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She's not a best friend, but we see each other often and I've been invited to hang out with her a couple times. I've had a crush on this guy for a while, but for various reasons, I haven't totally acted on it besides talking to him when I see him. A few weeks ago, I got a hunch they like each other, but a few days ago, it was pretty clear to me that she likes him. I was told that they had been out two times. At parties and activities that we as a group of friends do, I noticed that the sit by each other and talk to each other a lot. I don't know the extent of the relationship, cause I didn't want to ask yet. I thought it would be a little weird to go straight to one of them and ask just in case one of them kinda has figured out that I like him. Is it all right to straight up and ask one of t
2007-09-14 14:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by gem2477 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From every thing you have written, it would appear that they are a couple except for one minor issue.You do not know for a fact. While I am not trying to knock your intuition or instinct, all you have right now is a hunch and also they sit together.Although that may be indicative of of a relationship and/or interest , it is not enough for you to walk away.The next time you can talk to either one of them alone, casually ask if he or she is in a relationship with the other one.If you can do this without betraying your interest in the guy, then you will have your answer and be in a better position to decide on your next course of action. I hope it works out right for you.
2007-09-14 15:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ive seen this one before like a lot of people have, friends come and go the same as boys do , so what you have to do is make your mind up weather to listen to your head or you heart but remember you could lose your friend for ever is it worth it.
2007-09-14 15:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while
and see how
things go with them,
since nothing really
started with the two of
you, give their relationship
a chance, you do not want to
come between 2 friends.
Who knows it might not
work out, and then you will
have your chance.
2007-09-14 14:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is okay ask i say ask her just say hey what ever her name is are you and what ever his name is are you guys seeing each other or talk-en to each and if she says yes then back off and if she says no and why then tell her that was kinda check-en him out but if there together or talk-en then you'll back of ff and if shes a good friend she'll understand feel me.
2007-09-14 15:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger person and let them be happy. There are many fish in the sea, don't cause drama.
2007-09-14 14:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes someone else--leave it alone and move on. if things change later, well then thats different..
2007-09-14 14:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by buckycarlo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋