Is Love Evil? Or a drug?

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Is Love Evil? Or a drug?
Question Details: If Love makes a 50 year old virgin feel down cause he has no one and commits suicide..is that not evil?
If a girl falls in love with a killer is that not evil?
If a player uses words of love to get laid is that not evil?
If a girl commits suicide cause she feels the absence of love..is that evil?

I asked this question cause everyone talks about how good love is yet no one tells the story of those who have died or suffered cause of love or feel sad cause it's not in their...Love might be good for some but for others..it's the very thing that turns them hateful...I have seen it to many times....heard to many stories...sometimes some people who have love have the ignorant ego to tell them (aww it's ok love will come to you) when they HAVE no idea what they went through..might as well tell a person in the armed forces..(aww it's ok you'll come back0

Answer 1

I'll give you the scoop buddy. Realize it isn't the love thats failing us. Its people misusing it. Its powerful mojo and people just want to use it for its sack. Stupid move what can I say. Shot romantic love is only really a small part of what love really is, but we don't know how to use it beyond just being romantic. But just understand that it isn't love, but are enability to use it, that screw us and everyone else over. This comes down to our culture, which was a breed off of a dysfunctional view of love that came from us thru christianity, which still deep down influences everyone here in america. So we all have this confused, complex over-simplization of what love and what loving really is. Besides that it also comes from this ignorant idea of good and evil, its creation and destrution, weather somethings, good or evil can be broken down to perception and motivation. But if you got that, then you wouldn't of ask the question, but I digress. See we have some pretty darn confused ideas on what reality really is, so expect some people to use it to their advantage, even if they don't understand it. Were animals what do you expect, were an entity that can make its self survive, how is sort of up to us. But just understand from were your at, its really a tad complicated, but at the sametime pretty simple, so just keep questioning your world, and talking any answer and every answer with a grain of salt, lol, espacially mine.....

Answer 2

You have a pretty broad definition of evil there, but I'll help you out. The 50 year old virgin has more problems than lack of love. A 50 year old virgin with no friends has given no love and thus can expect none back. It was his decision to not love that was evil. If a girl falls in love with a killer, that is a foolish girl and it is her ignorance and indifference that is evil. If a player uses words of love to get laid, it is not evil. It is his lack of ambition for anything truly fulfilling that is evil. If a girl commits suicide because she feels the absence of love, again the girl is a fool and it is her selfishness in taking her own life leaving her family and friends to grieve that is evil. You can twist it how you want, but love is a feeling. Feelings aren't evil. People choosing not to control their feelings is evil.

Answer 3

If I choke to death on a hot dog is it evil?

If I clobber someone with a carton of ice cream is it evil?

If a cheeseburger makes me happy is it is drug?

If your idiotic question wastes 3 minutes of my life is it evil?