i have been married 4 five yrs, recently i found out that my hubby has been cheating on me for almost 1yrs. i used to scroll his phone and find this particular number. so one day it rung and he refused to answer it, i decided to answer. it was a female voice when i sai hullo she switched off the phone i asked my hubby who was the owner of this phone no_he told me it was for one of his male friends i insisted then he told me it was for the friends wife i went met his friend and asked him what business was his wife having with my hubby but instend the friend did not know about his wife calling my hubby late in the night so we organise to meet his wife she came but denied the affair and said that my hubby was just her friend. i tried to ask my hubby again but this time he was very tuff and he told me not to ask him nosense. i have even gone to his sisters to ask them for advise but all in vain the only advise me to ignore him.please advise me thax in advance.
2007-09-14 21:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by halicate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe it is nothing, as your sisters-in-law suggest. You don't really know without an admission of guilt from either your hubby or his friend's wife. Or catching them in the act. If they are having an affair together there are certainly many ways to find out for sure if it is really occurring or not. Besides the phone calls, are there any other clues, or hints of his departing from your matrimonial vows? Maybe you should compare notes with your hubby's friend and see if there are some unexplained actions, or behaviors by his wife that might coincide with your husband's actions & behavior during the past year. I wish you the best of luck in this regard!
2007-09-14 21:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you violated his privacy, caused problems in someone else's relationship, are making problems within the family. because you don't think it is possible for a male and a female to be friends!
My best friend is male, we don't have sex.
Then again if my partner were a meddling, invasive, troublemaker like you, I might be tempted to just prove them right. Then again, I would probably just leave the relationship.
2007-09-14 23:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was her husband with you when you met her ? well no wonder she denied it because your not the only 1 who has lots to lose if your suspiscions are true her husband will make sure she gets nothing.
If your husband got mean , angry or abusive about it then sorry sweety he is cheating on you if not with her then with someone.Why on earth would you go to family about this ? they always take 1 side or another.
File for legal seperation and then file for half of everything or stay and keep fooling yourself into believing he isnt capable because he loves like I did for 12 months .
2007-09-14 22:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It still seemed vague as to how you're sure he's cheating on you. But if he is, you'll need to make a decision quickly. And based on the fact that you've only been married four years, it may be a good idea to end it.
2007-09-14 21:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Taddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that either the affair ends or you are leaving him. If you have to leave, ask for spausal support, and 1/2 of all the assets. Tell him that you want to be there when he tells her.
2007-09-14 21:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your best thing is to get rid of him cause i had some one like that before too. and it to me almost 19years to trust another man
2007-09-14 21:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by peggy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel sad for u.try n work things out......wil pray for u
2007-09-14 21:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋