i have found a cute,intelligent n studious guy in my class.i think i love him.i proposed him.he said he also feels same for me.but he can't say I LOVE U.bcoz he thinks anyone cant say what will happen in future.n he thinks he doesn't have bright future.so it will be better if i leave him.he said,if by chance in future we seperate from each other, he can't see my pains.so he told me that we should be just friends.
2007-09-14 20:27:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also said that it's just infatuation,not love.we r doing pharmacy.he was doing MBBS.bt coz of some reasons,he leaved it.
2007-09-14 20:30:34 · update #1
he told me to be PRACTICAL, n not EMOTIONAL.
2007-09-14 20:33:57 · update #2
Give him some more time. Don't rush into decisions. I think he is too practical. All the best :-)
2007-09-14 21:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a good point. He made it clear he wants to go separate ways. He does not love you. I know it hurts. But in time your heart break will heal. You will then find someone who really does love you. Do not spend your time chasing this guy. It will only drive him further away. Give him what he wants and then maybe he will change his mind and come to see that he really does love you. The fact that you stated you found a cute guy can bring one to the conclusion that it is infatuation and you are only interested in his looks. Sounds like you want a cute guy by your side.....
2007-09-14 20:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by vault 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi!
Jasmine, i was an Indian too, but now i m Australian.
okay the guy has a real practical point of view about Ur future relationship. seems like he is honest ans a good human.
so now of as u like him and so does he why u 2 can't just hang out go on dates have fun. i may seem to saying this carelessly but its what a human needs. yes have a good relation and fun with him, coz u like him. may be latter in life u will fell happy about him and u will happy memories too. when u love someone u should have happy times together.
2007-09-15 21:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Help him and talk to him and improve his confidence level. Life is to live and face the future and be happy not to think about future worries. No one knows what he/she will be. You need to have a focus on areas you like and find ways to achieve for better future. You should be able to separate love life with future (when you can not predict) so that you can be happy always.
2007-09-14 21:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's a problem for that man. Belief and confidence is a must for successful relationship irrespective of its length if it is for joy and contentment. Rest is immaterial.
2007-09-16 21:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as what he used to tell you, be practical and not emotional.. i know it's not easy to forget your feelings but you have to. you can do it girl.he helpd you by saying you could be friends and thats enough. move on now girl, don't wait for him.. if you're really meant to be let the destiny do its job to make your paths cross again.
2007-09-14 20:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by bluesk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time, and if it is inflatuations then you may leave him, but in case of true love you will get him
2007-09-14 20:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by sahil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u think negative abt him? he need to settle b4 love r marriage.so b cool and take good choice for ur future..........b happy
2007-09-14 20:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by sairam y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should atleast love a person u can belive himself
2007-09-16 00:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should think again,do u really love him.honestly,if i'm at ur place,i'll stop loving him if he said all that.
2007-09-14 20:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by ct k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋