What is her problem??!!?

Question

My best friend is home for the weekend from college the same weekend that I am home. The last time I was home I hung out with her!

I tried to call her 3 times today to see if she wanted to hang out and catch a movie before 9. She never picked up and i left her 3 voice mails!

I'm staying at my boyfriends tonight and tomorrow night hence the reason I asked to see her before nine. She FINALLY called me back at 6:00 P.M. and asked if we could hang out at 8. I explained to her how I tried to call her and how I'm seeing my boyfriend!

She got VERY ANGRY and told me I could just spend tomorrow with him and how she was insulted that I wasn't spending time with her and How I wouldn't be able to see her again until the beginning of October!

WHY IS SHE GETTING SO UPSET??

Answer 1

3 voice mails? You guys got one of those "hang out with each other cause we don't know who else to hang out with" type relationships right? Because I've never had this problem, oo I've had plenty of friends but I was never 1. that jeaous to leave 3 voice mails. 2. that emotional to be upset when one of my friends doesn't make it. Almost sounds like one of those trendy cute girls relationships were the conversation is shallow and no one feels satisfied. Also kind of small feat to make it less then a month to see each other, not a good idea to allow her to be so immature, she's going to run into times were it well be years before she gets what she wants.... sad really. Ether way you slice it seems your both looking for deep, meaningful relaitonships, ones that actually satisfy you, not this kind of relationship. Usually if a relaitonship is able to satisfy you, or your able to use it to satisfy you, you don't need it like its a drug, ooo you'll miss each other after awhile, and sometimes best friends relationships were you see each other everyday, can get depressing. But since you communicate at such a deep level, the things you guys did doesn't happen. So really your dealing with being friends, but not really understanding each other, doudt you understand what I'm saying considering your still trying to keep a relationship like that together, venture to ask what the boyfriend thinks, but I get the impression he doesn't care as long as he gets his.....