Family - November 2007

Hi guys this might be a bit long but the story goes like this i'll try to make it short:

My mom just got a blog and not a lot of visitors .. as a daughter i kinda thought it would hurt her feelings cuz she spends a lot of time writing her blog everyday but if no one reads it she's gonna feel bad..

So i secretly signed up for different accounts and pretend to be different ppl and visit her blog and post different comments.

I hafta refresh her blog like crazy everyday to make sure visitor number increases by 1000+ everyday.

what if my mom finds out about this one day?? guys help? :(

2007-11-15 10:04:12 · 39 answers · asked by Someone 4

I did... Recently...Dont want to say what i told them but they spreded it around and now people call me things...yeah i know it sounds childish but w/e

2007-11-15 09:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa 1

Ok...so I'm only 14 and a freshman, and my parents DID let me start hanging out with a senior who is almost 18. They only let me though because they knew he was a good kid and that he comes from a good family. So we started hanging out...and my parents told me that we weren't supposed to lay down on the couch or use a blanket...but when we were hanging out once it was cold so we used a blanket and were laying down. We weren't doing anything though. So now they won't let us hang out anymore! They say that I'm not mature enough to make the right decisions, but I can tell him no, and if I tell him no, he won't do it. He even already told me that he won't do anything that I'm not comfortable doing. So I don't know why my parents won't trust me?! Do you think I should still be able to hang out with him? Afterall, they let me start hanging out with him in the first place. They just say it was their mistake to let us hang out...but they can't turn it around and say we can't anymore, can they?

2007-11-15 09:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

you get to pick your own live lobster before he gets cook for you?????

2007-11-15 09:34:02 · 4 answers · asked by pass170 1

2 days ago in algebra class at the end of the period I knocked over a chair on purpose and I started laughing.
Today in algebra class its a boy I like and in my of liking him I imagined that I killed him and them bought him a nice suit and put it on him, then I imagine that I frozen him and then took pictures.

Another thing.....
I laugh when people loose their voice.....and tears come out my eyes and my face turns red.

When im looking for something to watch on tv i keep turning the channel and I laugh at the things I see while im turning and I cant stop laughing.

2007-11-15 09:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

she doesn't ever want to cook soo i do the cooking ....... x 0

2007-11-15 09:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by Darien 1

HE told my parents numerous times that i kissed a guy at a party which he was NOT at but his friends were who told him. So now he calls me a whore EVERYWHERE and im NOT at all....most people in my grade have been having sex for yearsss and i haad my first kiss and he told my parents and i denied it to them and (me being the better child and him not having real evidence b/c he wasnt even there) so they believe me when i say that i didnt kiss anyone. BUt now i dont know what to do b/c ive tried EVERYTHING and its been months and he wont stop. i just treatened to break his laptop if he doesnt stop and he agree but the second i put it down he started calling me names again and saying things to my parents. HE is one yr OLDER than me and he goes to the same school and he just doesnt stop with this and i dont understand why...its really not a big deal and hes bringing this monster out in me which i didnt even know could exist. all i want to do is kill him. i hate him and i dont know wat to do

2007-11-15 09:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by tiffanys4eva 2

I have noticed that more and more over the years, my mother in law treats my father in law like a little kid. She argues with him in front of me over every little tiny thing, accuses him of being mean, and belittles him. A few times I actually felt like telling her to shut up and lighten up. Because if she's just kidding around, then she's not funny. That's problem number one.

Problem number two (and more importantly) over the last year I see my wife starting to do the same things here and there. I'll ask her to do something and she'll argue with me in front of other people making it look like what I am asking is stupid or something. She corrects me if I tell a story slightly wrong, and challenges me in front of friends and family. And I'm worried that my wife is slowly turning into my mother in law. Which is the LAST friggin thing in the world I want.

How do I make it all stop?

2007-11-15 09:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5

Like when their son/daughter is accused of truency. Or the fact that the son/daughter shot someone with the parent's gun. Or when the son/daughter want to move out and does something illegal.

2007-11-15 08:13:13 · 13 answers · asked by wilhelm-ja@sbcglobal.net 1

Im 14 years old. i have been living with my sister for about 4 months. My mom gets a cheak for 600$ a month from my dad that passed away. My mom has argeed to pay my sister $400 a month for basic needs. From the 4 months living with my sister my mom only sent out 1 cheak for 400$. I called and told her to send money. but she tells me its hers. my sister also calls and my mom refuses to give us money. My mom is a heavy drug user and i think shes using our money to buy drugs. do you think my sister and i need a lawer? i love my mom but my sister cant afford for me to stay at her house. she has many bills and 3 young children

2007-11-15 08:02:21 · 8 answers · asked by theresa r 1

my brother asked me why we didnt look alike and i told him it was because he was adopted
and now he wont quite cryin

2007-11-15 07:57:08 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you were married to some one who was making enough money to support the family would you stop orking or would you still work? and y?

2007-11-15 07:25:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

how screwed up is this? I posted a question about my cosuin with a pimple and if it was a sign of staph cause she has other symptoms..and some said it was...so we looked up pictures online and it looks like it so we told her mom and her mom wont drive her to the hospital or doctors cause she thinks it is just a pimple. my cousin said that i said i think it is staph and her mom is like well is she a doctor? do you know for sure that is is staph? and im like are you? how do you know its not? how stupid can you get your child could possibly have mrsa staph and you dont get up off your *** and have her checked out? she could die and you don't stop watching tv and get her help? wtf is wrong with her? when did people stop caring for their kids? (not saying all do) my mom would have me at the hospital in a heart beat! what can I do to convince my aunt to take her?

2007-11-15 07:16:33 · 10 answers · asked by Ohhemmgee_its_Angie 2

2007-11-15 07:06:49 · 56 answers · asked by Smith G 2

2007-11-15 06:46:08 · 11 answers · asked by bread 4

I am hosting thanksgiving dinner at my home this year. The problem is that my family is not like it used to be. When I was growing up we were extremely close, out to dinner every friday, family get togethers at least once or twice a month, we would all gather for dinner at my grams a couple times a week for dinner, then as I got older things changed. There are hard feelings, grudges being held, in law problems, nasty attitudes and sarcastic comments, bitterness, and in the midst of it all I have many many cousins that are missing out on what I once had. So my question is this. Is there anything I can do at thanksgiving that can help to open peoples eyes and show them that life is too short. That we should be letting love prevail. A poem, a story an activity, something. Please I need some advice.

2007-11-15 06:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by tking 2

give positive to this question

2007-11-15 05:51:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm single financial struggling have been dating for the past 27 years,she is intellegent,but is now suffering from pain on her body,should I be looking for some other young person,when Im or we are of beyond 50 years old. Is there hope for me,shall I start looking, or callit quits. Hope and despair?

2007-11-15 05:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by demitrus30 1

How do I get my husband to realize what his mom is all about? She reuined my wedding and shower. She's always getting the entire family to fight and I have enough. What do I do without upsetting my husband?

2007-11-15 05:33:09 · 9 answers · asked by kiki 2

Ok, I have a younger sister whose 11 ( for any who are confused she has asked questions on here b4) I am 13 her older sis. Ok, well its like when I just want to talk to her she screams and yells at me. And when EVERYONE else talks to her she is NORMAL. This has just started to happen. It's also getting worse. And I know I haven done anything lately to make her this upset with me. It kinda bothers me we have ben really close our whole lives and well now its like she hates me. I have told my parents her attutude, but they just say o I havent seen it.....or itll clear up. But it hasnt improved its getting worse. PLus I dont think anything is wrong in which with her lifestyle we have a very good life style so basically im trapped.....PLeas help thank you.

2007-11-15 05:28:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my mom found out that lately i have been doing something horrible. the way she found out was that my friends wrote me a letter saying how concerned they were for me that i started to smoke weed. i got it from my brothers best friend though its not mine. i hid the letter under my mattress while my mom was staying at my sisters house. then my sister kicked my mom out and now she came back to my house and some how she found the letter..i am soo mad. wat was she doing snooping in my room? anyways she wrote on the letter that she wants to have a long talk with me when she gets home from work. am i in trouble? the only reason why i started doing it was to relieve stress from school. but whatever. am i in trouble? idk what to do..

2007-11-15 05:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My birth mother won't tell me a name..All I have is a picture and was told he was murdered b4 he knew she was pregnant..He was in the service and was married..I'd just like to know where I came from..Any help would be great thanks

2007-11-15 05:00:56 · 2 answers · asked by Brat25 4

She pretended to be my friend and acted like she wanted to help me see my boyfriend who I can't see anymore. So we arranged it like we were going to the mall to go shopping but she was really just dropping me off at my boyfriend's family's beach house and she was going to come back to get me in a couple of hours. Instead my mom comes in an hour and said that Vanessa, my stepsister, told her that I abandon her at the mall when I saw my boyfriend adn went back to his place! And it looked really bad too since I wasn't wearing my clothes and I was just wearing one of his shirts since we had just went swimming in our underwear. of course she assumed the worse and I'm punished again! I still can't believe she betrayed me like this! Now, I want to pound her! What should I do? Hit her or plot some sort of revenge?

2007-11-15 03:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hav been wondering how to tell my parents....i jus freak out every time. I kno i should ...its jus i kno they r major homophobes.Wat should i do??? HELP?????

2007-11-15 02:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by hopelesgurl 2

My son is 5 months old and his father won't keep a job. II have given ultimatums, tried to kick him out, left for a couple of days, explained how this hurts me and our son. NOTHING has worked. My parents are no help. Period. His parents are well aware of the situation and last time he quit his job his father offered to help throw him out. They also offered to let me and our son stay with them until I get back on my feet. They live 40 minutes away from me, my work and my son's daycare. It would cost a fortune in gas to stay with them and maintain my present life but what choice do I have? He WILL NOT LEAVE no matter how much I scream, threaten, etc. I won't fight in front of my son. The in-laws don't know about him getting fired again yesterday after only working for 3 weeks. They are my only help & support but I know they will be so angry with him. Should I get them involved? Alternative is going crazy or watching him sleep away another winter unemployed.

2007-11-15 02:41:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6

I'm not depressed, so don't tell me to go to a specialists.

I have problems with my children's "biological Dad" He has not been there for him, he has visitation allowed from 3-5 every day but he has not come since October 10th of this year.

He owes 20,000 in child support - (were going to court in 2 weeks - with the state and he will prob be thrown in jail)

The kid's have on
My problem is, this stuff is always running around in my head, sometimes I'm upset, Sometimes i'm happy, sometimes i get so sick to my stomache worrying and stressing about what's going to happen with him and my kids, sometimes about court sessions that might come up, money for a lawyere, i mean CONSTANTLY in my head...How do i overcome this? I have other things in my head along with this that has nothing to do with him or court, but i mean how do you get this stuff to go away? or is THIS VERY NORMAL?????

Please tell me your story and offer suggestions that worked for you. ANY help is appreciated. Thanks

2007-11-15 02:27:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was living with her three years. I looked after her daughter (during the ages 9-11), did all the housework (while she worked, I looked after everything), and in the beginning of the relationship I gave up my cat for her. Now, two years into the relationship, my mom signed her car over to my GF with my approval. I wanted to help her out. Then, three days later, she comes home with a $2000.00 Shi-tzu purchased at a commercial pet store. She didn't warn me about it, just showed up with the pet (she made sure her daughter was there when she presented the dog, so that i wouldn't get angry in front of the little girl).
So, I say I don't like the dog, and she says "If you don't like it, you are going to have to leave."
So, she gets the car, and then gets a dog, then favours the dog over me. (And I babysat her daughter for months while she to school to finish her degree)... once she was done getting ahead. She left me behind.

2007-11-15 02:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family was borerline poor my entire childhood but I did have a great childhood and I like to think I turned out to be a great person. But I was a "latch-key kid" and my father was a drinker being at the bar, playing poker and losing money, often during the week. My mother is a great lady and did a good job with me but she worked late and never handled money well, spent a lot of money on the house decorating and stuff, way past the point of necessary. She was one to drink at home alone almost everynight. I grew up, graduated high school when my parents split. My parents were strong into believing I went ot college and I did. But they were never there to help me after I left home, my father was depressed about the split and my mother turned into a lady I have never known, she started hanging out with her girlfriends and going to dance clubs. I never got help with money or even any advise, now I am graduated college and have a job that hardly pays the bills, should ibe resentful?

2007-11-15 01:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Wes Mantooth 2

ok I have 2 questions, first a little history, I have 2 girls, their dad and I were never married, he was arrested when they were babies for sexualy molesting my oldest daughter and I went to court and had is parental rights terminated so he is no longer their dad legaly, I have always wondered though, since we were never married would I still be considered to be Auntie to his younger brother and sisters kids and (God forbid this ever happen) if in the future he meets someone and has more kids would those kids be considered my girls step or 1/2 siblings?

2007-11-15 01:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1

my mom favors my brother so much and its so sickening. she jumps down my throat for every little thing and im really tired. he gets away with so much its just not fair. i feel like im a little girl or something. i shouldnt have to go through this. I'm 24 and my brother is 20. I'm only home b/c im saving up for my apartment and trying to get a start on my school loans. He's home b/c he got into a lil trouble in Cali. I have nothing against my brother I love you very much, its my mom!!! When my dad tries to tell her that its not fair how she treats us, she gets on my dad and say that he is jealous!!! how can a father be jealous of his own son?? i really think that my mom has gone mad!!! what should i do??

2007-11-15 01:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3