What would you think if your husband told you he still had naked pics of his ex becuase he was saving them for blackmail. Would you take it as that or would you think there was some other reason for having them? Let me know. thanks!
2007-09-14 17:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by LP's Mommy, RN 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are married to a man that would stoop that low as to use naked pictures for blackmail? I wouldn't care why he had them...I would insist that they be destroyed.
2007-09-14 18:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
For my husband to have naked pictures of his ex FOR ANY REASON would not be acceptable. And if he was the kind of low life that would stoop to blackmail, I probably wouldn't be with him anyway.
And no I don't think your husband would be keeping them for "blackmail" purposes. I think he gets off by looking at them. Give him an ultimatum - get rid of the pics.
2007-09-15 01:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends.. , 1. does he have children with her? (if not then theres nothing he should have to black mail her about ) 2. Are they actually black mail worthy.. i mean so what if he shows a judge a naked picture that he took of her.. doesnt make her a bad mom, so who would he show to black mail her????? and for what reason?????? 3. Does he keep these pictures hidden away out of even his own sight or are they something that he has easy access to in the house at any time, meaning are they in the night stand drawer or are they in a sealed envelope in a lock box??????
i cant think of any "real" reason he'd need the pictures.. maybe if she was married to a politician lol.. but thats highly unlikely..
When he says black mail , ask him on what grounds? who would he show to black mail her , her parents? so what he'd look like an absolute idiot... , the judge???? not going to care as long as the picture didnt affect the children.. her bf or husband.. would either not care or possibly get his own butt kicked... her friends.. so what he'd end up embarassing her and coming off looking like the biggest ****** that ever lived but still no real damage done.. so how would these be used as black mail???????
Maybe in his own mind these are "taboo" and he can use them as a bargaining chip but if she's smart she wont let it get to her in the least.. but i just cant think of any real way he could use these pictures to his advantage as far as black mail, my suggestion to u, is dont talk about the pics, and after awhile, make them disappear urself and act as if ur clueless on what happened to them..
2007-09-15 01:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HA! What a lame excuse, saving it for "blackmail" lol. Women are smarter than what men think. If you find those pictures, burn them and don't tell him what you did to them, act like you don't know where they are. Watch him search for it until it drives him mad. Burning them is very therapeutic. If he has a cow about them dang old pics, leave the room until he cools off.
2007-09-15 01:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is wrong and is using it as an excuse to keep them. It is your right to ask him to trash them. If he does not then you have every right to be angry with him and not trust him. First of all it is a lie that he wants them for blackmail and second he has disrespect you by bringing them into your home. Blackmail... how can you trust him with that statement even coming out of his mouth?
2007-09-15 01:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the reason he has them is really not relavent
they need to go
period
a) he should not be seeing pics of his ex naked
b) what kind of good man would try to blackmail an ex
they have to go
id tell him to burn them
and if he didnt
i would
2007-09-15 01:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by jes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd worry that he was so petty and childish that he would consider blackmail in the first place.
2007-09-15 01:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think he is kind of sick to use something like that for blackmail. that reason a lone would have lot of folks packing.
2007-09-15 01:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some other reason for having them.
2007-09-15 01:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Momof1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if I believed that answer (which I don't) I would think it's PSYCHO. Who does that?!?! INSANE people
2007-09-15 01:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by acatisacomintogetcha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋