Isnt it important to have a positive mental, physical and spiritual side like in the beginning of the relationship?
My wife has turned into a hog and a moron within 3 years of our marriage! Whats up with that? WORD UP
2007-09-14 12:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because one they catch you they feel they don't have to work to keep you. You only promised to love her for better or worse, not through thick and thin. So, if what you are saying is true, why haven't you divorced her?
2007-09-14 18:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by John 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone gets "comfortable" once they've been in a relationship for a while. I'm still the same size I was when I met my husband 5 yrs ago but I work at it. It's not easy. Your body doesn't stay the same as you age whether you're single married or divorced. And it certainly doesn't stay the same after you've had a child. Because women are so very sensitive to weight issues, why not just try to make better healthy choices for the family? Cooking healthier meals? Eating out less? Maybe taking a walk after dinner a few nights a week? Make it nice like walking in the park or walk the beach (if you're close) and make it more romantic than "exercise". My husband and I are trying to be more health conscious. We're cooking Weight Watcher meals (cookbooks) and just trying to cut out certain foods. We're not dieting persay, just watching what we eat and everything in moderation. And my husband works out every night and if I didn't have to chase my 18 month old around the house, I'd love to do it too! Even just a walk.... If you two team up...it'll be more of a family effort than just focusing on her losing the weight. I can tell you love your wife and you care about this issue. Not just for yourself but for her too! Just be there to support her and make sure you always tell her how beautiful she is, 100 lbs or 300 lbs. Best of luck to you!!
2016-05-19 22:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what is up with your wife. But some women are happy and satisfied in a relationship or marriage and stop trying as hard to keep themselves up. I know that this is a major mistake. I know that speaking as a wife that it is important to keep your self attractive to your husband. Keep the home fires burning. I think maybe some marriage counseling can help. It she hears this from someone out side the marriage maybe she will be more incline to listen. Good luck.
2007-09-14 12:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Janst 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"My wife has turned into a hog and a moron within 3 years of our marriage! Whats up with that?"
Maybe your attitude has something to do with it.
2007-09-14 12:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, not all women do. Women are very competitive, a lot want to stay attractive for their husbands. Women tend to turn to food for comfort, maybe she is unhappy. My answer for your question though is probably because her husband has... neglected her or, disrespected her, or cheated on her-she simply has no motivation to keep herself up for you and doesn't have the self-esteem to do it for herself. Poor girl. Its a shame she doesn't have a husband that is worried about her and loves her regardless of her looks...but at least she knows you think she is "a hog and a moron". Way to go.
2007-09-14 12:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by MR 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's funny- sorry. but maybe she has alot on her plate now, what with being a wife and all and if she has to take care of the kids (if you have any) and house. She probably gets exhausted and has no time for herself so maybe help her around the house and compliment her or take her out when she looks good so she will keep doing it- positive reinforcement.
2007-09-14 12:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try telling her that this situation is bothering you but you need to tell her in a nice way. Do you two call each other names? That is a good way to lose respect for each other. That will damage a marriage. Good Luck!
P.S Vanity is not important in life.
2007-09-14 12:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women get comfortable just like guys do. It shows how much you love your wife by calling her a moron...wow
2007-09-14 12:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
did you type right or did i read you call your wife hog and moron and then after typing word up like just just went cameo on our butts yoiu want us to oblige you with an answer
fine heres on shut thebeep up
2007-09-14 12:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by thomas f 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just guessing from your post.. She is probably experiencing low self esteem at least partially as a reflection of your lack of respect for her. Try treating her as Soul with a body, rather than just a body, and she might surprise you by acting the part.
2007-09-14 12:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋