we dont talk to much no sex life and he is very smart talking to me and he is so much older we have been married for 10 yrs. and we have businesses together and I want out with out loseing nothing . we dont do any thing together I mean nothing you name it Imean nothing no touch no talk nothing what do i do.
2007-09-14 14:07:55 · 10 answers · asked by sexxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you really need our permission to divorce him? Ok, you have it. Divorce him.
Now seek professional counseling and ALWAYS use birth control.
2007-09-14 14:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a lawyer and do as he says.take money out of your joint account ( ALL OF IT) and pay your lawyer.make sure when you move out you take all that you own and deem nessary.make a list of things that you hafto leave behind.
I cain't advise you on the businesses.and it would be nice if youcould get all of them.but you cain't.pick the one that makes you the most money. ask for the house if it.s paid for,and your
car,and the car used in the businesse.
More than likely your husband will want to buy
you out cheap.
I could give a better answere if i knew what
state you was in.
I do wish you well and lots luck.no one win's in
divorce,just one better than the other.
2007-09-14 22:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if we look to the Bible for insight into this question IMHO it says to to avoid divorce at all cost. It was considered in ancient Israel a serious sin to seperate form someone who you have been married to. Unless the person has commited fornication you have no grounds for divorcing them, assuming you believe in Jesus Christ and you think there is a God. Who's to say God didn't put you to together for a reason.
You need to help your husband get away from his desire to sin that keeps landing him in jail. You can't scream at him and expect him to learn, all you can do is lead him by example (by you doing whats right) and not contribute to his sinning by supporting him in it.
Joh 4:10 Jesus replied to her, "If you only knew what God's gift is and who is asking you for a drink, you would have asked him for a drink. He would have given you living water."
Joh 4:11 The woman said to him, "Sir, you don't have anything to use to get water, and the well is deep. So where are you going to get this living water?
Joh 4:12 You're not more important than our ancestor Jacob, are you? He gave us this well. He and his sons and his animals drank water from it."
Joh 4:13 Jesus answered her, "Everyone who drinks this water will become thirsty again.
Joh 4:14 But those who drink the water that I will give them will never become thirsty again. In fact, the water I will give them will become in them a spring that gushes up to eternal life."
Joh 4:15 The woman told Jesus, "Sir, give me this water! Then I won't get thirsty or have to come here to get water."
Joh 4:16 Jesus told her, "Go to your husband, and bring him here."
Joh 4:17 The woman replied, "I don't have a husband." Jesus told her, "You're right when you say that you don't have a husband.
Joh 4:18 You've had five husbands, and the man you have now isn't your husband. You've told the truth."
Joh 4:19 The woman said to Jesus, "I see that you're a prophet!
Mal 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel. "I hate the person who covers himself with violence," says the LORD of Armies. "Be careful not to be unfaithful."
Mat 19:3 Some Pharisees came to test him. They asked, "Can a man divorce his wife for any reason?"
Mat 19:4 Jesus answered, "Haven't you read that the Creator made them male and female in the beginning
Mat 19:5 and that he said, 'That's why a man will leave his father and mother and will remain united with his wife, and the two will be one'?
Mat 19:6 So they are no longer two but one. Therefore, don't let anyone separate what God has joined together."
Mat 19:7 The Pharisees asked him, "Why, then, did Moses order a man to give his wife a written notice to divorce her?"
Mat 19:8 Jesus answered them, "Moses allowed you to divorce your wives because you're heartless. It was never this way in the beginning.
Mat 19:9 I can guarantee that whoever divorces his wife for any reason other than her unfaithfulness is committing adultery if he marries another woman."
Mat 19:10 The disciples said to him, "If that is the only reason a man can use to divorce his wife, it's better not to get married."
Mat 19:11 He answered them, "Not everyone can do what you suggest. Only those who have that gift can.
1Co 7:9 However, if you cannot control your desires, you should get married. It is better for you to marry than to burn with sexual desire.
1Co 7:10 I pass this command along (not really I, but the Lord): A wife shouldn't leave her husband.
1Co 7:11 If she does, she should stay single or make up with her husband. Likewise, a husband should not divorce his wife.
1Co 7:12 I (not the Lord) say to the rest of you: If any Christian man is married to a woman who is an unbeliever, and she is willing to live with him, he should not divorce her.
1Co 7:13 If any Christian woman is married to a man who is an unbeliever, and he is willing to live with her, she should not divorce her husband.
2007-09-15 13:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of marriage is this loveless marriage and you want out did you and your husband ever love one another,
you have a business together and you want your share is that what this is all about. do what ever that will make you happy.
why did you marry in the first place.
best of luck
2007-09-14 21:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you taken your marriage to GOD in prayer.Have you sat down with your husband to talk to him about how you feel.The grass isn't always greener on the other side. You go and try and put some spice in your life,have you bought any of those sexy clothing to wear to bed.
2007-09-14 21:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want out of the marriage...that should be your main focus...and not focusing on what you get or don't get. You will more than likely end up with half.
2007-09-14 21:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him and let the lawyers divide everything 50/50.
2007-09-14 21:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut your losses and get out. material possessions can be aquired again, your short time on earth, cannot.
2007-09-14 21:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by notmygame 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think before you act, life alone is not all that special either
2007-09-14 21:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Stymie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you are thinking, if things are as you say, he may expect it anyway. if you stay nice with him, he may decide to let you keep what you want.
2007-09-14 21:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋