, how should i approach him without giving the idea i like him?I also want his instant messager, but should i wait to ask for it, should i wait until i talk to him a littl \e more?

2007-09-14 18:07:54 · 2 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I was doing homework yesterday and watching my baby brother also at the same time. All thru the time were watching him I was constanty asking him to let me know if he has to go potty he said no. Well he had an accident I kind of lost my cool I had my girlfriend put a diaper on him like a punishment it didn't go over to well with my mother when she walked in the door. Do you think I was justified doing that or I overreacted a little bit?
He is 3 and half years old.

2007-09-14 18:05:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a guy really likes you, does he try to get in your pants right away? If you are interested in a girl and in having a relationship with her, does that change if you sleep with her on the first date?
I admit, I have gone too far on a first date, and curious what guys have to say about their feelings for women after having been sexual on the first date. If you're interested in her does that change?

2007-09-14 18:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by Gina D 4 in Singles & Dating

i play viola and i love it. BUt i wanna find a website with free sheet music. Can anyone help?

2007-09-14 18:03:34 · 2 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

i need tips on how to have a great kiss . So how is it really done?

2007-09-14 18:02:13 · 1 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a dream about this guy.
He's this guy that my friend knows, and pretty cute/not bad looking.
To tell you the truth, I've never kissed/made-out before.
And for some reason, I had a dream that we were making out.
And it felt really weird.
But I wouldnt know how it feels.. right? Cause I've never made-out before.
It also happened with this other dream I had recently.
What does that mean?
Just so you know. I'm not desperate or anything, and I don't makeout w/ my pillow... if that what this sounds like.
I'm just really curious. Because I haven't madeout before. And I did in both dreams.

2007-09-14 17:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I JUST MOVED HERE AND IT SEEMS ALL THE GUYS I MEET AND THE ONES ON THE INTERNET ARE ALL SHORTER THAN ME??

2007-09-14 17:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you think if your husband told you he still had naked pics of his ex becuase he was saving them for blackmail. Would you take it as that or would you think there was some other reason for having them? Let me know. thanks!

2007-09-14 17:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by LP's Mommy, RN 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am right now 16 and my boyfriend is 17 almost 18. Since the begining of this relationship, we knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lifes with each other. He has already purposed to me, and i said yes, but we both agreed to wait till i get started in college and am 20. Do you think this is way too young too get married? Does it matter how old you are when you fall in love that determines how long your relationship will last? help me please

2007-09-14 17:54:04 · 42 answers · asked by Ninja Bre 1 in Marriage & Divorce