ok well my bf and i have been together since August 2005 which is alil over 2 years.
ok well things have been pretty good but the last year things havent been as good. we fight more and its about dumb things. we have talked about breaking up but havent. well anyways..here is the story..
i had my wisdom teeth pulled out and he had come after work and he was nice and stuff, brought me a little stuffed cat, a card, and a rose. well he said he would stay til midnight and i was happy about that. so i fell asleep and when i woke up at 11 he was gone. i called him and asked why he left and he started changing his stories. 1st is was cuz he said he was going to leave at 11 (not true) then he said its cuz he told his mom he would leave at 11 (he is 22, and his parents hate me) well i got upset and was totally ready to break up with him so i did and he came over at like 2am and all he did was start a fight with me while i was in pain. i told him a boyfriend wouldnt have left. am i wrong?
2007-09-14 21:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by litlmizbeautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wasnt in the hospital. i came home and he came to my house. in my eyes a boyfriend should be there when his gf needs him the most and he just takes off. we have been together 2 years. i think we have gotten passed the point of not having to do things. we are a couple and he flaked on me. i would never do it to him. he doesnt think he was wrong in leaving me alone. i needed him and he took off without saying goodbye or anything.
2007-09-14 21:35:12 · update #1
NO, you aren't wrong. If he was a true, loving MAN, he'd stay by your side like he promised AND he shouldn't have lied. He'd offer soup or anything else you can have. I know what it feels like to have the wisdom teeth pulled out and going about it alone sucks. He's a total jerk if he wanted to start a fight with you because he was in the wrong and espically if you were in as much pain as I was in. Dump him and find someone else. He's not even worth the trash under your shoe.
2007-09-14 21:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Starsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that his parents hate you probably has lot to do with why you fight all the time, they are probably running their mouth & he doesn't even realize it's them making him mad. His mom probably called & told him to come home, ask him. He was fighting with you because he didn't want to lose you. When you broke up with him you started the fight, if you ask me. What did you want him to do never speak to you again? No, you wanted him to come back so you made him mad so he would come back & fight with you so at least he would be there with you. Be honest with each other if you possibly can & have a nice long talk about everything, without yelling & cursing.
2007-09-15 04:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put someone you love through the misery of just sitting around watching you while you sleep? That sounds selfish to me. I would have told him that since I was feeling bad, he should probably not come over. That way he could have done something with his friends.
2007-09-15 04:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. I had a boyfriend that was very inconsiderate in ways like this also except we had a child together so it made it worse. To this vry day , 20yrs later he is still the same. I'm not with him, but he treats his wife like dirt and hasn't changed one bit.
2007-09-15 04:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. It's getting late, you're sitting on an uncomfortable chair in a hospital, and your girlfriend is sleeping. Why would he stay at that point?
2007-09-15 04:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did fall asleep, I am sure he was bored.
2007-09-15 04:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Miss D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋