theres this guy i like and he said he liked no one.
so what do i do to get him to go out with me!!
HHHHeellppp!!
2007-09-14 16:14:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry my friend asked him who he liked!
2007-09-14 16:21:16 · update #1
he just hinted tht he s open just tell em i mean who could resist you ;)
2007-09-14 16:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I have been in your positions many a times, and I'm sure everyone at one point has been. The thing your probably feeling, deep down in all of this, even if you don't know it, is confused. Your emotions all of confused about what to do and running wild right now. And it's perfectly normal to feel that way. Anyways, guys are mysterious creatures. One day the flirt it up then the next they act like the never saw you before. It's just the way they are. Confusing, weird, non understandable, and crazy. And that is one thing that will never change about them. But there is something that you have got to remember, no matter how hard you try, you might not get the person to like you back. They WILL like however they want to like and if you try to get in the way of it and try to prevent it they will dislike you even more. I know, I know, when you really like someone that is defiantly not the first thing you want to hear but hey, it's gotta be known because even though most of us don't like to admit it, even through our most persuading fantasies, reality is always in control. No matter what. And the harder we try to push ourselves at crushes the more impossible it becomes for them to like us. iT's the way of life sweetness. Just try being friends. If he likes you he isn't gonna come out and say it right to your face. Get to know each other. That is what anyone relationship should be built off of. Good luck and hope thigns go your way with this boy.
Hope it helped!
~Debby
2007-09-14 16:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~<3~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The direct approach seems called for in this particular situation.Since we now live in the 21st century, when it is okay for a woman to ask a guy out, you should do just that.Ask him to go to a movie or for a soda.This way you can talk and find out things about each other which will help in making decisions.A lot of guys really like a woman who makes the first moveand are drawn to her.So don't hesitate in asking him out.You just might be very happy you did.
2007-09-14 16:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to loose in asking him just a few questions to see if he's interested. Find out if he likes movies, what kind, music, what kind, sports, what kind. See if you can get a little spark of interest going. If he acts like he's interested at all, ask him if he'd like to go out sometime & try to set a specific daydate...good luck...
2007-09-14 16:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do different and crazy things that will catch his eye. Ask around to find out what he likes in a girl. It helps to flirt with the guy to show that you are into him.
2007-09-14 16:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Shannonnnn! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...here's the first thing, honey. guys never don't like anybody. either he doesn't trust you enough to tell you, or he likes multiple people. maybe, and this might just be possible, he actually likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. just go up and tell him that you dont have a date for the upcoming__________. and you're looking for someone to go with. don't ask him directly, but hint that you want him to go with you. if he's smart or he likes you, he'll go with you.
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2007-09-14 16:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a informal date and just talk see what you have in common Get to know this guy first and enjoy your self
2007-09-14 16:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, he was trying to be nice and let you know that he likes you, but he doesn't LIKE you like you. Go out with someone else. If it was meant to be, he'll get jealous and maybe you can go out with him next. Also, wear trampy clothes. Just kidding.
2007-09-14 16:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Farty McFly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't. Im a guy, and i usually say that to every girl which i know likes me, and asks me if i like them. I say it because i find them very unnatractive, either overweight/extremely ugly. NO OFFENSE, im just being 100% HONEST. I KNOW high school boys, i am one. And he DOES like somebody, it's just not you. I GUARANTEE YOU THAT! I would put so much on the line for it.
2007-09-14 16:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Basically he just told you he doesn't like you. You can move on or keep pestering him so he can go out with you and use you. Desperation is oh so attractive.
2007-09-14 16:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him, ask to hang out, be friends and then see what happens eventually.
2007-09-14 16:19:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋