My ex who i havent seen in 4 yrs has literally asked me to have sex with him. He's married and ive been with someone for more than 7 yrs. Need less to say my man hates him. My ex is married and i feel bad for his wife, who just had his first baby by the way. I dont know if i should tell his wife somehow but i dont want to lose his friendship. what should i do.
2007-09-14 13:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by mariah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait wait wait.....
You don't want to lose his friendship????!! What kind of "friendship" do you think you have with him? Well no kidding your current man hates him! You use to have sex with him! Gee let me think.....
You need to snap out of drama-land and just go tell his wife. Your ex should be nothing to you except that he was a bad mistake that you thankfully avoided. Just think....that could be you about to hear that he asked someone for sex soon after you gave birth to your child. Awe, what a sweet man.......NOT!
2007-09-14 13:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if this man is married and wants to have affair with you there is no friendship he wants sex thats all and he has a wife and baby give me a break it is not your place to tell his wife about this just end the friendship.
2007-09-14 13:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl,
Please do not have sex with this man. He maybe looking to ruin your relationship with your new man. Was he a cheater the reason he is your ex? You have a GOOD man now, keep him. There is no way to have a friendship with the ex. Feel bad for yourself and stay out of his life. Besides, his wife will not believe you. She will think you are jealous of the two of them.
2007-09-14 13:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by JEWELRY DIVA 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Um, all I can say is that you divorced this man and moved on.
Do you remember the reason/s that you left him?
Was he abusive? Or, let me guess...did he cheat?
Well, if I were you...and I am not...but if I were...
I would call his wife, who just had a special little bundle of joy...
And tell her, "Excuse me, but your hubby..my ex...asked me if I would have sex with him."
Then I would tell your current BF, and let him and the wife handle the whole thing!
As far as the "FRIENDSHIP" with the ex....exs are exs for a reason!
They F****ed up...and that is why they are exs!
Also, he is being selfish...thinking only of his needs and not that of his wife and new baby!
Blessings
2007-09-14 13:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose his friendship, or lose your relationship with your man. You can not expect your man to put up with your being friends with your ex. Especially an ex who wants to have sex with you. Be a good person and tell this jerk that you love your bf and would never do anything to hurt him (even though you are) then tell him you can no longer be friends.
2007-09-14 13:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by escher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him, he isn't your friend, he's an ex who wants to use u for what he can get, if your smart u will keep away from him and out of harms way. don't jeopardize your present relationship just to satisfy your ex's needs. think back when u divorced him and why, your divorced for some reason. just be glad your not still his wife. stand up for yourself and have a little self respect, he's a cheater and deceiving his wife.
2007-09-14 13:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell his wife anything. That is none of your business. Then cut off all communications with him.
Next admit to yourself that you still have feelings for him, and let those feelings go. Unless you want another ex husband that is....
Then, for the sake of us all, get yourself sterilized. We will not need anymore strippers or criminals in 18 years.
2007-09-14 13:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell his wife and forget having a friendship with him. If you no longer love him, it's not fair to him or to his current wife to have any relationship with him at all, especially since it's obvious that he wants much more than friendship.
2007-09-14 13:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by mab5096 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with evilangel ...except....I don't think you should tell his wife. She just had a baby, she doesn't need that kind of news on top of what she just went through. You don't need the additional drama and neither does she. It'll come back to bite him in the butt soon enough.
2007-09-14 13:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think friendship is what he after? Not likely. Just imagine how you would feel if you were his wife and I think your answer should come easily. Would you wanna know?
2007-09-14 17:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋