I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW I CAN BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SISTER. I AM 21 AND SHE IS 25. OUR FATHER WAS KILLED WHEN WE WERE AGES 2 AND 6. WE TALK FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT NOT VERY OFTEN. MAINLY ON HOLIDAYS WHEN I BUY MY NIECE SOMETHING. I CALL HER AND ASK HER TO BRING HER OVER SO THAT SHE CAN GET HER GIFTS LIKE, CHRISTMAS, BDAY, EASTER, ETC. THERE IS NO ANIMOSITY OR ANYTHING BUT I WOULD JUST LIKE TO BUILD A CLOSER RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN ME AND HER AND ME AND MY NIECE.
2007-11-14 16:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by MISS TT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should tell her how much you care for her and want her to be a part of your life, cause you love her and she's your sister. Maybe you guys could do some things you used to do when you were growing up, to bring back good memories. Or have dinner together, and share interests. To build relationships, you have to take chances. So take them one at a time and build one. : )
2007-11-14 17:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i exchange into estranged from a kinfolk member for sometime. I jumped in head first and after a mutually as the newness wore off and we've been decrease back to sq. one. Now we don't talk in any respect, in spite of the fact that no longer something unfavourable got here approximately. We additionally stay 5 minutes faraway from one yet another. i know it particularly is not a similar, yet what you're able to desire to probable do is initiate slowly. Gadge your dating through fact, in spite of the fact which you will possibly no longer know WHAT brought about this separation there's a reason. Get to renowned her via going to the flicks, invite her out to dinner, or perhaps attempt vacationing your niece and sister. superb of luck!
2016-10-02 09:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by barrantes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some relationship books and start learning the basics: honesty, kindness, respect, communicating, friendship, good will, tolerance, love, etc. There are a lot of great relationship trainers and resources out there so get busy studying.......
2007-11-14 16:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep keeping the door open and maybe she will someday realize what she is missing. someday she might need you. with her being old, it is hard to open that older sibling silly attitude. talk about it. i treated a younger brother that way and after he died i realized what i had done. miss him very much still. but i was a the older brother. and was a bit alof and didn't allow a fully equal relationship. hope you break that pattern. tell her i said she will be sorry some day.
2007-11-14 16:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start by simply telling her how you feel..? That alone may open up doors and start the ball rolling towards a friendship.
2007-11-14 16:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Beth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is the only one on earth that closest to you now.
2007-11-14 17:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by maxthechiller 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋