After my ex and I had our son a year ago, then we split. It was a nasty breakup for us both. my question is understanding were my ex is coming from. we both happily and willingly agreed to have our son (in fact he insisted that we go thru with it) and now that we slipt my ex doesn' t want to have much to do with our baby. He says it he loves us both and claims he cares for our kid but I don't see it much. could he really be that bitter? we were together for 6 yrs before the baby, I just can't see my self that angry about the situation. I've had a lot of emotions but is that normal please give advice on how to deal with him and his anger.
2007-09-14 14:08:12 · 8 answers · asked by ginarose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My advice is to let him back off. If he decides to be a part of your son's life and is a positive influence, then let it happen. And be civil with the father especially in front of your son. Kids can pick up on bad vibes between people at any age.
As far as you are concerned, sometimes men are as hard to figure out as they think women are hard to figure out. Don't let his issues become yours. Take care of you and your son and let the rest of the world work itself out.
2007-09-14 15:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by sbp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-19 22:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people have different ways of showing things so if you dont see hem doing somthing that doesnt mean he isnt doin nothin. but anways i jus think u need 2 talk 2 hem and tell hem how u feel not up here on yahoo answers. this is something that u nd hem and jus u and hem need 2 work out . It is better to let hem kno who u feel because if u hold it in side then all its going to do is eat u up all the time while he is goin on with his life without a care in the world so jus talk 2 hem and get things all out and then i think you will feel better about the situation
2007-09-14 14:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man would step up and be a father to your child. I'd talk to him and consider giving him one more chance to make things right. If hes still making up excuses, don't bother with him. I know it will be hard because you have a past and of course hes the father of your child but your baby deserves a lot better than what he can provide.
2007-09-14 14:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your assuming he's bitter because he doesn't give you and your son any time or attention. Maybe he does have love for you, but he just doesn't want to be involved. It sounds like he's definitely moved on and you two just aren't in the picture.
2007-09-14 14:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger may not be what he is really feeling, although it can show up as anger, he could be very hurt emotionally and even depressed. You know, when you don't tell people how you really feel they read you wrong. It doesn't sound like he is telling you how he really feels and that may be because he doesn't feel safe and comfortable telling you.
2007-09-14 14:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by April First 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your attention probably changed from him to the baby so he's throwing a tanty. Tell him to get over himself.
2007-09-14 14:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please give the child up for adoption. You are in no way capable of raising a child. We will not need anymore strippers, prostitutes, criminals, or perverts in 18 years.
2007-09-14 14:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋