He figures he's got you now, so he can ignore you. Be hard to get. Start taking classes, or reading books, or see movies when he's out. Make him wonder where you are when he's not there. Get out of the house, even if it's just to go to the library. Make new friends. People don't change after marriage, but they do reveal their true selves. Make sure you don't make any babies with him right now: he might not be mature enough to stay married.
2007-09-14 21:39:38
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answered by Katherine W 7
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People, especially men change after marriage, it's not just you. Men are all the same........selfish, if it doesn't benefit them now or somehow is not going to benefit them in the future......they don't want nothing to do with it! They are all clingy and loving in the beginning 'cause for one it's new and that's exciting and they know it might lead to other things....like marriage for one. But now that the fun of the pursuit is over and they have you.......they think it is o.k. to ignore you and get way with not paying you any attention 'cause hey your married or they find out marriage is not all that it's cracked up to be and fails to meet their expectations and decides that being single was actually better.
I used to think my guy was the greatest thing.....now after 3 months of marriage I found out he has been lying to me about a drinking problem and has run up credit cards that neither of us can pay! All you can do is talk to him and tell him how him hanging with guys all the time and ignoring you is making you feel....as far as cheating I need more evidence to say if he is or is not. Guys definately suck!! Good luck with your typical guy.
2007-09-15 04:47:54
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answered by Mrs. CT 4
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Perhaps he has just grown comfortable with your marriage and with you. It's not exactly a bad thing, he feels content. Try doing something different. Change your look a little or buy something special to spice things up a bit.
2007-09-15 04:38:24
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answered by Susie 1
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You don't really know if he's cheating on you unless you catch him red handed or he tells you, but if you are having these feelings you need to talk to him about them. If he doesn't change, I would suggest marriage counseling. But, really, talking to him about your feelings should work, if he really loves and respects you.
2007-09-15 04:37:19
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answered by Nikamami 2
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No, marriage doesn't turn into that- it doesn't stay the same but it doesn't turn into that. I wouldn't assume he's cheating though. Not unless you have hard evidence.
2007-09-15 04:43:55
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answered by Taddy 2
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do the things that have been done when are gf & bf.you yourself should be intresting for him. be new and fresh. yes he has changed and you should change too
2007-09-15 04:32:43
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answered by asal.s 2
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they say if you suspect it chamces are he is ....70 %
2007-09-15 05:45:41
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answered by Anonymous
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talk to him.treat him the same way he's doing to u.let's see wat happens.
2007-09-15 05:08:52
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answered by Anonymous
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