she hasnt climax for 3 years ive tried everything what to do?

Answer 1

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I agree with Colleen O. Her orgasm is her responsibility.

However,it never hurts if your partner knows what he's doing either....

Answer 2

Buy some "naughty" books and have her read them and underline the parts she finds interesting- then try them!

Call her on the phone one night on your way home, and talk sexy to her. As you get her into the mood of the conversation, tell her specifically where you want her to be when you come home, what you would like her to wear, and a few things you plan on doing when you get there. See if she gets into the conversation! Ask her what she will do to you when it is her turn..... and try to keep your control- the point will be to get her to lose hers.

Watch some xrated movies together. Get several kinds- straight sex, light bondage, girl on girl and pay attention to her reaction.

When all else fails, try the doctor. There could be hormone problems, physical issues, or emotional restraints that you are not picking up on . If there are stresses in your relationship they can easily prevent her from being able to lose her control and enjoy sex. Or even want to try.

Answer 3

Statistically..........that's o.k. 30% of women can't climax during sex, they have to have clitoral stimulaiton to climax.

But if she regularly climaxed before the 3 years either it's her problem or she was faking all the times before. You need to talk to her. Tell her to be honest with you and make sure you let her know how this is making you feel......it could be something you were doing that you are not doing now, but I seriously doubt it.

Answer 4

You are not rubbing her pearl.Women need to have this done for a great loving sex life.Or else the sex is dull and a waste of time with out that pleasure to be rubbed there while penetrating her at the same time.I find sex to be dull with out that pleasure .I found out that was the only way I could have an orgasm at age 25.You need to tell her relax while your doing this as much as possiable.When the pearl don,t get rubbed while in the process of being penetrated women will not have an orgasm.Good luck.

Answer 5

icecold if you'd done everything she would have by now hey?.

Ok you've done everything ? explored different positions , different style's , used dvd's , used sex toys , tried talking to her differently , gotten her very hot and bothered with forplay before intercourse? and still nothing?

Does she even get wet for you ? or are you using gel's and lube ? , you are aware that there is 4 different style's of women having orgasms' I would pressume? , and that every woman is different and that her variations of being able to orgasm change as her body ages?.

Start googling site's and looking for self help dvd's go and speak to your local doctor or sex therapist , theres a reason she isnt having orgasms you just have to find what is blocking it if your willing to help her then be willing to go the long road and get her as much help as you can.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Here's a hint; contrary to what the male ego believes it is not the man who gives the woman an orgasm. The woman is in total control of her orgasms herself, some women don't realize this and American women tend to be a bit more prudish when it comes to their bodies and as you've seen here regarding masturbation, they don't know HOW to give themselves one. For one thing they don't relax enough, they are so focused on getting an orgasm that they deny themselves the actual pleasure of getting to it. And if you think you gave her the orgasms three years ago...rent the movie "When Harry Met Sally".

Answer 7

Quit trying so hard and let it happen. She may be trying so hard and worrying about it so much that she can't "perform."
Also, what kind of medication is she on? Meds can alter sexual performance. Just take your time, go slow, and quit trying to perform. Don't tell her something is wrong with her. Make sure intercourse is comfortable for her.

Answer 8

Maybe your not attractive? get a pillow and make your self comfortable between her legs and dont be a sour puss about it! Do the damn thing.

She may also be attracted to women. Get a porn with Two women and then go down on her. If she doesnt climax.. .then you need to lose some weight.

Answer 9

She needs to go to a doctor. There can actually be medical reasons keeping her from doing this...

Answer 10

Well, perhaps she should seek medical attention, and advice. I don't know what "everything" entails, but why not just ask her what turns her on?? I am sure she knows, or perhaps she just doesn't "have it " for you, sadly, but possible??