Family - November 2007

very special to all of us...i simply do not want to use any of those names....(no i'm not one of those yet...but i'm sure it's not far off) what i was thinking was...i would love to hear some foriegn names of the granparent...i remember hearing some in my youth and thinking how pretty they sounded, i just can't recall them....please go for it and let me know what yours are, and, of course any creative names would be appreciated. (not TOO creative...lets be respectful ;)

2007-11-14 23:59:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is going to be 47
he is an ice hockey player/coach.
always working on home improvement projects

if there isnt enough information. just give a random idea that u think works


thank you

2007-11-14 23:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 21:07:04 · 16 answers · asked by Sonu 2

I unfortunately saw my younger brother (15) masturbating today morning. He had to get up early in the morning (about 6 am) to catch a bus at 7, and it was already 6:30...so I went into his room to wake him up.

I thought he was still asleep so I walked right in, but he was up, fully naked masturbating furiously to some pictures on the net. I completely froze and he came all over himself. I said "I'm sorry" and walked in his bathroom. I got a box of tissues from the bathroom and gave it to him. He was still standing there completely naked, looking ashamed and muttered "sorry" again and again.

I could not talk to him after that the whole day...what do i do? I dont want him scarred. I know everybody does it!

I also feel embarassed that I saw him in that state....(this is the first time ever i have seen him nude - after he was like 3)

2007-11-14 20:31:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My exhusband and i have a 8 month old son together. During my pregnancy, he never helped out 1 bit financially. Our divirced was finalized when i was 7 months preggo. I DID NOT list his name as the father on birth certificate for a reason. I allowed him to come stay with me to "help out" while i was on maternity leave from work and i ended up getting pregnant again. I kicked him out since i was paying ALL the bills and he couldnt keep a steady job except day labor work. I work full time as a hairdresser, I maintain insurance for myself and my children and i receive NO assistance from the state. He on the other hand has does not have a stable to live. Bounces from hotel rooms, to renting rooms, to even sleeping in his car. And no, he isnt a crackhead, just a friggin deadbeat. I have not pursued child support cause it scares me for him to get visitation. He cant even take care of himself (he's 35 years old), he truly has the characteristics of a schizophreniac. Do i have any hope??

2007-11-14 18:22:05 · 6 answers · asked by Suzy R. 3

My mom, son and I all share an apartment. The only problem is that it is a two bedroom apartment. Right now my son and I share a room while my mom has the master bedroom. What my mom wants to do is move me(just me) into the bedroom with her so my son can have his own room. I personally don't want to do this for many reasons. What do you think of this question? Would you do it/not do it? Reasons... Please no dumba** answers.

2007-11-14 18:19:15 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 4

My 16 year old wants to go live with his aunt in another city. Which means he will be about 9 hours away from home. He decided to move with her to go to a diffrent school since he was having so many problems here. After alot of thought I decided to let him go.He'll fly out tomarrow. My problem is that I am soo sad. I love my son soo much and I will miss him. He promised to call me every day. But I cant stop crying and he hasnt even left yet.

2007-11-14 18:06:57 · 28 answers · asked by Baby boy blue 3

My mom's side of the family got mostly greedy people. My relatives in the past have wronged my family so much when I was little. They worked together to make my mom cry, kicked my family out of their home, and much more. My mom's siblings all mistreated me and my siblings such as beat us when we were little, now they are afraid of me. Last year they brought nothing over and just ate. Some ate early and did not even bother to wait for my other relatives... When some people got here some food was all gone...

Besides they my grandma's house is much bigger yet they don't wanna have the feast there... My house is so much smaller, they just wanna mess up my family's home and not theirs'. I just want a Thanksgiving with only my family. Whatd o you think?

Thanks for reading

2007-11-14 17:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Closed 5

2007-11-14 17:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by what is it 5

...that I am thinking of relocating to another country with my boyfriend.I'm the youngest at home and I doubt my parents will allow me but I am in my early 20's but that doesn't matter in my culture.You just honour your parents and what they say goes...Period :-( .....!!!

2007-11-14 17:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by notybug 2

Why can't parents let their children free? Why can't they accept the fact that they're already grown up and can take care of themselves? Sometimes I was even called mama'sboy because of my MOM! Oh and by the way I'm 13 yrs. old.

2007-11-14 17:10:50 · 11 answers · asked by Troubled Gaian 1

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW I CAN BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SISTER. I AM 21 AND SHE IS 25. OUR FATHER WAS KILLED WHEN WE WERE AGES 2 AND 6. WE TALK FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT NOT VERY OFTEN. MAINLY ON HOLIDAYS WHEN I BUY MY NIECE SOMETHING. I CALL HER AND ASK HER TO BRING HER OVER SO THAT SHE CAN GET HER GIFTS LIKE, CHRISTMAS, BDAY, EASTER, ETC. THERE IS NO ANIMOSITY OR ANYTHING BUT I WOULD JUST LIKE TO BUILD A CLOSER RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN ME AND HER AND ME AND MY NIECE.

2007-11-14 16:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by MISS TT 3

and do once a week or so??
We are all adults with children, but we never spend time together. I have thought about dinner at each others houses, but what else, maybe even start a tradition.

2007-11-14 16:48:49 · 2 answers · asked by 3030gal 3

I'm 21, and I'm still feeling like a child. I do have more responsibilities now. My gf and my mom somehow want me to take care of them and to be the man for them. Since my father, in my opinion, is a rather idle man and wasnt very manly at all, I would say he is not the role model I want. I just want to ask you, what do you think I should do to become a more successful adult, and a more reliable man for my family?
Thank you~

2007-11-14 16:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by landzai 4

My bro(23yrs old) failed out from school one after another. I found him a great job doing exactly what he likes, but he ultimately stopped going and "disappeared from the job" all bc he thought walking 10mins to his office was too far. So now, he has no job. No college degree. He spends his days just eating, sleeping, watching tv, downloading movies, bitching at my parents and me, doing nothing all day, taking his anger out on our dog, etc. Saying how we ruined his life, how when he was little he used to do so well in school at times but because my parents never really praised him so he figured why work hard.
I am 5 yrs older. I took my bro in after he failed out again&again. I was working and I paid his bill. With me going to med school soon and dad losing his job recently..With no family income, my bro is still the same wasting resources and abusing us. My parents think that it's beyond them to fix this irresponsible, disrespectful adult son. They dont have the heart to throw him out

2007-11-14 16:24:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a girl, who is only 90 pounds and my little brother who is a lot larger than me, and about my height always starts crap with me and i call him "fat". after i call him that he punches, kicks, and whatever else that leaves bruises on me. my parents always think it's my fault because calling him fat gets him, but they don't give a damn about him hitting me. i hurt for hours because of what he does. what should i do?

2007-11-14 15:36:56 · 18 answers · asked by - 1

Don't get me wrong I don't hate them at all, I care about my family just as much as anyone else would

Its just that word I can't say.

I'm talking on the phone to my grandma and she says "Okay bye I love you"

"Okay...something or other"

I just can't say I believe in love outside of a romantic sense. I've never had a girlfriend though, so I can't say I've ever "Loved" anyone in the way I think.

what is wrong with me

2007-11-14 15:19:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live with my parents and I feel as if I am being mentally abused everyday. I need to get out. I am 19 years old I have 10 dollars to my name seriously. I cant work because Im a stay at home mother and a full time student. It has gotten to the point where I cry all the time I cant eat I feel what my mother says is true. I throw up because I am depressed. I need a way out.
Can anyone help me find information on someone who can help me start a new healthy life where I wont have to go talk to someone at a clinic. I feel so nervous in my house because I am constantly put down.

I live in Grand Prairie,TX part of Dallas Texas.

I need serious help.

2007-11-14 14:51:11 · 3 answers · asked by littlemissmay 4

(my parents).. ok so i never drank in high school, mostly because my friends didn't either. now i go to a party college and i do drink with my new friends on weekends (but responsibly). i'm not sure if my parents know or how to tell them.. the only reason i feel like it's a big deal is because
a). my twin brother lives close to home. he is more 'innocent' and i influence him, and i don't want to influence him to drink or anything. (he is a little depressed and also has aspergers, mild form of autism)
b). my older brother is a recovered addict- of alcohol and pot. he was never like on the streets or anything, but now he is weird about drugs and alcohol. not weird, but he tends to think everyone is going to become an addict.

so advice? it feels like such an awkward situation.

2007-11-14 14:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by regina 5

Does anyone else's mother inlaw get emotional, and controlling this time of year? Or she's too busy all year to be a grandma, but come Christmas, she's Mrs. Claus, thinking one day makes up for the whole year.

2007-11-14 14:31:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Different parents, different children.............how do you classify yourself as a child of your parents?

2007-11-14 14:11:11 · 11 answers · asked by E@rthGoddess 6

ok well i love my daddy. but on monday he came home and wouldnt talk to me. he completely ignored me and seemed angry at me. then when i asked him if i could go to spain he said no. then the next day he said no. and today my mom told him he should have let me gone. also, for 10 days he kept telling me he will think about it. then he finally said no. my mom told him he was wrong for doing that cause he should have straight up told me no instead of making me think he would say yes then say no. now hes been ignoring me. he also says the trip is too expensive but the people who cant even afford a private high school are going. i can afford the most expensive high school in my city. also, he spends so much damn money on taking his clients out to dinner and crap. and i KNOW he has the money. hes just a cheap idiot. i didnt rlly react to his answer in the best way. is there any reason he might be mad at me. also, is the economy going down? could tht b y he keeps saying he doesnt have money???

2007-11-14 14:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is horrid but she married a hobo. [Chris Johnson] I can not stand him [he killed my cat] and my dog [macy] that i paid for he says it's his and grrrrr he is horrible. My mom is so dumb. And she wants me to spend the night i told her no. But now i feel awful. But yet i feel proud. HELP!!!!!

2007-11-14 13:40:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go to youth group every wednesday and mom is always getting mad because our youth minister keeps us late but i can't help it. i'm the one who always gets blamed but i rlly don't see how this is my fault. she isn't even talking to me because i told her there is nothing i can do about it and theres no reason to get upset. do u agree w/ me?

2007-11-14 12:27:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 11:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to get the top cartalige part of my ear pierced and i have really been looking into it. the only problem i am having is convincing my parents. any advice on how to convince my parents. && for those of you who do have that part of your ear pierced, does it hurt as bad as people say it does?

please help me out here.
thanks

2007-11-14 11:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by lauren 2

i have one sister and she always say that i am fat but my family and my friends they say that u r not fat and they wish to be like my body i keep asking that question to every body i see so i stop eating and i was so tired and thin because of her to don`t say that u r big fat girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-11-14 11:28:37 · 13 answers · asked by rano 1

2007-11-14 11:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by Ethan 1

Last Christmas my little sister and her boyfriend came to pick up their child that I was caring 4 that day.Well I was n the shower ad they came n and took the alnog wih my husbands' wallet.I called the poice and made a report.Well that same day We went to their house with police and n their dumpster we found some things that were n my husbands' wallet.Well went up 2 the apartment and the boyfriend was gone and my sister covered 4 him.It made me even more mad because I would help him and her with everything (milk,diapers,clothes,rent,$300.light bill)while they smoke drugs all day.I di it 4 the baby.Well I have not spoke to neither one of them since I took both of them to court.Now my other sister has invited me to thanksgving dinner at her house and they will b there.I don't want 2 ruin her dinner but I know me.Should I go and keep my mouth shut and do it 4 my sister or should I stay at my home and enjoy my own dinner?All I want is to know why she did thy still from me?Do they regret it

2007-11-14 11:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by loretta l 3

im a 13 year old guy. i faked his signature on a test that I failed in math really not sure wat i should say to him that my punishment should be??? it has to be some what bad because if its not then he said he would make a really bad 1 ?????!!?!?!?!?! help pleeeaaasssseeeeee?????!?!?!?!?1

2007-11-14 11:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by tomzzz 1