What is this guy doin? i don't get it, he is my best buds and he does this every weekend?

Question

this guy is like always like not responsible, like i wait for like 4

hours for him and he pisses me off really, he did this last

weekend ,too and we chilled out at like 1:30 because of him

and this week , i started talking to him at 8:00pm and he tells

me that, call me in about halfen hour and i did that like milion

times and by time 10:30, he sais he will pick me up after he

goes to his friend's house, and then he just goes to a party,

and from like 12:00, he is like just being there and follin

around, he doesn’t even tell me the direction which party he

went and his friends is just pickin up the phone, he said he will

pick me up , but he didn’t, and last Friday or something, I

waited for like 4 hours,too

i just met him 2 weeks ago and we

became good friends and every time,

he makes excuses after he made me

wait for like 5 hours, this is so stupid.

And last week , he said that he will go

party with me and to call him at 8:00 and

he made me wait till like 1:30 again,

sayin that he can't get out cause his aunt

is over. and we hung out till like 5:00

am, i am like what is this, and he is doin

this this weekend again, and he said t

this last weekend ,too, that he couldn't

come outside after supper cause his

causin had the phone and he left to

hisfriends' s house,

and i am gonna make a alternate plan

Answer 1

He's a guy... and a stubborn one at that.

Move on to a guy that will make more time for you.

Answer 2

He's either a complete flake or isn't really interested in your friendship. Either way he's not being respectful.

Never wait 4 or 5 hours for him! If he's an hour late then go off and do something yourself. If he rings you on your cell tell him you're not going to sit around waiting until it's convenient for him. You've got a life. I think you put up with too much sh!t from him and he knows you'll take his poor treatment of you.

Answer 3

I really don't think that you can call someone a "best bud" after only knowing them for 2 weeks. If I were you I would make other plans and when he calls you have a choice of staying were you are or hanging out with him. Plus he wont see you ask being needy or clingy or dependent on him. Yeah, I know his is your friend but people do that to friends too and that kind of pushes them away. Think about it.

Answer 4

Are you sure that he is not married or involved with someone. That is wha it sounds like to me. He has to wait until he gets the opportunity to leave.

Don't sit around an wait. Make plans and go out. It is not necessary to have him with you to have a good time.

How can he be your best bud after only knowing him for 2 weeks?

Answer 5

Hate to hurt your feelings. But he does not want you for a friend. When I was in higschool. I went throug the same thing with someone I thought was my friend. Best friend.
I would wait and wait for her to pick me up, I would call her house and her brother would say oh she already left with some other people.

Answer 6

If you sit around and wait then he'll keep doing it. Just tell him that if he's not there to pick you up by the time he says, you're gonna go hang with someone else. then do it.

You can only be treated like a doormat if you let yourself be treated like one.

Answer 7

Yeah you do that make alternate plans. You actually waited for five hours then still hung out with him? Wow I couldn't do it

Answer 8

Sounds like a loser. Give him a miss and look for someone more along your interests.

Answer 9

hes not your friend...

Answer 10

HE IS NOT BEING HONEST!