ok i have a bestest bestest best friend that i would die for and she asked me if i could go somewhere with her but i have a dance to go to, tonight with another friend and i don't know wat i should do go with the one that i luv or the one that i luv so much i would die for her if i had to???? HELP PLZ! THANKS!!
2007-09-14 09:58:52 · 14 answers · asked by FML! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go with your bestest friend, instead of dying for her, this will be easier
2007-09-14 10:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you tell your bestest friend you all ready have plans for tonight. If she is your bestest friend she'll understand. Can you invite her along to this dance tonight? If not you tell her you already have plans and you make plans for another day.
If you back out on the best friend then you really aren't her friend.
2007-09-14 10:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a decision you alone can make as you mention of having a friend that you would die for and having to choose which of the two to please !
It is very hard to find good, genuine friends and if some one you would die for ask you to go some were with them. There should be no hesitation on your part in knowing which way to go as that is a decision you can make alone.
2007-09-14 10:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the friend that asked you first. If the friend who u would die for was really your friend then she would understand. If you have frequent friend problems you should buy "A Smart Girl's Guide to Friendship Troubles" by American Girl (TM)
2007-09-14 10:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kammie54 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have to say to yourself could you go to the dance again in a couple of days ?could you go with your friend in a couple of days?explain to a friend because if she's a real friend she'll understand and if not then she's not worth it
2007-09-14 10:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by looopy lush lass 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u died for her, that shows how much u care an she shud understand that u mite not always want to go wit her, she will(woudlve) understanded that u need time for ur other friends too and do the same thingz, its up to u
2007-09-14 10:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by French Fry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were already going to the dance with one friend, dont blow her off for the other friend no matter how much you like them. go to wherever your other friend asked you to go with her another night. i blew off my friend for another friend once, and even though she was included in the plans she wasn't very happy because she wanted to do stuff with me and only me. good luck!
xoxo, Hannah
2007-09-14 10:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you wanna go with your other friend tell ur bff u already made plans with somebody else. if shes as good as a friend as you are she'll understand. if you wanna go with your bff just cancel with the other girl.
2007-09-14 10:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ TOKIO HOTEL ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the girl who asked you first. It's only fair.
2007-09-14 10:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by madamemeisha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her straight up. maybe invite her to come to the dance with you? just dont lie...because then if she finds out she'll get mad at you and not trust you.
2007-09-14 10:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋