Since i've had my two daughters im not so sexually active...is there something wrong with me? Do having kids do this to you. I could seriously go with out it......whats wrong with me
2007-09-14 11:15:44 · 5 answers · asked by *~* Amber *~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LIFE does this to you. Kids, mortgages, clogged gutters, dishes and dirty laundry are not a turn on.
Take charge. Do not let this fall away. Your marriage will suffer.
Your marriage has to be #1. Without your marriage being strong your kids will suffer.
Next chance you get just jump your husband. Wherever you happen to be. If there is nobody home do him in the hallway. He'll love it.
I don't recommend setting up elaborate romantic evenings. They are nice but the effort is too much to sustain. You can't do that 3-5 times a week.
Just BE passionate. The more sex you have, the more you want. You'll have a happy husband to boot.
2007-09-14 11:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
simply put, its burnout. marriage and kids have a way of doing that to a lot of people.
hmm...get creative. plan a weekend getaway WITH your husband. or surprise him with one. or you can do something as simple as hire a babysitter or send the kids to spend the night over a good friend's house, change gears with a warm bubble bath to get yourself in the mood and meet him at the door with just a rubberband in your hair..(smile)
use your imagination..a lot of men seem to love it when a woman takes the initiative in these scenerios...i know one thing...it'll be unforgettable and you'll giggle together about it many a days in the future...
2007-09-14 18:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Get in shape..and no im not talking about heavy workouts..but just enough sports in ur life that would improve ur health..sexual appeal and strength of body overall...i would recommend swimming a couple of times a weeks if you can.
2.Put on some sexy clothes, look your best for your husband and if you need more kinkyness..get some costumes into your bedroom "a nurse would do...oh yeah baby".
2007-09-14 19:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't beat yourself up.
Plan a weekend alone with your husband. You just need some quiet quality time with the man you love. Buy some new piece of lingerie and have a good time.
Good answer from disco too.
2007-09-14 18:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast you want it back.Good Luck
2007-09-14 18:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋