Family - November 2007

2007-11-14 10:12:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKAY TODAY I JUST GOT INTO TROUBLE BECAUSE AT SCHOOL IM ALWAYS LATE BUT I REALLY DONT TRY TO BUT TODAY MY ASSISTANT PRINCIAPL CALLED MY MOM HOW CAN I MAKE MY MOM LESS MADE PLEASE HELP YOU DONT NO HOW MADE SHE IS GOING TO BE

2007-11-14 09:15:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

well alot of it is in the title but heres it more...well summed up :

Im 12 years old and my brother is 16... he's at college. He always picks on me and he thinks violence is the answer to EVERYTHING! I mean i know i am annoying but not as much as he makes me out to be. i do tell my parents but they only shout at him they dont ground him or punish him. They only shout at him and its effect is a big ZERO. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-11-14 09:06:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how to deal with a angry child

2007-11-14 08:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Parents who do damaging things to their children don't realize how damaging it is. Why do they do damaging things and are not even able to say sorry? not even able to realize the effects?

2007-11-14 08:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18 years old and I was living in my house with my parents with my drug addict brother. He was stealing my belongings and it was driving me crazy. I lost many valuables because of him and I NEED to get out of my house. I only have a part time job due to being a full time student, so I applied for subsidized housing. I am on a waiting list, but it feels like I'm NEVER going to be called. Can you please pray for me to get an apartment, thank you and god bless.

2007-11-14 08:37:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i ask them to do something they either say blah blah blah or say NO ,hit me or even cuss me out wat do i do they dont listen to me there are ????????? just help me please ones 3 and ones 5 im 14 and when i hit them or get them back i git hit or yelled at from my mom and tells me im not an asdultbut when my mom asks me something she goes who is the adult in the siuation.....what does she want me to do be a kid or an adult and help me about my brothers....my sister is 7 wks old so she isnt bad yet..... x(

2007-11-14 07:51:33 · 18 answers · asked by Darien 1

she has mentioned a mystery party but i have know clue how to go about it. any suggests to make it great ?? We are conservitive so nothing unappropraite please

2007-11-14 07:41:15 · 29 answers · asked by luvelyLEE23 2

I am in my late 40's so you would think this wouldn't be an issue but I cannot stand my Father. Don't like to see him, hear him, deal with him. I don't think merely being a sperm donor makes you a good Dad. Many things happened to cause me to dislike him-not the least of which is that he is used to masterbate in front of me and my sisters when Mom was gone. Now he is in horrible health; has a lot of health issues. Since I was in grade school he has been a hypochondriac and used illnesses to manipulate peolple in the community. When he actually had something happen this week that required hospitalization, no one in our family believed him. Even though I know he is truly sick this time, I resent him and don't want to deal with it. I sort of feel guilty for being so angry and hateful to him when he tries to talk to me but I just cannot tolerate him. How do I deal and not have the guilt if he dies and this isn't resolved?

2007-11-14 07:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by fixit 3

Kid is 15 and messed with my sister. Naturally, as a big brother I want to make this kid regret it.

2007-11-14 06:54:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 29yr old mother of 3...a 18month/3yrs/5yrs old. Two of the kids are from broken homes, my 3 yr old was from a different marriage when I was in the Army, the father gave up his rights and has never seen his child, the only father/man my son has ever met or been around is my husband now since he was 14 months old. My 5 yr old is alittle different his mother died when he just turned 1yrs old. My husband's parent's took the child the very day the mother died. My husband morned for a long time without talking about it until he met me which was 2 yrs after she died. We married then had our 18 month old....The 5 yr old came to live with us after that, that's when the grandparents started....I watched for two yrs not saying nothing, I started going to a doctor to try to deal with not saying anything to the grandparents....my husband wouldnt do anything because he feels he owns them for taking care of my son for 2 yrs. the things they have done are bad and not so bad...when they take the

2007-11-14 06:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by Very Sad Mother 1

current girlfriend to make threats towards me in front of the kids and he did nothing about it. Now his Aunt wants him to have a relationship with them again by meeting at her place without the girlfriend around. I really don't think I'm ready. What should I do about the hurt that just won't go away?

2007-11-14 04:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by TwinD 3

i have nowhere else to go but stay in my room to avoid him. my friends are not around. i can't lock my door b/c if i do, he picks a huge fight with me and thinks i am doing something bad. he barges in my room w/o knocking and if i tell him to knock he fights with me. when i am not around he goes through all my things that are hidden. i found my zippo on his entertainment center that was HIDDEN IN MY UNDERWEAR DRAWER. that sickens me. im only 18 and i am his daughter. he drove my mom away by doing what he does to me. and he drove my sister away too. i would be gone, but i have nowhere to go. whenever he is around i get panic attacks real bad.. and he stole my xanax that were given to me for the attacks. i caught him RED handed. i picked a fight and he didnt even care. he was taking them to take with his beer so he can pass out like a skunk likeh e does every weekend. i have no privacy. i am a nervous wreck. he does not care nor realize that he drove everyone away and that he is making

2007-11-14 04:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family's all feuding-- it's all due to my parents' divorce & everyone on my mom's side hates my dad's side, & vice versa. anyhow, my brother & I were pretty much stuck in the middle, and my mom's side did a lot of things to try & force us to pick a [their] "side" (I was renting from my grandma & she kicked me out for talking to my dad; same grandma showered gifts on our cousins for their b-days/x-mas, but just gave us cards with 'double meaning' messages in side; our mom told us repeatedly that by talking to our dad we were encouraging him to screw her over, and pulled huge guilt trips on us if she ever found out we saw him, and called us liars if we didn't tell her ALL about the visits before she found out; that sort of thing)... also there were blogs made by my moms' friends (that I’ve never met) that were bad mouthing my dad, his family, & me & my brother (and our relationships)—well, my brother commented & told the person to mind their own business…
after reading it, my mom raged on my bro REALLY bad (at his house, in front of his 3 yr old) so he told her to leave or he'd call the cops. So now they don’t talk to each other anymore, and my 3 yr old nephew is scared of my mom. She denies he was even there & bad mouths my brother (whom I’m very close with)…
I don’t know how to deal with all the bad mouthing that I *KNOW* will occur during the holidays.... but if I don’t show up, I’ll never hear the end of it!!

What should I do?

2007-11-14 04:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6

They can actually do paternity testing in the womb. She found out her husband is not the babys father however he is going to stay with her and try to work things out.

My question is who should through her a baby shower me and my mom? I feel embarrassed to even ask her husband if he has any plans. Should I be embarrased? Regardless I want to make something for my sister. Any advice would help thanks

2007-11-14 04:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by sheila 1

I want to open my own business one day but I keep getting constantly reminded that owning a restaurant will consume your life. I only want to open a small cafe', a place where people can just hang out and of course spend money.
Opening my own place is one of my biggest dreams but I'd much rather have a family and be able to spend time with them than operating something that could consume my life and destroy my marriage.

Will a small cafe really do this to me?

2007-11-14 04:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by Chuck M 2

I just kind of want to know what others think. I'm sure I'll know the decision when I get there. Mind you I really love my parents they are just a bit over protective.

My mom wants me to go to Louisville University close by home. She say she want me close and I can come home, no dorm that sort of thing.

I however have a boyfriend who is going to Unity Maine, and he loves it. I wanna study animals, badly and the more I look over Unity the more I fall in love with it. Now I want to go badly, I'm pretty sure I can get in. It'll be very far from home, but it'll give me everything I need. It's expensive I know that but it can get me where I want to be. Hands on and totally perfect.

I'm just confused, and she talked about transferring. However I would rather not transfer. I'm not the type that likes to move around, and would prefer it to be permanent then to switch.

2007-11-14 04:15:21 · 2 answers · asked by Wolf Destiny 1

i really want to get on with my mum, but she always shouts, and as i have always stuck up for my self, i shout back then we argue and then sometimes throw something at me, or slap me on the leg or head, and im fed up, i love her with all my heart but she makes me sad, im only thirteen and wish we could get on..
i dont talk to her about anything, well, i will talk to her about normal stuff like the Tv or tea time, but nothing personal..
i get on with the rest of my family, but my dad works away and when he comes home he sometimes gets mad at me too, i arent a bad child! im polite, im never in trouble i respect my elders.. and i just dont see why my mum cant like me..
Please help, its really depressing me.. thanks

2007-11-14 04:13:04 · 12 answers · asked by Darlin'x 4

2007-11-14 03:43:46 · 2 answers · asked by tdiediker3 1

Ok I have been living with my mother for four months. I finally found an apartment. To move in I need $237 in all for electric bill and deposit with is cheap. About two weeks ago I worked at the school as a Sub-teacher for five days. So I get paid next week $250 before tax. I need the money to move in my apartment next moth but my mother wants $50 dollars of that. She knows I need the money. We can't get along at all and plus she don't want me there. I thank God she let me stay until I finally found my own place. What should I do? I can't afford to give her anything if I do I won't have enough money to move out her place. What should I do?

2007-11-14 02:27:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engaged and am trying to come up with ideas for my future in-laws
my fiance's mother, sister, dad, and grandma...
Something nice but not too impersonal...
ideas please!

His sister is 19, and his dad was a preacher...
I will answer any other questions

2007-11-14 01:32:04 · 3 answers · asked by --Wedded--Bliss-- 3

pls tell me ur opinions i want to know it...

2007-11-14 01:28:14 · 2 answers · asked by shirople 1

My older family member insists that we all come to her home for every Thanksgiving. That means a long ride in snowy cold weather and a late night home trip. I want to cook my own dinner and have a few guests this year so I dont have to travel. Is it fair to be held hostage to tradition when I am an adult that wants to enjoy my own home and family? This has created an uprorar and she is livid about losing control over the holiday. I will not be held hostage by her orders. What do you think folks, ever happen to you?

2007-11-14 01:25:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's not a relative. He's engaged to my ex sister-in-law (their mom) No laws have been broken, so police will not investigate. He also travels to Southeast Asia for "business. " My understanding is that there is a lot of sexual tourism in that region especially for sex with young children. What can I do? She thinks it's perfectly fine.

2007-11-14 01:05:12 · 32 answers · asked by rucirius 3

SHE IS SUPPOSE TO KEEP THE BABY WHEN SHE IS BORN BUT TOLD ME THAT MY HUSBAND CANNOT PICK THE BABY UP BECUASE SHE DOESN'T WANT HIM AT HER HOME. SHE DOESN'T LIKE HIM BECAUSE HE HAS OTHER CHILDREN. HE SUPPORTS HIS CHILDREN AND IS A GOOD FATHER. SHE LISTENS TO PEOPLE WHO KNEW HIM IN THE PAST WHEN HE PARTIED HARD BUT THAT'S ALL CHANGED. WE ARE IN OUR MID 30'S AND SETTLED. SHE IS ALWAYS NEGATIVE WHEN I TALK TO HER. SHE GOSSIPS NON STOP ABOUT HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY. SOMEDAYS IT TAKES EVERYTHING I HAVE TO CALL HER. SHE TREATS ME LIKE CRAP WHENEVER SHE FEELS LIKE IT. SHE IMPOSES JUDGMENT ON EVERYONE. SHE CALLS ME WEAK AND SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE TOOK ME OUT OF HER WILL BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT MY HUSBAND TO SPEND HER MONEY. MY MOTHER IS DRIVING ME CRAZY. I FIND MYSELF BEING VERY PHONY WHEN DEALING WITH HER BECAUSE I FEEL I HAVE TOO. SHE ALSO STATED THAT I CHOOSE MY HUSBAND OVER HER. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT.

2007-11-14 00:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by Danny W 1

My mom is competitive in everything. I think that because she's that way, she assumes everyone else is as well. For instance, if I were to do a bunch of chores around the house when I was visiting her, she would take that as a challenge to see who is the better Christian. She's especially competitive in relationships. My dad and I are really close but it's so stressful to maintain contact with him because she takes my closeness to him and his closeness to me that as a threat. The thing is, if she didn't, she and I would probably be close too. I don't know if this has anything to do with my mom's competitiveness, but once she yelled at me to stop exercising when she came to my room one night (I was in high school). Anyhow, I'm going home for the holidays and I don't know how to prepare myself to be in that environment again. The last time I went for a visit was after about a half a year on my own. I got really depressed. How can I help it?

2007-11-14 00:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it because of pry or sensuality? What we should do with somebody like that?

2007-11-14 00:11:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no prospect in life. Without going in to the whole story, I'm 21 and have no idea what to do with my life, I cant work because of certain immigration problems, I cant go to school because I have no money so I'm just sitting around doing nothing - I've been doing this for two years!
My family dont understand because they are set, working and my siblings go to school.
My family brought me here and now I have nobody to help me, back in my country I also have nobody - No family what so ever!! I have hopes and dreams and it feels like I'm just wasting my life.
I've never lived alone - always with my family so the thought of doing things on my own scares me! But I cant sit around and wait for another two years to roll by. What should I do?

2007-11-14 00:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by musiclovermogul 1

someone give me a answer

2007-11-13 23:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

OMG OMG OMG. I just found out my sister, who's only in grade 3 ((8 years old)) searched in "google images" the following:

nakid
naked
naked girls
girls with no clothes on

and stuff like that. I was so worried I thought this might be a mistake. But when I asked her, she said: "yeah oh my gosh there were girl's boobs and stuff ew!"
well if it was ew then y did she watch it?! and she said sorry, which I was kind of surprised because she never ever obeys me or says sorry....so does this mean she's not going to do it again?! well i told her not to or else ill tell mom or dad, but Im still panicked..i dunno y! plz plz plz help me...what should i do? i would appreciate advice..thnx!

2007-11-13 23:50:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous