Cuz damn I'm allways thinking about it (horny 14 year old), but I'm worried that I'm gonna be spending all my time looking forward to it but then when it actually happens I'll be dissapointed.. Is it better than masterbation or what? I know it's a bad question but who else am I gonna ask.
2007-09-14 15:07:27 · 28 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but it's better than whatever's in second place!
Many guys would say, sadly, "Even bad sex is better than NO sex!"
Most women wouldn't say that, they might say, "Eewww!"
Why did God give women pubic hair?
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2007-09-14 15:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sex is great when you understand what you're doing and understand the needs of a girl. Try not and rush into it because it won't be worth it. I started having sex around your age and thought it was good, but when I look back I knew NOTHING! I didn't understand my own body let alone someone elses. It's perfectly normal for your hormones to be going crazy, but I think what you're doing is great. And sometimes, masterbation is better because when you have sex before you're ready, sometimes it's not even as good because you know what feels good to you and if you start too young, the girl won't know how to make you feel that way, ya know? Do lots of reading and really understand sex and what it's about the anatomy of a female and male. I promise, the more educated you are, the more it'll blow your mind and the first girls your with! Wouldn't you want that experience opposed to just fumbling around?
Glad you asked!
2007-09-14 15:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best when done only in marriage. If you're just a slave to "Alex Jr." and stick yourself into anything, it cheapens the act that was designed to be incredible, and makes it dirty at the same time. You'll mess it up for yourself if you do it before you get married.
Plus, sex takes a long time to get good at. When you are with the same person your whole life, over time, it gets REALLY good, and sex is more a by-product of very intimate companionship.
At your age, you should know that companionship is the best part of a relationship at any stage in life. Prior to marriage, sex will just muck that up.
2007-09-14 15:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by ready4sea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and hell yeah sex is totally awesome! There should be love in it as well. Masturbation is alright but sex is so much better! The feelings are unbelievable and intense!
2007-09-14 15:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your only 14 than stick with what your doing. Your too young to have sex and you don't want to risk getting someone pregnant. It is only awesome when your in love anyway and your too young for that. It's just my opinion though.
2007-09-14 15:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by woodbutcher21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its some fantastic but you cant just go right to the hole and start pumping.... fore play,, Kissing and touching thats what will get you ready.... And make the sex act awesume.... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-09-14 15:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea...the only thing that sucks is sometimes its like a performance, u cant have sex with a fine girl and last 1 min, where as in masterbating who cares... i prefer getting sum head cause i dont have to work.
2007-09-14 15:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is o.k. only if your doing it with someone you really love and he really, i mean really loves you back. Don't ever do it with just anyone. Besides your too young to be thinking about this. Pull some school work out.
2007-09-14 15:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex rules! With the right girl it's awesome!
2007-09-14 15:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Brian V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i have to totally agree with u! i am fourteen too, and i know girls are supposed to be all special moments with it, but damn i am so horny!i just want to bang and enjoy it!
i also want to know what its like and its even worth it.......
2007-09-14 15:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by gymnastbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋