I have no prospect in life. Without going in to the whole story, I'm 21 and have no idea what to do with my life, I cant work because of certain immigration problems, I cant go to school because I have no money so I'm just sitting around doing nothing - I've been doing this for two years!
My family dont understand because they are set, working and my siblings go to school.
My family brought me here and now I have nobody to help me, back in my country I also have nobody - No family what so ever!! I have hopes and dreams and it feels like I'm just wasting my life.
I've never lived alone - always with my family so the thought of doing things on my own scares me! But I cant sit around and wait for another two years to roll by. What should I do?
2007-11-14 00:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by musiclovermogul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try to share in volunteer job!!
2007-11-14 00:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say that. You seem like a pretty bright person from what you write. I dont see any grammer mistakes at all. How educated are you? You dont always need education to be successful at life. Its just an excuse. Im 21 as well. If you really cant comeplete your studies. Think hard about your talents and think what you can do. For example, you could easily buy\sell\repair computers or mod game consoles on ebay, This sort of stuff isnt too hard but you have to learn the skills. You cant expect life to be easy. If you work hard enough, you can do anything.
Also, talk to people from your country who have similar immigration problems - find out what they do. Also talk to your siblings. Dont be shy, you'll be surprised how understanding they'll tun out to be. Just tell them you want to help out but dont know what to do. Ask them for advice, they'll be flattered. Hope that helps and i hope you are very successful at your life :)
2007-11-14 08:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Zohair S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest working is a place to start since you'll quickly find what you find enjoying and what you don't like doing.
If at all possible apply for permenant residency if you have the circumstances to facilitate such as civil war or poverty in your home country. If not then at least in the cases I know of people like yourself are usually stuck working low paying manual labour jobs and at the mercy of their employers who can report them to authorities.
At least if you do start working you have more options including moving legally to another country, you'll also discover what you like and dislike doing through work and if you have the money education.
Sounds like you are in a pretty poor situation kind of taken brought over like you were but you have to taken what you're given and work with it.
Don't worry theres something out there for you.
2007-11-14 08:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by SectorX4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Within your community there has to be others like you or they know of others like you ask around for work so you can save some money to go back to school and become a citizen.Because you are young it seems like the end of the world but there is always hope.PRAY!
2007-11-14 08:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always work of some sort to be done...find it, even if it's not your dream job (and trust me, it won't be) because you will learn how to function in this country in the process, and other opportunities will present themselves when you're actively trying to help yourself. Just face your fears and they will gradually disappear. I wish you all the best.
2007-11-14 08:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh get up and get a job. screw immigration, you can always start out with unskiled labor. if they deport you, oh well, at least you can get an actual job in your country.
2007-11-14 08:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋