2007-09-14 15:03:52 · 20 answers · asked by Lazarus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why then are you only interested in beautiful girls?
loL pufferoo: im more aggressive and you seem to be much nicer in your tone.
2007-09-14 15:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Shallow girls are only interested in a guy's physical appearance. Beautiful girls -- truly beautiful ones -- are interested in the heart.
Remember that.
2007-09-14 22:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're not ONLY interested in his appearance - but that's the first thing that they're going to see, so you have to accept that girls (like guys) are going to be drawn to attractive people.
That being said (given that the girl isn't absolutely as shallow as a single scoop out of a carton of ice cream), being attractive isn't going to keep the girl there for very long. Accept that she's going to look at the handsome guy, but unless he's got something going for him on the inside that makes him worthwhile, someone that she can become comfortable with and happy just being around him, then she won't be with him for long.
Another thing - like connects to like. If you have an attractive person, you'll want someone that's somewhere in the same range as attractive as you... again, until you get to know them, or until you reach a point where you've made the personal decision that the physical features aren't the first and most important thing in someone you want to be with. Here's where you need to be careful, because this is where peer pressure REALLY rears its ugly head. Lots and lots of people will try to push people together 'because they make a cute couple', or they'll try to break up a couple 'because she's too good for him' or 'he's out of her league...' Again, if they've actually gotten to know one another, that probably won't work - but we've seen enough teen movies to know that the geek doesn't get the girl at the end, because that isn't real life, and when he does, it's the exception that proves the rule.
Finally - why is they interested in the physical appearance? Because, in our society, a great physical appearance equates to success. A strong, fit, well-dressed and attractive man is the picture of success in our society, and people gravitate towards that. Not saying that it's right or even an accurate assement - but all other things considered equal, that's what people will think. Women will see that guy and think 'this is someone who I can be seen with in public. This is someone I can take home to meet my family and my friends. This is someone I can see standing with at an altar, and fixing lunches for his kids... This one I can see making a life with.'
Right or wrong - beautiful girls look at the handsome guys and see someone who can take them further in life - and they respond to that. It sucks... but that's life.
2007-09-14 22:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brother Grimace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Due To the reason beautiful girls like guys who take care of themselves and show pride about themselves. Good example : ever seen a man mowing a yard with a cut off shirt with a big beer belly and has shorts that goes to his behind and the sad thing is he thinks he looks good. Its boils down how you view yourself as the whole it's really a mans personality thats the true turn on.
2007-09-14 22:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by indigodreams41 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frist off, not all girls are like that. You've probably just liked the pretty girls with the crappy personalities.
Anyways, they want someone goodlooking because they are too. If Tommy is hot and Sally is hot, Tommy will make Sally look better. Vice versa.
And looks help you attract the opposite sex too. If you saw a pretty girl, wouldn't you want to talk to her immediately? It's the same for girls.
2007-09-14 22:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Meh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b/c generally those "beautiful" girls are only beautiful on the outside. they're usually very shallow and just awful people. a truly beautiful girl is one that cares about you for you and thinks you're the most handsome guy in the world b/c of who you are.
2007-09-14 22:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would guess it's for the same reason you seem to be interested only in beautiful girls!
Dammit! Hushpuppy beat me to the punch!
2007-09-14 22:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you only interested in beautiful girls? try dating an average or ugly girl and then you wouldn't even have to worry about it.
2007-09-15 00:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually, most of them are interested in much more ,but have been taught by a lot of us that their looks aretheir most prominent and most important quality. Hence, they're too insecure to discuss anything beyond appearance--for fear of ruiningtheirs. Make sense?
2007-09-14 22:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by rickmcconaghy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because beautiful girls know they can pretty much have anybody they want. So they can afford to be shallow.
2007-09-14 22:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Brian V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As oppose to guys, whom are only interested in a girl's mind?
2007-09-14 22:14:00 · answer #11 · answered by Faerie_Queene3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋