She pretended to be my friend and acted like she wanted to help me see my boyfriend who I can't see anymore. So we arranged it like we were going to the mall to go shopping but she was really just dropping me off at my boyfriend's family's beach house and she was going to come back to get me in a couple of hours. Instead my mom comes in an hour and said that Vanessa, my stepsister, told her that I abandon her at the mall when I saw my boyfriend adn went back to his place! And it looked really bad too since I wasn't wearing my clothes and I was just wearing one of his shirts since we had just went swimming in our underwear. of course she assumed the worse and I'm punished again! I still can't believe she betrayed me like this! Now, I want to pound her! What should I do? Hit her or plot some sort of revenge?
2007-11-15 03:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Revenge is never good! Kill her with kindness. I'm not saying hang her around her all the time or try to pretend like none of this happen. Now that u know what type of person she is! be careful of what u do and say around her. She may be tryna win ur mom over and she thinks that snitching is the answer! Bang ur lil punishment out and kill her with kindness! Good Luck!
2007-11-15 06:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tashay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well put that upon your self cause you were the one sneaking around right? your mother told you that you could not see this guy any more. and you went behind her back. So don't blame your stepsister for that one. You would of been caught sooner or later.
But your stepsister didn't help matters right, she was a tattail but i wouldn't stoop to her level. Yes she should get punished. but I would just not trust her ever again.
I would go to your mother and explain everything to her sit down and have tea with her. Tell her that you really like this guy and would like to havve permission to see him. Is there a reason why she doesn't want you to see him anymore? Don't plot her to do some sort of revenge on her. You will dig yourself a deeper hole and more trouble! DON'T DO IT. DON'T DO ANYTHING --- JUST DON'T TRUST HER EVER AGAIN. JUST IGNORE HER WHEN SHE WANTS YOU TO DO SOMETHING THAT CAN GET "YOU " INTO TROUBLE.
2007-11-15 04:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you'll hate hearing this answer but...
Maybe you should try not sneaking around behind your mom's back in the first place. Your mom is just trying to keep you safe. By getting caught wearing only your BF shirt, you have pretty much confirmed her worst fears and my guess is that she won't trust you for a VERY long time.
Taking revenge out on your sister is wrong too. She isn't the one that screwed up, you did. She may not have even done it on purpose. It may have been that your mom asked where you were and she had to come up with an excuse as to why she didn't know where you went.
In any case, good luck.
2007-11-15 03:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have turned you in, which was not very sisterly, BUT you made the decision to go to the beach house. Being "set up" implies she tricked you or somehow enticed you to go there, without any planning on your part, which is a falsehood. So bite the bullet and take the punishment. Now you know you can't trust her so it's a lesson learned. And if you pound her or take revenge, you don't think she'll turn you in, again. Some people are slow learners!
2007-11-15 03:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not trusting her again. Other than that just ignore her as best you can. Pounding her is only going to get you in more trouble and staying mad at her enough to plot revenge usually takes more out of you than it will out of her...
2007-11-15 03:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if I was your mom, I would have done the same thing. I would have punished you too for going to your boyfriend's house and just wearing his shirt. You don't say how old you and your stepsister are, but put yourself in your mom's shoes and see how it looks.
2007-11-15 03:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
DONT sink down to her level, revenge is not right even though it may feel good at the time. Hitting her will only result in more punishment. Ignore her. What she is trying to get is attention, dont give it to her. If she doesnt get wat she wants she bound to let up sometime.
2007-11-15 03:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by angelbuff_01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have some great revenge tech. put nair in her shampoo. put shaving cream and toilet paper on top of her car. put gum deep in her hair while she is sleeping so she will have to cut it. tell a guy she really wants him and drive her freaking nuts
2007-11-15 03:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
although i think its not very moral of me to say this, def go with revenge, remember too, revenge is a dish best served cold
2007-11-15 03:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by a_complicated_goddess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋