2007-09-14 09:25:50 · 35 answers · asked by anywho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not cheating, but if your wife doesn't want you to go, it's a really, really, really bad idea. You're violating her trust AND spending her money, which is like a fastpass to serious marital problems when -- not if -- she finds out.
It would be sort of like finding out that she invites her studly boss into her office each day and pays him to watch her strip down to her thong, bra, and heels while he sits on her desk throwing Junior Mints into her mouth as she dances. Not cheating, but you wouldn't be too thrilled about it, right?
2007-09-14 09:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's according to who you're asking. The thing is if you were committed to your marriage and madly in LOVE with your wife, you wouldn't be interested in looking at another naked woman. The vows state that you are committed to one person and one person ONLY. If you don't give a damn about your wife and your marriage, you should have never uttered those 2 little words, I DO, then you'd be free to look all you wanted without hurting someone!!
2007-09-14 09:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I view it more as a place for guys to shout, laugh, get rowdy and just plain blow off steam after a tough work week. A fun atmosphere. Entertainment! The men aren't there to have sex. And there not just there to get aroused by watching naked girls. Wives who think that's all it's about are missing the point.
Hopefully you have an understanding wife who will let you have your harmless fun. But if it really bothers her you should respect her wishes and not go (bummer).
2007-09-14 14:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, when I go to the strip club I actually see attention I deserve so no it's not cheating.
2007-09-14 09:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would have to say yes, if you went alone or with buddys. However, I love to go to the strip club with my hubby..and probably end up having more fun than him..drinking and getting lap dances..let him have his fun, i know he's coming home with me.
2007-09-14 09:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Leigh08 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that it is because it is one thing to watch adult movies with her but going and seeing actual girls that you can see and get lap dances with a big 'ol no no unless she likes going with you but yes it is and if you have to question if it is or not then there is obviously something telling you that it is wrong and if she wouldnt like you to go than dont..she is going to be there day and night and see you at your best and worst these girls dont care you need to stay at home with your wife
2007-09-14 09:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I consider it to be a bit like masturbation without the payoff. I mean really, what's the point?
The hard question is, is this a once in a great while thing or really frequent??? If he goes frequently, it could be sign of a obsessive compulsive disorder.
2007-09-14 09:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by parkermbg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't consider it cheating......but it would not be wise to go without discussing it with your wife. I wouldn't condone my husband going to strip clubs without me because he wouldn't like me going to one without him
2007-09-14 09:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women think so. Some don't. Ask your wife if she considers it cheating.
Personally, I don't think so. But I can see why other women would think so.
2007-09-14 09:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you already know the answer. Now if she goes with you that is a little different I guess
2007-09-14 10:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋