Am I weird because, Im 19 and I have friends but most of the time I just want to stay home,I go out every once and a while ..but all my friends love to go out every night and party..Im just not into that scene...I dream of meeting a mature guy and getting married and having a home life...you know doing the laundry ,cooking,cleaning,grocery shopping going out to eat with my husband etc...just having a quiet married life and all my friends and family think im weird because of this...Do You..????
2007-09-14 17:03:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to have kids at 25-27 years old....
2007-09-14 17:23:25 · update #1
Seriousy my ideal day would be making diner for my husband and watching football with him.......I just cant find a guy who is mature!!
2007-09-14 17:24:47 · update #2
man you are not weird you are my dream woman and there are not too many of you so remember one thing those things you have described here are sign of a good girl and eventually a good wife and a good mother so you are not wierd but normal and my ideal woman
2007-09-14 17:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have different goals and aspirations than your friends do...
be careful tho...talk to and surround yourself with women who have the life you're aspiring for, really dig into what their day is like...you may be thinking of a "fantasy" home life that, in reality, may not work out the way you expected; and sadly, once you have children, your devotion will be to them, whether you like it or not!
no you are not weird...but as a mid-20's woman, i encourage you to focus on dreams and aspirations that you can achieve independently (not depending on a husband for happiness)...in the end, yourself is the only person you can count on.
when i was 16 i wanted the same thing as you--to be a mother. now @ 25, i like my independence, and not even my man (who is the responsible husband-type) can dictate what i do. i still want to be a mom (and fear this may not be possible when i am finally ready), but if things dont work out that way, i still feel like i have accomplished so much and helped so many people, influenced so many lives, that my motherly insticts have been fulfilled one way or another.
2007-09-14 17:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by jacqueline r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think you are just setting yourself up for a successful future and family life,I used to go out every weekend but i stopped after a while it just got old and now i just had a little girl and spending time with her is so much more satisfying some people just mature faster therefore the party scene does get old to them you are perfectly fine.god bless.
2007-09-14 17:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by MO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not weird, you are just an old-fashioned girl. That is okay, some guys like that. You are gonna have a happy life. So far I see you have a good heart. Keep on being like that. One day you are going to have a close friend, and he understands you. Then he'll like you, you'll like him, he might be the one.
2007-09-14 17:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by BlueGuy134 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not weird at all... that just means your much more mature than the average 19 year old. Your still very young... things may change as you grow older.
2007-09-14 17:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by *~Gonzalez~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not weird. You are different for your age.
Nothing wrong with that... you are perhaps little more mature than rest of the crowd. Just don't forget to have fun every now and then. Nothing wrong with that either.
2007-09-14 17:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, everyone's different! I feel the same way sometimes. :)
If that's what you want, then go for it! People are always saying to "never give up on your dreams," but if your dreams aren't becoming an astronaut or finding a cure for cancer, who cares? Who are we to say that what you want isn't worthy of wanting? Lots of people our age go out and party and do things they regret for their whole lives. If you want to be practical, more power to ya!
2007-09-14 17:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by avacado pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hun, you're not weird. It just means you've matured past the point of partying before ya even got to it.
2007-09-14 17:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, life is so short. Enjoy being single and spending time on yourself. You will meet someone. Going out is drama drama drama anyways. 19 is young, and you have plenty of time to meet your man.
2007-09-14 17:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by dietcokes4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope thats not considered weird, cuz thats how i am!!
we're just mature ppl wo arent into the party scene. not everyone likes that kind of stuff.
2007-09-14 17:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by heather c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋