My confidence back? I have my days where i think i look good, but most the time i feel ugly. How do i not think like that anymore? Pllllleeeaaassssse help.
Thanx!
2007-09-14 14:22:09 · 11 answers · asked by Notiq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Spend a little extra money to buy yourself a killer outfit, something you look great in. When ever you feel bad about yourself, put it on, or remember the reaction you get from others when you where it. Also, hang a post it note on all the mirrors- I am only as sexy as I am confident.
2007-09-14 14:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you lost confidence in your self one thing about woman when ever we get dressed look in the mirror and put on a new out fit we feel great. I don't think that i have ever thought my self as being ugly even when i have been going though difficult time in my life i always fix my self up and that's what you need to do fix yourself up and go out and have fun.
best of luck
2007-09-14 21:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry what others think. In this society we live in they make us believe to be sexy you have to have a six pack for men and muscular, and for women we have to be thin with big boobs, but honestly it shouldn't be that way. Everyone has their unique beauty. But if you notice we our self are the biggest and meaniest critics upon our self. You have to love yourself. Instead of looking in the mirror everyday picking at the things you have in your mind society thinks as bad, you look in the mirror and pick the good qualities of yourself. Don't be negative of yourself, ALWAYS BE POSITIVE! You do that and your confidence will start to change.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Never forget that.
Good luck.
2007-09-14 21:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to try to figure out what is making you feel ugly those days. try to always have the confident that you have on the day you feel that you look good. Don't put your self down you should always feel that you look good.
2007-09-14 21:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Deana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start working out, go to a salon and get a new style, color, etc.. go get your nails done (or do them yourself), go on a mini-shopping spree - buy a couple new outfits that you really love.. perhaps go to a makeup party and update your makeup.... then, get all dressed up and go out to have some fun!
2007-09-14 21:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a gym and work out until you feel good about yourself and maybe seek counseling.
2007-09-14 22:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it a step at a time. pick something small you want to change (hair, nails, shoes, whatever) and change it. then add something else, a little at a time. have something that makes you feel good every day, and have something positive to look forward to.
2007-09-14 21:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by The Beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel beautiful on the inside...you will see yourself as beautiful on the outside....you need to heal whatever it is that is causing you emotional pain.....Have you consider seeing a therapist?
2007-09-14 21:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sobriety, combined with professional counseling, a religious faith, and perhaps some anti depressants.
2007-09-14 21:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take any crap from ONE BODY!!! That's how, stand in the mirror every morning and say I'M GREAT, I DESERVE TO BE HERE, I'M BEAUTIFUL.
2007-09-14 21:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋